Bob Goldberg
Bob Goldberg was born in 1927 in Dallas, Texas, a self-described Depression baby. His father was a violinist by love but worked mostly in pawn shops to make a living, while his mother sold hats at a downtown store. The family lived upstairs in a two story house on their street in South Dallas, with his mother's parents and three of their children living downstairs. His grandfather had come from Ireland and his grandmother from Russia, and Bob felt his grandparents were like second parents. One grandfather worked as a tailor downtown and another worked in and later owned clothing stores. Though times were hard, Bob remembers a happy childhood spent playing ball outdoors with a group of friends, listening to radio shows, and living in a neighborhood with almost no crime.
Bob attended grammar school and Forest Avenue High School in South Dallas. After graduation he spent a semester and a half at the University of Texas before enlisting in the Navy at seventeen, partly so he would not be drafted and partly because many of his friends were serving. He completed boot camp and radio school in San Diego and was stationed at a radio station in downtown San Francisco, where he worked as a radio operator sending messages about troop locations out into the Pacific. He served about twenty months for the duration of the war. Returning to Dallas, he married Lois, whom he had first dated on their high school graduation night, in November 1946.
Back in Dallas, Bob attended SMU on the GI Bill while working about forty hours a week, and graduated with a degree in business marketing. He soon joined Commercial Metals Company, a large recycling firm, where a close friend had helped him get the job, and stayed for 32 years. He rose from cashier to assistant manager, then scrapyard manager for twelve years, and finally area manager overseeing seven scrapyards, later training his two sons who went on to open their own scrapyard. Bob and Lois raised a daughter and two sons and delighted in a large extended family. He served on the board of the Jewish Community Center and coached youth football, baseball, and basketball there, and his advice to future generations was for parents to spend more time with their children when they are young.
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about 1927 Dallas Texas let's go back to when you were just a little boy what can you remember about life in your just little my mother and dad worked and just played outside all the time there is no air conditioning at that time yeah what is your dad do for a living he was a violinist which his love you when he got married he had to go to work to make a living and he worked mostly in pawn shops on d found your mom were she worked out she worked in the military selling hats downtown my dad did not own the pawn shop she just
worked there yeah now you know you were a depression baby yeah your folks ever talked about how that affected the family not at all okay so you weren't even aware that there was a depression no we didn't have anything and but kids up ran around with it have anything either so we didn't know any better you remember your grandparents at all yeah I do tell me about your grandparents well my we lived in a two story house on coney on South Dallas we lived upstairs in our grandparents lived downstairs with three of their kids and grandfather was from Ireland grandmother from Russia and they were
like more like parents to us to make ya do they ever tell the stories about how they came here why they came to know they did not you know if they left family back behind I I do not doubt if you know these were your mouth Spencer dead spirits these are my mom's parents okay and what did your grandfather do he was a tailor on acrid street in downtown Dallas and he worked in a clothing store then he had a tailor shop of his own now what about your grandparents on your mom said well my grandfather worked at clothing stores downtown then he had a
clothing store ah and oak cliff now do you know where your grandparents from inside came from yeah my grandfather came from Ireland and my grandmother Russia and where did your dad spirits come from I think he came from lush i'm not sure if you live with your grandparents then well they live downstairs we lived upstairs okay so it was a my mother folks where did you go to grammar school conyo and South Dallas okay and you know when you guys were small it was in the late 20s and everything what did you do for fun we played ball outside and just I'm out at night
they were for life five or six of it and this is mostly when a young teenager and none of us had any money so we didn't know any better or kids that did have money no there was no TV obviously but it's guys listen to radio radio shows we listen radio mostly on Sunday everybody at that time said on the front porch in the evening and if Joe Lewis was fighting I could walk down the street I could hear because everybody had on the Radeon on the front board there were maybe six Elvis together none of us had any money none of us smoke and
that we didn't never heard a dope or marijuana at all probably the worst things we did was steal plums and peaches off the neighbor's yard but none of us ever got in any trouble and if you had a fight at school after school it was a fistfight now they use guns and knives and none of us ever gotten any trouble at all it was basically no crime at twelve o'clock at night you can walk down the alley the service houses were in the back of the main houses and we would go to the school grounds be there at night play games but it's not like
now you can't walk out down the street so did you have a regular group of friends you play ball with all that that's correct we we play ball in the summer all day every day in the what player were you were you Mickey Mantle no no I don't know you were before mcgriddle yeah you're a babe ruth lou gehrig yeah your group of friends did you stay in contact with them in with ya continually one friend it was a couple we went out with them and my very best friend lived in little rock which is the bill Bushman he died he was like a brother
to me you which I never had one last night I talked is in mono Barsky we were in grade school together and I stayed and we stayed in touch all these years I think they had good lives and the reason is that we had a good life when we were kids that was your dead in the service and the Navy the Navy did he serve in World War one yes and you know where he was stationed I really really dumb did he have any stories at all about the war now now when you were a young man World War two came out yeah do you
remember that day when they when Roosevelt was on the radio the Opera Harbor what were you guys doing this plan ball nothing particular did anything change at that time for you guys the war when it started to affect your family at all no I'm listed when I was 17 in the Navy so I wouldn't be drafted in the and they are me right now where did you go to high school forest high in South Dallas ok so when you graduate there was no plans for college of that I was there you knew you're going right into the service now when a gradual uh graduated high
school I went to University of Texas for a semester and a half and the other half a semester in January enlisted in the Navy and what was the decision to do that because you were afraid to be drafted no not really I just a lot of my friends went so I felt I should go through okay now you're a young kid you're in the Navy the war is still going on yeah what do you thinking I didn't know any better to think anything I mean there's just I just did it and I didn't think any long time at all no where did you get station
San Diego went to boot camp Radio school I was a radio operator and went to San Francisco at a radio station and I sent out messages into the Pacific Ocean from actual radio station Radio City downtown San Francisco it was tough duty so how did so the radio station when you were broadcasting was only broadcasting to the armed services desk correct okay and then what what type of messages were you giving them well just different locations who everybody was stationed and just so many different things so when the war came to an end did you stay in the service know when I listed I was
allowed to a list for the duration of the war then so that's what that's how so when the war's over I got out I was in the service 20 months and then you came back home to Dallas came back home and Louis my wife future wife we we got married okay now where did you meet those originally in school we graduated at the same time and when we graduated we had a date graduation night okay so you guys were doing I you didn't get married before he went into the service though I was in the service and it got married afterwards I got out of
the service like in August we got married November and then where'd you guys settle down in Dallas did you go back to school or did you go to work I did both I went to SMU on the GI Bill and I worked it as glaciers wholesale solar water plant I checked trucks in and I checked them out and I worked about 40 hours a week while I was going to ask them you known as you graduate from this and i graduated from SMU and business marketing okay so then if you graduated then what did you do I want to work for address job or a
few months and then I went to work for commercial metals company which is a large recycling company my very best friend was there and he got me the job there and I was here 32 years okay so he made a career of it there yes exactly what did you guys do I was cashier I worked on this scale bought scrapland industrial accounts I was assistant manager to his Lord scrapyard then I became manager for 12 years and then I was the area manager / 7 scrap yards for four years and then my two sons opened up a scrapyard and when I was it commercial if
the scrapyard they allowed me to train them can he graduated and he went to work for commercial I they allowed me to train them a year later Neil my son graduated Texas and he went to work for commercial they allowed me to the train him Kenny went up to Lubbock and they went to the home office and Kenny hated Lubbock so he came back to Dallas and he wanted to open up a scrapyard I said if you do go where the other scrap orange are not out in the outskirts that were so they both quick commercial went to work they rented a acre and a
half for two hundred fifty dollars a month they had an overhead because they were living at home I didn't charge them rent now what did your company think of your training your sons and then them going off become a competitor well that that's usually would happen people would go to work for commercials young kids and the dad had a scrapyard so once you go with your dad I can't get along my dad there were a couple years learn the business then you ought to work for the day that it wasn't concerned about it was there an invention that came along in your lifetime that you
went wow how did we ever get along without that now I was from the old school in when the computers came out I'd write notes handwritten notes to my son so I'm not really computer already in it because I never went forward with it well I know you work with a cell phone now yeah doc it's not very well it rang a hundred times you and Saturday ya know you somehow yeah I don't do it very well yeah um who's the happiest time in your life mid married mostly with our kids we've done so many things with the kids we always bought secondhand automobiles it's
all I could afford and we made two trips to california stayed with our cousins and we went to New York right after Kennedy was assassinated and if Delta's out for that seals Texas life that's a bad place than one NOFA knew Ruby so anyway we stayed with her cousin up there and whatever we did we did with our kid oh yeah now let me ask you did you know check really know okay because I know some other people from Dallas I know I didn't know where do you think of the Kennedy assassination where were you I was at work it was a shock to affect
you though not real I just felt bad about it and carried around maybe for a few days but it didn't underly affect me what was the first car you ever go home this secondhand Chevrolet and 90 was a 47 chevrolet and i bought from my employers yeah you remember what you pay for is probably of about 400 or something like that times have changed a little yeah music movies the stars you remember any of the stars and days gone by that used to you and Lois would like to go to a movie to see well Spencer Tracy Clark Gable Lana Turner Betty Davis we right
now we joy watch those old movies who are the musicians you guys like back then well as Harry James Tommy and Jimmy Dorsey and Glenn Miller most mostly Colin Mallory turns yeah now you have the three kids two boys and a girl and your daughter was the oldest one yes she's not in the family business issue now 10 grand kids 13 great grandkids yeah and two great grandkids on the way why how's those family gatherings well i'm takin 24 of us to Las Vegas everywhere the fifth when we get together birthdays anniversaries we're a very close family and we all get along so how did
you do it earlier an income to check off list make sure you got everybody always ask Lois what's her name what's his night well worth it was there something from World War two that you never told anybody about in the family I don't keep anything from them is really nothing just I've told him about my time in the Navy and I did have a tough time about it is there any story at all the Navy you could sure I mean you were a young kid you know Awards going out at night that I can tell you that I didn't even shave at that time and
at that time their ration cigarettes you can buy so many a week and I didn't smoke so everybody was my friend and boot camp I remember this one incident these sergeant in charge said everybody would the one to college take one step forward and then he said everybody took one step forward pick up the cigarette bus that's great huh now in your lifetime you've looked through so many momentous occasions of course the Great Depression when you were young lad Vietnam War Martin Luther King assassination President Kennedy assassination moon landing something good in 69 for the first time of course the tragedy of 911 was there
something on the national scene that really stood out in your mind that really affected you wrong when these things came about I felt real bad about him but it not I'm really affected me yeah ask him out what was your favorite show sunday evenings like Jack Benny or Milton Berle I like to see Frank Sinatra well you and Louis got married in 1946 yeah kids we mentioned one girl two boys 10 grandkids three great grandkids and two great grandkids on the way yep and those are twins oh we have to win oh you have to have part of the third day and you have two
more on the way yeah what advice does great-granddad have for the next generation well I would say this parents should spend more time with their kids when they're young I know I had friends that in the kids are my 16 or 17 and he said I can't do this with my kid I can't get along or whatever you need to start when they were 4 & 5 spent time at the Jewish Community Center I was a football coach baseball coach basketball coach and my two kids were real good but basketball players and not have on my team and I would coach in every sport they
had here and I was enjoyed it and I think I think that's the reason we get along so well people get spoiled when you have money when you're young and have money when you're old you can't appreciate it but if you don't have money didn't have money you can appreciate it and married couples should start spending time with their kids when they're young I know when I was in South Dallas the houses were real close together there's no air conditioning and you move one side the bed to the other when you're sweaty sleeping and we play ball all day and I think now these kids
with their computers they're going to miss all that they're going to play their computer all day instead of being out blend with your other kids and I really think that this generation is going to miss that and the other thing is with no air conditioning we didn't know any better and if you're I didn't have recognition for two days in row we might get very Hill baby died you couldn't stand it but we didn't know any better and we had a good life and that's the reason that I know we had a good and what was that they like when you got air conditioning put
in the home here well it was a luxury and a luxury eventually becomes a necessity once you have itself was very nice what other involvement did you in the lowest height with the Jewish community well I was on the board here at the Jewish Community Center all our friends were Jewish couples we went out together well thanks for doing this today enjoy