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Reese 1928 the Bronx New York let's go back to when you're just a little girl tell me about what was life like for you we lived in countability they don't have around here they were what's called today tenement houses what you do for fun for fun we played outside there's a little sort of park opposite our house and tell boy and Indians hopscotch we called it Potsie I later found out that's what hopscotch was and jumped rope I never could do double dutch everybody else did it and that's what we did you remember your grandpa and I tried to roller skate Oh didn't work out no I go up for lunch come down and start from 0 again you ever learn how to roller skate eventually yes but if I went back upstairs it disappeared you remember your grandparents at all oh yeah tell me about them they both came over on both sides of the family they came over for me from I always said to my father what country were you born and he said what year because every year a changed countries he's in the u.s.
from Hungary on the Hungarian army spot your dad in the O was your Hungarian army I would fight for the last cup of coffee because it had the coffee grounds mmm filled up your stomach and he told us once the story of how he got to the ship to come over here it didn't sound like my father at all the sudden like some high-class smuggle he got on the ship because one night he happened to have something to eat in the right place you heard some men in the corner say they were going to really kill all the Jews there and so he didn't go
on that ship that's how he got here so his parents already here his parents came afterwards I don't recall either one of them ever working I know he supported them the other children all gave some amount but I think he was the main support when you did got here what did he do I use the other father he came over he started off working for an uncle who was a baker I don't remember what the uncles original name was but he came over and heard about how it was Margaret and company and he said oh and he changed his name to education on that but
anyway my father worked for him for a while then he worked as a furrier for a while when they somewhere along the line they had a candy store depression times I guess and he became a furrier was very active Union communist and then he got together some money anywhere into real estate now the depression you know hit right when you were a little girl did your folks ever tell you about what it was like the time no they never talked about it and I wasn't smart enough to ask what your grandparents on your website on my mother's side they were more Americanized in English was
better my grandfather died from ma I forget what kind of cancer she was in a two-story house there were some mostly in Brooklyn but this was in the Bronx you remember what your grandfather did a cleaning service for come big companies window washing janitorial service you had a company when I got older the summers when the secretary went away I became the secretary all I did was show up at nine o'clock take down any messages go for lunch you go home well I got paid yeah I said my grandmother she was in her 60s then but she was still perfecting her English reading which I
don't know that every group does that today so I'm doing some down that way my grandmother where did you go to grammar school ps4 Virginia hi was 82 PSAT to that was in a different area we had moved that was interesting ps4 was sort of experimental for music instead of a music teacher we have we listen to the Walter Jaguars concerts I've met other people here from that era who remember that so I think math was not a big deal in that school cuz when i moved to the Junior High in a different area and they ask you something about you know teacher puts it
on the boy / two numbers huh I didn't know you could do that so that was I always had to have it to death whenever there was a math test Oh high school high school Liam age Taft I think it was the second year it opened yes studies of us I don't quite a walk there one okay you know we all did it ya know you had a sister I have assistant but younger older she's 16 months younger she went to the same schools i did i don't remember anything about her before junior high i would say it and we were both very different yeah
I'd stayed that way and how is my school life for you high school was fine they gave you a choice of foreign languages and nosy as you who had to have if you expected to have a chance to get into college you needed to foreign languages and this is junior high I decided the French accent was way beyond me I took Latin and then for my second language in college or in high school I don't even remember and I took Spanish unlike Spanish I seem to have a feel for it after high school with the college we should go to work college where's your school
Hunter College wonderful no charge i think i had to pass the test to get it but i didn't have to pay for books i didn't have to pay for anything Rizzoli I gather I gather when I went to Columbia after that is the most expensive college in the country guess how much how much $20 a point when did you go to Columbia oh it must have been about 1949 1950 a hunter college and the college was interesting that was the first year of a second they were starting to require master's degree for librarians and I'm sitting this almost straight out of college with all these
people who've been working for 20 years in the field okay so you went to Hunter College for how many years oh yes and then it's teaching test the teaching English I had to get rid of my accent for that but you see it came back and then I didn't have any openings English teachers so I went to the library there's an all-boys school vocational school and the librarian after a while said why don't you go get it yourself a degree library so I did it's not like yeah that's when I was right that work during the day college time for you World War two broke
out how did that affect your family not my immediate family but I had a cousin who was in the Army is kind of a distant cousin only had met him a few times but it was a right to the serviceman so I wrote to him and he was very grateful sent me a lovely compact one time as a gift then I had another i'm going to father slide yeah i don't think he ever went overseas ok now where did you meet your husband Simon I worked at the Bronx High School of Science which is very highly thought of school you had a really pass a
test to get in there and I remember there's one boy in the freshman class he didn't want to read the mill on the floss or some such thought he was busy reading Plato's Republic teachers didn't know whether that symbol fail very good anyway there was an annex building and I worked always in the annex building and one day the main librarian in the main building said we need some help over here Clarice come on over so I went over first time only time and somebody came in to visit her somebody would one time done something I think he was a teacher in their school and
he used to give her rides and so he came to say hello for old times sake and visit his mother also because he was on his way up to Bangor Maine for the job and they didn't like the fellow I was dating because he hadn't proposed at felons wednesday at coming god the other two libraries are very upset with him so they said to him I didn't know that take her out take her out and to me they said go go with him go with him can't go after to the time I'll take care of the time clock go go go so we went out
for coffee he said anyone go to a movie tonight I said sure only live three blocks away from the main building so i went up i changed my dress something halfway presentable when we went out to dinner he now says that he decided to marry me when I wrapped up the pirata which is an Indian bread we went with Indian restaurants even in did was after the soup I was filled up so I took the bread home and that's when he decided I want her anyway I saw him the next day when he told me we were engaged I don't get engaged that fast I
said you could be engaged if you want I'm not I'm not that's how it was I still had Wednesday nights he the friday or saturday i don't remember and he was engaged good for him glad he was and i said well i will write you and when school is over I'll come down and visit where was he he was in midlands working for the Western company it doesn't exist anymore it was taken over by somebody else I was sold he's originally also from New York yes okay yeah story of my life so then when did you get engaged oh my god I got engaged when
we got some midlands and victim was very nice population 34,000 straight from New York where is this ha um 56 was that culture change from New York for business no what to me it was like nothing we've traveled some since then and I just it's nothing I just fit into somehow I usually all right so what did you guys get married we got married in 56 about a week after I got there and you know rabbi around see we drove over to Odessa where there was a jeweler both and they all had a gabfest and I picked out a ring and then we had a
rush to lovington New Mexico because there's a time change you want you to get there and when we got there we filled out the marriage license so I said where is a justice of the peace oh this Minister right down the hall where is there a justice of the peace there's a minister right down the hall where is the justice of the peace I went back a big police station so that's where I got married and back of the police station with a woman policeman for a witness and he's got all through he said now I hope you both live a good Christian life the
icing on the cake so what did your family's think they're both back in New York well I'll tell you before I left New York there was a good chance i would marry him I fitted so my mother said I happen to own a white dress and everybody else in my chest no big deal she says don't get married there come home I'll make some kind of party come home but if you get married there wear the white dress remember where the white dress if you can sorry there but come home from it so that was it dude you where the way through actually no I
just didn't did your mom find out I don't think she asked I don't remember i remember my son asking one time in june you look at all the brides in the windows the stores and my son said mom what kind of dress did you wear when you got married to ask your father so what was the decision to come to dallas the decision to come to dallas was made by the Western company we were going to be here for six months and then moved to Fort Worth so after the six month Laura he went to TR instead I don't know what happened after that so
the company it kind of went are you involved with the Jewish community at all oh yeah that was interesting when I moved here so that supposed six months there used to be a Welcome Wagon group and they left something at my door including two tickets to one of the churches for cab fare that's what that was nice but I really wasn't interested but it was nice and so that I said to myself nobody is going to come knocking on my door saying hi there I have to go out so they joined a couple of organizations which one i joined the i forget what they call
it now dasu dasu also doesn't lose another one they ran a secondhand clothing store because I volunteered there for a while and then I went looking for shul synagogue that was interesting and i ended up it's a ferret Israel they were the friendliest people in the world happiest time in your life we go travelling we used to go every summer to your Australia was lovely Japan I don't like traveling you remember your first television set oh yeah I was in high school was my high school graduation present was a great big mahogany magnavox that was it at that time I was it like seeing television
for the first time i'd heard a lot about it he didn't went out by at the first time he heard about it it was interesting there were several programs that were very good since seasons on Saturday night I kept hoping I wouldn't have a date cuz I'd rather it's freezin yeah he was one of my favorites and there were a few others i really liked sunday they had very good programs on the that's today I guess PBS yeah yeah now in your lifetime there's been so many momentous occasion some Goods and that's a good question lived through World War two yeah president assassination I was
here that man do you remember you remember that day that was a shocker I had just had David and I was in bed home I just go home and my neighbor came over and she said she was you know a little upset she said you'll never guess what happened she I can't believe it I know what happened so it was like unbelievable a lot of people felt that way about it yeah 50 years ago yes yeah November yeah but I remember where I was exactly when she came in to tell me I was mean I was just laying there recuperating I didn't have a TV
or radio on now you and Simon have two children yes are they in the Dallas area yes they both are from Dallas we believe we went to Florida about two and a half years and then the director or the CEO whatever he was sprayed called him up and said we would like you to come up here worcester massachusetts and i'll bet florida i said go be nice to him he's head of a big company at that time do not take the job so then we moved to buy to let the juices worcester massachusetts did what brought you back to Dallas I brought me back to
Dallas was retirement up where I was living in Worcester a lot of snow to close schools for the two weeks one time no your kids born up there in Boston no my kids were born here we just dragged him along with us well that was a good thing though one boy and one girl no no two boys two boys okay to place to go through the Dallas area both in Dallas yeah what advice would you want to leave to the next generation have a good time kid it helps my awful lot the old way was to wait some you six step is to throw at
them when I was young wait are you 65 and retire and then go travel no way you go traveling when you're younger and you're able to and you can enjoy it better so whatever your kids gets into trouble in school don't sit back parents don't sit back today anyway today that's what I've been reading they're in their punch in Hawaii good advice he did a great job today thank you you know you say that everybody here are the ones that did a great job