Connie Rudick
Connie Rudick was born in 1933 in Waco, Texas, during the Great Depression. Her father ran a grocery store that was wiped out when the Brazos River flooded in the 1930s, and he later went into the produce business. Her father came from Waco, one of nine children of an Orthodox rabbi who served as the community's shochet, while her mother was from Beaumont, the daughter of a prominent physician born in Sweden. Her mother was highly educated, earning degrees from Washington University in St. Louis and an advanced degree from Columbia. Growing up as one of only six Jewish students in a graduating class of 300, Connie found Waco a difficult place, but she excelled academically and was valedictorian.
Connie attended the University of Texas for two years as an art major before leaving and training as a legal secretary. She married her first husband, whom she met through his brother stationed at a Waco airfield, and the couple first lived in upstate New York while he finished college at Syracuse University. Finding the northern winters unbearable, they moved back to Texas, settling in Dallas in 1955. Connie raised two daughters, worked for attorneys and later spent fifteen years with a fur company, eventually moving into sales. She and her first husband divorced in 1977. That same year she met Leon, whom she married that fall; they were married 35 years until his death in January before the interview.
A member of Temple Emanu-El since about 1958, Connie became active in Sisterhood, serving as executive vice president and co-president, and later joined the Temple executive committee and board. In 1997 she served as a national chair of the Sisterhood biennial held in Dallas as part of the Union of Reform Judaism convention, a major undertaking. She trained in Cincinnati as an outreach fellow and, beginning in 2001, has led conversion classes at least once a year, helping about fifteen people become Jewish annually. She describes this work as the most rewarding thing she has ever done. Connie also recalls living through the Kennedy assassination while at home with her young children, and she credits her father with instilling in her a lifelong curiosity she hopes to pass on.
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alright honey in the Dallas area you're very involved with the Jewish community through temple emanuel right can you tell us a little bit about that I've been a member since about nineteen fifty-eight and I've been active there a couple of times I was active when I first joined and then in 1975 I went back to work and I wasn't involved at all until nineteen ninety and I came back in almost as a fluke came back into sisterhood where I had been very active before and the next thing I knew I was executive vice president of sisterhood and I became co-president of sisterhood but at the
same time I was asked to be one of the National chairs of the sisterhood biennial part of the union of reform judaism biennial which was held in dallas in 1997 which involved 500 delegates and it was an international convention 500 women there were about 2,000 delegates all together and it was down at the hilton anatole and it was a huge undertaking so i did both at the same time which was all about a year and a half of work and that's probably the biggest thing I've ever worked on but it was fun and exciting and I enjoyed it and then after that I was asked
to go to Cincinnati and trained to be an outreach fellow and I didn't even know what it was but I found out very quickly that it was to lead conversion classes for people who wanted to become Jewish and I couldn't go the year they wanted me to go I had already planned a trip to Alaska so they had somebody else lead the class that I worked with her and with one of the rabbi's and the following year in 2001 I did go up just before nine eleven and I've been doing that ever since I do that at least once a year in fact right now
I'm in the midst of it we have three more classes to go and we probably have a out fifteen students a year who do convert to Judaism and I would call it the most rewarding thing I've ever done well what's the main reason that they're choosing to convert not because they're marry another Jew which is what most people think excited me too I would've about that we do have that occasionally but because they are usually very insightful very thoughtful very deep thinkers smart they've usually read up on Judaism for several years they've decided they cannot believe in anything else and that this fits them how
did they find out about you guys they usually find out through our website or through friends that they have met or through other Jewish people that they may have met to work or socially they just seem to find us what is that website it's called te Dallas org ok and it's got a lot of information about a lot of things that go on a temple we're very active with the fourth largest reform congregation in the country probably in the world and we do everything do you ever see any of these people years later yes what's that like for you wonderful absolutely wonderful I had a
student a number of years ago who was a grandfather and he was from Catholic family and he was going to do this and no one else in this family was in the least interested in it and his wife was almost disapproving but she let him and a few years later she came through the program with someone else I didn't know she was even going through it and she has become active at Temple and is even the chair of a committee well so I ran into them recently at a meeting a far trip that's going to Israel the rabbi's were taking us in December and they
are going to have their vows renewed by the rabbi in Israel and she asked me if I would be one of the people to hold up the hook Wow so that was an honor yes and I was thrilled very nice well good night very good let's go back now 1933 Waco Texas depression time yes what do you remember when you're little a little girl I know that my father had a grocery store and the Brazos River flooded and it wiped him out in the 30s I do remember that I remember seeing pictures of it and how terrible it was on my family and how we
suffered and my father always told the story about knowing Cecil Willis and that his daughter Dorothy Ann was a baby and they couldn't afford to take her to the pediatrician very often and so Cecil would bring her in and daddy would wait her on his meat scale and when I went to high school she was going by the name of hand Willis and she started dating David Richards who lived across the street from me I even carpooled with David to high school she and David ultimately got married they moved to Austin she became enriches the governor of Texas well we finally had a high school
reunion after 42 years and was the one who got it up and we had part of the reunion at the governor's mansion in Austin Wow night and I have pictures of it everybody took their high school annual shiri signed it it was a lot of fun and after lunch that day which was on the grounds under big tents she stood up and she said well it's been 42 years and I've been to hell and back and judging by the looks of some of you and that's all she said oh how interesting what was she like when she was little she was very popular she was
a class favorite she was a debater and she was a very pretty girl let's talk about you now what were some of the things that he used to like to do when you were a little girl what was available for you there and wait nothing like I was very difficult to grow up in I had to create your own fun time yes I was in a graduating class of 300 there were only six jews three girls and three boys and we were really not accepted because it was Waco and it was the bible belt and I didn't date I was considered the brain I was
the valedictorian which gave me and my parents a lot of pleasure and I did get I forgotten how many scholarships to colleges all over the state they were worth like 25 or 50 dollars but that was kind of fun I did go to the University of Texas over $25 scholarship which was all the tuition was at that time at the University of the tuition yes a five dollar twenty-five dollars for the first year that's lunch today uh-huh and I it was not a fun time and I looked forward to going to college because I knew that there i would find people that I could be
friendly with and I would have fun and I did how did your parents ever talk to you about that about being Jewish in the small town where were they from orig my mother was from Beaumont my father was from Waco they were both born in those towns my father was one of nine seven boys and two girls his father was an Orthodox Jewish rabbi who did nothing but study the Torah and the Talmud all day long he was the shelf head and he I don't know how he got by I really don't he was the slaughterer and I guess the kids must have supported them
my father was the second to the youngest he had sisters who were old enough to be his parents and they all managed to get by I think only one of them actually went to college and he became a vice president of Magnolia pipelines before any Jewish men were allowed to go that high in the company of course today that's mobile no no that's X I'm o ball today now do you remember your grandmother no she passed away before I was born okay what about your grandparents on the other side my mother's father was a doctor he was born in Malmo Sweden but came to the
United States when he was five and my mother's mother was born in Paducah Kentucky and her father died when she was very young and she was placed in an orphanage in New Orleans which was very common in those times she and one of her sisters she was one of five girls and if you look at the census from those days you will see a man listed with a number of daughters with different last names and that was very common then in New Orleans I don't know how long she was there she eventually went back to her family how she met my grandfather I don't know
but they were in Chicago and she was in a music conservatory and she had a contralto voice and did play the organ they got married and they went to Beaumont in 1898 because he was a physician and it was a lumber town and he was called to be there I believe he was the third doctor in the city and in 1901 Spindletop became the big oil discovery there and Beaumont boomed and he was a very prominent doctor there and they lived a very luxurious life when he died in 1939 it made the front page of the paper I've still got it my mother had two
sisters they used to tell stories about some of the things that went on in there when they were growing up my mother went to college which I guess was unheard of in those days she graduated from Washington University in st. Louis she got a advanced degree from Columbia she was she had a degree in biology and I believe her masters was in botany and she taught and she married my father when she was in her early 30s and they lived in wake up now after you're dead the flood and the depression wiped out that grocery store well what did he do how do you recover he had a grocery store until a and P opened up a better block away then he went into the produce business with he worked for a big produce company during world war two and after that he went into the produce
business with another company a father and a son and it was called central produce and in 1953 they had a devastating tornado in Waco he was on first street which was on the river and everything between first and fifth Street was wiped out his building had firewalls and they were about two feet high when it was over he had banana vaults and when it hit they had the presence of mind to go to the banana vaults and it saved their lives but he suffered a broken leg and we found him in the hospital that night I was working in the only tall building in Waco
on fifth and Austin and we were okay I remember the rain coming in the closed window and the building swayed and the building across the street from us ended up out in the street I was working for attorneys I was 20 and the attorneys ran down the stairs ten floors to help out there and I went down and I remember wandering the streets for a while I couldn't find a phone to call my mother to tell her what had happened and when I did find one she said oh it it hailed like the size of baseballs that I have one in the freezer and I
tried to explain to her what had happened and she came down to get me and when she saw the devastation she got very alarmed and she when she came down to me she saw that everything was flat and she went down to find my father and of course everything was flat down there and somebody told her that they thought they had seen him being carried to a pickup truck and driven away so then we made the rounds of the hospital's until we found him and that was pretty bad anybody survives he survived that night in his hospital bed he was telling people what to do
about a truck a carload of oranges method commanded he wanted to make sure they got to a cold storage place and didn't Roth and he had to have surgery that night and again a couple days later and took him all summer to recuperate but he did well he was tough he lived to be 95 oh good for him now you went to UT how long did you go really two years I was an art major which is a big mistake and I realized after two years that I didn't want to be an art major and to transfer to change my major I would have lost
almost all my credits and I knew that my parents did not have the money to keep me going another four years in college right so I dropped out I went to business school and I became a secretary and luckily i became a legal secretary right away and that was why i was working for the two attorneys when the tornado hit now did World War to affect your family at all it affected it well because people made a lot of money in World War two and that was when my father was working for a big produce company and they made a lot of money and that
enabled him after the war to buy into the other produce company so they they did pretty well that way okay where did you meet your first husband his brother was stationed in Waco at an airfield and I was at Texas I had gone to school with a girl whose parents were in the Episcopal Church of my coma and they gave dances for the airmen on Thursday nights and they met this Jewish boy and they thought oh do we have a girl for you so when I came home from school after my freshman year they arranged for me to meet him and I dated him and
he said he was crazy about me and we kind of kept in touch i went back to school and he still kept in touch and his parents were just thrilled that he had met a nice Jewish girl and even after we were no longer in touch they wanted to meet me I eventually went up to New York just to see New York and they came down from upstate New York to meet me and they brought their other son and that's that's who I married where'd you guys settle down we settled upstate New York because he was still in college he had another semester of school
he went to Syracuse University and he was studying to be an accountant and after he graduated we were still there we spent a year and a half in upstate New York and the winter's almost kill me that's a big change from Waco to New York I hated it I thought I was going to die other letters and my mother was sending us the Dallas Morning News want ads from sunny papers to show us all the business opportunities and my husband said even care about staying up there so after a year and a half up there we packed up the car and we moved back to
Texas and I said to him we can either go to Houston or Dallas because that's where the business opportunities for you will be and you won't like the climate in houston right room this was nineteen fifty-five and things were at all air-conditioned including our car so we came to Dallas and of course that first summer we had to put air conditioning in the car and we've been here ever since he well he hasn't been he left eventually right now you had two daughters had two daughters and we were divorced in 1977 okay so what did you do after that I worked for lawyers from 1955
until nineteen fifty-seven I had my first child in 1958 in my second one in nineteen sixty-two it was born here mm-hmm and then I became active at temple in sisterhood and I was active in sisterhood and was executive vice president about the time that my marriage broke up and I realized at that time that I could not be president of sisterhood because in those days you could be present such a hood and work because they met in the daytime right right so I did not become president of sisterhood I went to work in 1975 and I worked until nineteen ninety in one job I worked
for fur company which just was a fluke and I went to work as a secretary thinking I would go back into legal work and I stayed there 15 years and I ended up in sales well and it was a it was a monstrous job I worked sometimes three weeks straight during the first season and that was why I couldn't do anything at temple and when I left that job in 1990 then I got involved a temple again right and I went back into sisterhood but actually I went back into music committee I had a friend who knew that I saying and so she got me
into music committee and I met somebody there who asked me to do something with her in sisterhood the next thing I knew I was on the board of sisterhood and it went from there and when I became co-president of sisterhood I ended up on the executive committee of temple and then the next thing I knew I was on the board of Temple then I was asked to be a vice president of Temple and I was on the executive committee of Temple for six years when did you meet Leah I met Leon in 1977 I was divorced in the spring of 77 the divorce took a
year and a half it dragged on and on until my first husband met somebody he wanted to marry and all of us said he decided it was time for the divorce to go through right and I met Leon a few months after that and we were married that fall and we were married 35 years and he died this past January sorry what was they have his time in your life when I was married to Leon now in your lifetime you've lived through so many momentous occasions of course you were a depression baby lived through World War two President Kennedy assassination or in Dallas something good
moon landing in 69 well that was bad because it happened right after my mother died oh it was my mother died on July the eighth and the moon landing was about 10 days later and he really can't afford it no I remember my cousin and her husband he came to our house and we stayed up late to watch it and I was still grieving we had a meeting at Temple recently about the assassination ba-bong from the Dallas Morning News interviewed some of the people that were here then we talked about what had happened then yeah and now awful it was where were you I was
at home I had a one-year-old child and we were watching TV and at first we couldn't figure out what was happening because they were so mixed up on TV they didn't know what was happening I was feeding my one-year-old she was in her high chair and my five-year-old was at preschool you know nursery school and it was just horrible we didn't dress the entire until sunday we sat in our robes before the TV watching the TV for three days we were so so distressed that it happened in Dallas yeah yeah because the climate here had been so bad what was your favorite music classical classical
music oh yeah okay um favorite movies old ones are the one from days gone by or the current ones I think the best movie I've ever seen with Schindler's List and of course I've always looked gone with the wind yeah what the what do you think was the neatest invention in your lifetime the computer okay okay and the iphone and all the things that have come for that okay I have two daughters and one branch on what advice does grandma wanna leave to the next generation the best thing I have inherited from my father was his curiosity and I hope that they all get that
for me he never stopped being interested in everything and in learning and i do think i have gotten that from him and i hope i never lose that and i hope that they get that from me and never lose it it's great i can remember one time he was in a hotel and the weather was bad he couldn't get out and he was looking across the river at another hotel in counting the floors and I just thought it was wonderful but he was interested as something that Monday yeah okay you did a great job today thank you