Annette Jayson
Annette Jayson was born in Dallas on June 7, 1927, into families she proudly called pioneers. Her mother was a native Dallasite from the large Tobolowsky family, whose grandfather Sam Tobolowsky had come from Europe, worked as a peddler with a horse and wagon in the countryside south of Fort Worth, and became a charter member of Tiferet Israel. Her father emigrated from Russia around 1911 to 1913, sponsored by his uncle Joe, who ran a bakery in Dallas. Over the following years her father's mother, father, and siblings were all brought to this country. Her father later helped form the Goldman Baking Company with his brother.
Annette grew up in South Dallas, attending Colonial Hill School, Brown, and Forest Avenue High School before graduating from SMU. She stayed close to home during college to be near her ailing father, who died in 1943 at age 51. In 1951 she married Bill Jayson, a New Yorker who had come to Dallas for work in the garment and fabric business; they were introduced on a blind date and wed at the Baker Hotel. They raised three children. Their oldest son, developmentally challenged, lived at the Denton state supported living center, and Annette faithfully made the drive to visit him for decades.
A devoted member of Shearith Israel, which her husband had joined before their marriage, Annette leaned toward synagogue life. She helped continue the family's strong ties to both Shearith Israel and Tiferet Israel, kept a kosher home, and was active in Mizrahi women (later AMIT) and the sisterhood. Family remained central to her life, from the large Seders of her childhood to the monthly cousins gatherings and reunions, including a hundredth anniversary celebration with 160 people at Shearith Israel. Active in the Dallas Jewish Historical Society, she was committed to preserving the stories of the many families who built Jewish life in Dallas.
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today is December 7th 2011 we are here at the home of Annette Jason welcome and my name is Rosalyn Benja and our videographer is Ruth Andrus and we're going to hear the oral history of Jason and that were you born in Dallas absolutely June the 7th 1927 my mother was also a native of Dallas I think you would call us pioneers and I'm very progressive I never had my name is Roslyn been Jett and our videographer is Ruth Andrus and and that tell me about your family well I'm a native Dallas sight my mother was a native down sight she was part of the Tobolowsky
family here which has quite a few divisions they sought the proper word but branches branches thank you yes and my daddy emigrated from Russia he went 8 WOL from the Russian army to get to this country and he was sponsored by an uncle Joseph who had a bakery business started here at the time and my grandmother daddy's mother in Joe Scheffer sister and brother and eventually all of Hama Hayase family were brought to this country by Uncle Joe chefs do you have any idea when that it was I think my daddy was either 1911 or 1913 in 1911 my uncle Jake Goldman he was next
younger to my daddy came to this country to work so by 1914 my Zadie and Bobby and the rest of the children had settled between 1911 and 1914 was a progression of their coming to this country right and these are your mother's my date is that easily and that's whose ad in that's my Sadie it was taken on the steps of sheriff Israel when sheriff Israel was located big Park and ikan Street by old city park is that called Heritage Park now yes and his name remains on the plank which used to be the Selassie chapel mayor Goldman because he was one of a group
that used to come Saturday afternoon to study before the evening service on Saturday very pious man didn't work after he came to this country but he had a family that he didn't need to work and that was good good for him and I'm sure good for everybody and that this was your daddy's my daughter's family tell me about your mother's family well mother's family I don't know where they came to this country I'll have to call Peggy Tom Polaski she's the family store their family has stirring and she's done I should have gotten out that family tree that she did they moved here my my
grandpa's name was Sam Tobolowsky and my buddy's name was Timmy and they moved here from Wichita Falls I know that my oldest aunt Lena who was married to max Rosenthal was born in Wichita Falls my mother was born in Dallas she was next to the youngest and her brother the only son of the family max or mottle as we used to call him was born in Dallas but I think the others were born in Wichita Falls but the parents came from York you think parents oh I know they came from Europe and my grandpa was a peddler he had a horse and wagon and he
covered the surrounding area remember them talking about Alvarado not sure where all right oh yes south of Fort Worth south of Forth and he all of the places where he stopped he carried a lot of sewing notions and staples that farm people when he women would use and they knew it was Jewish and they knew it was kosher and if he ever had to have room and board they would have hardball things for him for because he wouldn't need anything else and he worked long and hard he was very fair but firm one of my cousins called him tough I think that's because there was
a loan dispute that didn't go well and but he invested real estate and he was what used to be called an upstanding citizen active in the to ferret Israel congregation he was one of the charter members into fourth Israel and his name is on the placket to further Israel so that would have been in the 1890s oh yeah my mother was born 1897 and so it was after or maybe before that time and when they were located they used to call it North Dallas which in those years it was North Dallas it's very close to where the toll road was built and I vaguely remember
the women sitting upstairs with curtain and then you couldn't see downstairs well the women weren't supposed to look downstairs anyway they were supposed to have the book open even men were supposed to look they were supposed to have the book open but it was a very close community my Bubbe was the Midwife she helped deliver a lot of the Donsky babies if you know the Donsky family here and they grew up very close and where did they live at that time my grandpa and Bubbe left on Caroline Street 24:01 Caroline I remember the living room I remember that huge wood-burning stove in the kitchen and
I remember that they ate it I don't like a screen porch and when they finally added indoor facilities it was right off the screen porch there for the days where in my grandpa believed you didn't spend the money until you hate it it was an old thought it's not practiced a lot now so your mother went to school and dad my mother graduated the old Crozier Tech they called it Bryan high in those years in my uncle graduated they didn't go to college they did graduate high school and your father my father wasn't educated what education he had was from Russia and the business world
right so what did he do when he arrived he worked for Uncle Joe ships in the bakery he didn't he was not a baker he was part of the sales force and after so many years he and his younger brother Jay Coleman went out on their own inform the Gulman Baking Company which was on Corinth Street near downtown and then they also had a bakery in Oak Cliff and my daddy stated the current location and my uncle stayed at the opening because he lived in Oakland no that fast that was my family's business to talk about that later okay so how do you think your
parents met do you have any idea I don't remember hearing the story of how they met but I remember that my daddy wasn't a citizen yet and some of the elder ladies at the time thought oh she's marrying the greenie and my daddy was a very nice-looking man and very socially well-liked and very honorable businessperson and they had a wonderful marriage he died very young he's just unfortunate that he didn't get to enjoy the years yeah any idea yes they married in 1920 and the wedding certificate what's the ketubah is hanging in my Hall we can photograph things later the and I think rabbi Blumenthal
was the efficient he was originally from Waco I'm sure the ketubah will say where it was but they married here in Dallas and they wear their first home was I grew up in a home on Colonial which is now a freeway we moved to Park Road John Henry Brown School District and Forest Avenue high and when the neighborhood changed integrated I think it's the word to use why my daddy had already passed away and mother moved out this way but so you grew up in South Dallas oh absolutely I've seen that the neighborhood when you were a child well we used the streetcar to go
downtown and mother was active in the PTA a colonial Hill School and we had a I think it was a close knit community if there was anti-semitism at that time I never experienced it and all of the women at the school worked together really well and they all had different jobs and from year to year they knew that that was going to be their job when they had a carnivore Bazaar or whatever they called it but people were neighborly you knew all of your neighbors and interacted with them shared their lifecycles and what kinds of things did you like to do when you were child
I guess I was near normal in those years I liked to go to the movies and just get together with friends many favorites and the movies no I didn't I wasn't keen on westerns I like the musical operetta type of movies I'm not cultured like the Andrus well I was a and I have a friend who's an accomplished violinist races planet and she's worked awfully hard to get me interested in the symphony and other arts she's still working at it I don't know but how did you have any brothers and sisters I had an older brother Joe Joe Herman as we called him that was
both of his names he was very active he was the I felt like I was so proud I grew up his Joe Herman's sister that's okay and he was on the City Council very very young and he was deputy mayor and I went on to be in the legislature in Austin and after he left the legislature he was lobbyist for the Baylor Hospital and for the community college system he worked for his father-in-law Simon Goodman on the market it was Goodman produce he married Francis Goodwin and she was she is a native Dallas side she's been taped she's all ready and because it was a
family business he was able to use his share his time with the community it's not a biased big person big roots will attest there's some pictures in here because my daddy was the oldest why our family come is the first family featured we used to have wonderful satyrs my Sadie had to say later at his house he lived on Beaumont Street and these are some of the pictures from from the from the Seder faders I have the actual pictures in the hall go to that way and sit working oh yeah she's just kidding right well I know I didn't know if it was enough of
their wonderful pictures they are wonderful pictures my brother and his wife have four children and their family one son died many years ago the dollar is the oldest and she really edited this book as well as a wonderful cookbook of family recipes very very bright very talented and that is accurate opinion and we were in those years I guess right after my daddy passed away the family started getting together the first generation monthly for dinner they would alternate mother would have it and then the next down the road would have it when my mother had it my brother and his wife would go and I
would go and of course when I was married bill and I went and the family estate together we still have a cousins group that meets once a month for lunch or dinner great and they still although most of them in Dallas yes everybody remained here now there's some offspring Julia's coma aunt Rebecca there were two daughters in the family Rebecca Coleman and Bertha Nathanson and aunt Rebecca's older daughter lived here and was married here but her children live in California and they're in touch they get all the news items that one of the cousins Sensa and but the ones here we try to do well
we did this celebration in September and hopefully we'll do a picnic in the summer there's usually about 80 at the picnic for this 100th anniversary if the brunch at sheriff Israel we had a hundred and sixty people Wow well that was all the generations and we were very fortunate that had a few out-of-towners in one of the younger uncles Oklahoma his daughter no daughter was the only one that moved away she's deceased but her two sons came with their wives and family and another daughter that hadn't passed away and lived in Denver her husband came with one of his daughters and it was just a
really great time for everybody to remember their heritage and that's what it's all about that's wonderful how about school you said you went to the colonial colonial Hill school then I went to brown for the last year of elementary school graduated Forest Avenue High School it's now called James Madison its then they don't call that forest David and I think that's Martin Luther King honey it's very close to Fair Park I graduated SMU my daddy was quite ill at the time I graduated high school and I just couldn't see leaving home to go to college with him there was one here I could go and
be close to and he passed away in 1943 he was 51 years old so I was glad I stayed because I felt like it helped me to be close to my mother what kinds of things were you interested in when you were in school oh I leaned more toward the business I wasn't too good in accounting but I got through it enough to get a bachelor it's this administration degree and worked for a couple of insurance companies one of them was for a farmer governor who went into the insurance business w Leo Daniel he got elected by traveling around the state with a country small
music band have you know Dan Pappy O'Daniel that's right and he was also in the flower business I don't think the bakery was ever a customer but he's so flower too and a few different things and then Along Came Dale and my well let's let's not go there yet yeah it's ok that's ok what year did you graduate from SMU 44:47 what are you doing as a young single lady oh we used to well in those years people really dated now I think the custom is for groups to go and there was a place called Luann's was strictly dan very wholesome place all right I
was and I guess all my friends workers something to me it was awesome and we used to go in large groups there and be together and dance from the evening movies and occasionally dinner in the moon okay I lost my train of thought so we were talking about the tiny social dislikes yes yes and I had a Content our cousin it was a contemporary Stanley Leventhal who married and moved to Houston and a lot of times we would be together and my cousin Anita whose father was next to my dad and he lived in Oak Cliff so we did not really we got together as
individuals but not socially and she went away to college she's really smart I think and she had more of her career than really I did she married a little bit later but not that much now let's go back a while okay and during the war what was it like being in Dallas you were in high school and in college at the time we had the usual dances at the USO for the younger people and really I remember mostly my brother was stationed in Tyler Texas and when he would come home for a weekend he would usually bring a Jewish single fella or maybe a Jewish
couple that they knew to his mother-in-law's home she they had a large home on South Boulevard and they could accommodate the guests and some of the one family particularly lives in Minnesota are still in touch with all of us but it was a time of stress we were fortunate my brother did not go overseas he served in this country but we were touched by the war and touched by the food shortages and especially keeping kosher there was limited meat for my mother who was a lovely homemaker the restrictions sugar and some of the other items effectiveness but you know we thought we were going through
really hard times and in retrospect we all made it and none of us got thin so you must not have been too bad now how did you meet your husband blind date lady by the name of Ian burner her daughter sally was married to a cousin of mine Sam Rosenthal and she belonged to it was a Jewish club called the it may come to me and it may not and my husband was a member and she knew him from there and she told him she had this girl that she wanted him to meet and in those years people were more accepting of blind dates now
I think you have to go through personality analysis I don't think that they'd interested in the family background but it's just not a cc kids and he was older than me by 10 years and I just wasn't quite sure but it's continued to date why I felt like it was gonna work now was he also a Dallas no he was a New Yorker and people that know me say bell left New York but he'd still had the New York with it he was a Salesman really by trade he was in the manufacturing business for a while on his own but in his later years he
sold fabric for some New York firms and still travel back and forth for them but at that time there was a big market in Dallas of manufacturers where there were customers and successful people in the business gone by the wayside really now and but he traveled a great deal of the early years of our marriage so he turned up in Dallas because of business yes he came down here to work and was a case of where he did well in his work and he hadn't known two of his brothers were doctors the oldest brother and the youngest brother but the brother immediately older than he
was also in womenswear and he moved down here and then they brought his mother and father here and bought a home for them you know their family became down sights Texans so how long did you date Oh over here it won't sound right I did go with other people and it was a matter of [Music] deciding who was going to be at one point I think I made the right choice so when were you married in 1951 and we had a big wedding well in those years you didn't serve dinner in a wedding so you couldn't manage more people it had to be big to
get all the family there because the Goldmans were a big family and mother had an extended family on her side and we married it the synagogue no no we married it the Baker hotel which is long gone and we married on April 1st in the rabbi made note of the fact that it was April Fool's Day and was it the rabbi from sheriff Israel Israel Weiss failed and how Jewish affiliations during your childhood did your family belong to oh yeah sure at that time oh yes that was in my husband who was a member of shared Israel before we married it was a conservative synagogue
it was already concerned in those days yes it was always mix eating a sheriff is real even when you were a little child uh-huh except they were wooden benches and it's a family grew it got really crowded on those wooden benches so it worked to everybody's benefit when they went to built a new synagogue and oh no we were always in it one time we went mother wasn't affiliated at the time with the ferret this room but we had ties because of my grandpa being a charter member and so much of her family extended family was there and butchered his rule was home and how
did your family celebrate Jewish holidays observant I guess is the word we always went to shul and we always got together after my brother was married with Francis's family for meals in Passover and so forth but always is a family right so in the pictures so that you showed us about the satyrs that would have been that was my childhood as the family grew well after my Sadie died everybody started doing their own things so to speak because just too many people it was too many people even in those years did your parents belong to any Jewish organizations other than the synagogue there was well
to the service groups mother was active in the memory is gone there was a group out of Denver that had a hospital for tubercular people yes and they well they contributed to that they didn't raise funds for that but mother was act it was a member of the used to be Mizrahi women that's now called I meet women I'm not sure she may have been a member of Hadassah I don't remember and there was a group here called save a life there was a Brandeis group and mother was active and all those night my daddy affiliated with the Rotary Club here and there's a salesmanship
Club here made up of businesspeople he was very active and that worked for me they had a camp for disadvantaged children didn't excuse me I think they still have that camp and he they had a golf tournament every year and he helped race he worked in that area but he was very much very active in the show they had approached him to be president my mother said no one he was respectful of her so we didn't but I remember when we had a Sukkah on Park Row and when it came time to get the branches the rabbi at the time was rabbi Gould and he
went with my daddy to the Shep's dairy farm and gathered the greenery from the covering from the top of the suka and here comes the rabbi with all the greenery and Carter Roy sport coat and the tweed fans he looked like a real English person in the little goatee very imposing individual now did you attend Sunday school where he was going attended Sunday school and I went to the Hebrew school called Herzl Hegel it was part of me a good Asylum but I was blamed my mother decided that I needed to do that because I didn't learn to read Hebrew and I can follow the
surface and and your family was kosher on all that hot waste that's a there's a lot of spice in our life Ross when you keep kosher I know very well then I don't have to explain how about the relationships with the Gentile community during that time we always had my daily especially in the business world had Christian friends and they would dinner together and socialize together had very good relationships a lot of these people were in related industries like Fleischmann's yeast or some of the flour companies but they had good working relationships in some social activity together there wasn't didn't seem to be a division
in their wives everybody knew where they belonged and they got along very well together let's go back to you as a newlywed okay that was fun everybody was telling me what I should do does that sound normal especially with both the families living here well my mother-in-law not so much but my mother was a good director and that's good I think I learned from her grateful for did you continue to work I with their very limited I had a lot of leeway when the children came along why I had shorter hours I always say domestic health my our oldest genius is developmentally challenged it's not
politically correct to say anymore and so he required more attention and when was he born he was born in 1952 he's 59 years old and he resides at the Denton state supported living center it's operated by the state bill was traveling at the time and he investigated some of the private private facilities but this was built well he's been there 50 years so when in his young years and it was practical for us because of the proximity to home and we knew we could see him and being a part of his life and he'd be a part of our lives and that's the way it's
been and we're very grateful for the facility Allen Susan came along later they went to the dealy school which is now a lot of Surrey school when were they won 56 and 60 now and this is the young and they both went to Franklin and then to well hell went on to st. Mark's and Susan Lee graduated Hillcrest and they both went the University of Texas now finished there and then he went to the Medical School San Antonio for his training as a radiologist well he started it he did medical school there and then he did a internship in charity in New Orleans and then it in Houston was a part of the Baylor system and then he was at Southwestern for a couple of years before he went into a practice at Baylor in Grapevine where he is now and what about you and your husband you will continue to belong to share Israel oh yes that was a
desolate part of our lives and did you have any activities in the Jewish community that were favorites of yours at that time well I I leaned more toward the synagogue in my mother and there was a rabbi Abramowitz that lived here many years ago and he initiated the idea with Francis my sister lost mother Sophie Goodman to create a Mizrahi women chapter here and there were 13 women that started the group and it just fell in order that I would be active in that group I was active in mizrahi before it became I meet women and I was active at the synagogue at the sisterhood
in Sharon Israel in those years members of other groups but not active we as an immediate family were always interested in what activities Judas had up at dinner and participate up there not continued to do that let's talk about Dallas there's no place better what was tellus like when you were a child well I always say everybody knew everybody and my mother told me oh when we married you can't talk about anything they saw what we did have a big family and still have a big family for which I'm grateful we did a lot of things together his families and when it's smaller you're more
involved I think the life is just really different today you don't have the time so to speak to give to all the extended family and sometimes I have a hard time seeing my friends I may talk to them but don't get to see them because of other environments but there was a quality of life that it's still here but it's just a different quality how do you think the city itself has James well besides the physical growth I have a lot of issues with some of the people serving the city in my brothers time and I remember that more vividly all of the people serving
on the council in in city positions were very successful businesspeople very honest people educated people and I think they had the foresight in the goals for Dallas that we needed a lot of them have been achieved them but you have a different type of person surfing now the City Council and I'm not saying there weren't some at that time that weren't self-serving but I think we see more of that at this point than we did in those years and that's a negative change yeah how about the Jewish community how does that change we've got a lot of immigrants you know New York the Midwest and
they're welcome they're mostly positive additions to our community when they have lived here and hopefully if they like it they become quality members of the community they serve all of the important needs of the community in different ways and there's a lot of different areas of service and I guess I admire the people that make time to serve others so here we're mentioning about your friends and you said one of your friends was Francis flood have you retained any other friends yes I have another friend from early childhood her name is Hannah barren and where we don't get to go I don't get together with
either one of them that much but we're fun friends still in family friends and involved with each other's families talk about your family now well they're very busy I spend a lot of time with you yes sir for his needs and try to be a support in that direction and I don't think twice about it because it's what I want to do I think twice when somebody mentions me driving back and forth to Denton yes I tell him as long as I'm physically and mentally able that's what I'm going to do how grateful he has a wonderful wife she's from Toronto originally and I think
she's gotten used to Texas and they had this precious little girl we were saying that the twin little boy didn't live and what are their names the little girl's name is Kaia and I spell it because it's an unusual name and I think if people hear how it's spelled they can understand the pronunciation K a I lie a the little bard was Blake Ellis blacklist for my husband Bill and Alice was from her mother Esther they were identical uh she came home from the hospital she was bigger at birth they were teeny preemies that's how described them but like and Caillou looked exactly alike and
it birth both of their coloring was more like house pale in the reddish side but Cayenne it's exactly like her mother's so she's going to be pretty mean I didn't think out I spell it Janine I'm so used to spelling everybody's name Janine and Janine's been she her parents live in Toronto and she has two sisters that are married and live in Toronto she's the youngest of the family and they met on JDate and he's and he told the story at the time that when Hal came up there they had already met and she had come down here to visit and he made arrangements for
her to stay at the Westin and she didn't realize when she was unpacking there was no toothbrush so she called downstairs an operator answered yes mrs. Jason works someone there was something at the hospital at that time a party and somebody asked her a very leading question she says I just got here but they're very happy I'm very grateful they live not too far from here it's about a mile they bought a home now it had a condo on Turtle Creek and I'm glad they did and I'm glad they chose where they did because I was close by and how about Susan and Susan and her husband live up north when she first moved there close to Preston in Frankfort I said she that's like South Oklahoma I don't think they cared
for that but anyway and their little boy William is 12 they chose him nine years ago and he's been a real joy it's born in Russia and he's from our finish he used to get to spend more time with him but as he's gotten older he's a tip of tizzy he's busy but I think he enjoys coming here and I know I enjoy him coming is there anything that you want to add before we walk around and look at the pictures no I hope you've ever done anything oh I don't think so I think there's one thing that is just too bad you don't get
paid you do such a look on the Dallas Jewish Historical son you were very active in yes well but I'm part of Dallas and I've been here a long time and I wanted to grow and I wanted to involve other people to preserve what needs to be preserved I mean we didn't just happen here there's a lot of stories with not just my family but many families that I think are important for those that follow us and we're trying to get them all I think y'all have done a wonderful job whose caduceus mother in daddy's English ketubah no this isn't this is different but I
think this is the back of the are the interpretation this is the merit of marriage certificate a piece of mother and daddy as Jew just going in Esther talansky okay our marriage license the blue one at the other end is our ketubah but this is the English the rabbi's name is here this is my father-in-law isaac Jenkin Jason my mother-in-law called him Ike that's Bill this is the younger brother Arthur he lived in New York he was the ear nose and throat and then he went into allergy specialty it's my mother-in-law in Clem was the oldest of the family he's a radiologist he lived in
California and Bob first son's second son Bob it was a business person picture which is later I think I must be about six years old and this is Anita here my brother here and this is my daddy and that's this ad and this are the rest of the family and this my mother back here this is auntie ship's her husband was Joe the uncle that sponsored them this fader picture was an earlier picture because mother is holding my brother and I think I can't see the date on the calendar without a lot of magnifying but I he was born in 1924 I don't think he
was more than a year or two at that age he was always a big baby and so he could have been maybe a year old at the time and the family was small this is George Goldman who was his contemporary Adly Nathanson another contemporary those were the cousins that were all born within a year's time of each other and in those years Joe Herman and George and I don't see red Coleman here he's gone maybe this is red : they used to go with my Zadie to show on Saturday and then they'd go to his house for lunch afterward you