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the rest of us have to be quiet right well good afternoon good afternoon would you tell us your name so we have a record cat born in dallas october the 4th 1960 1916 team to my mother and father who was sarah and archie goodman i was born at the saint paul hospital were your mother and father born in the united states or did they come to the united states my mother was born in saint louis my daddy came from poland yeah and how did they meet how do they meet a good question i don't know i think my grandmother moved to saint louis and that's
where annette went i think didn't know what i said anyway they met that way i believe and then my grandmother and mr tabalosi i think was his name were married at that time and let's see who else i don't know i can't think of very many things there that's okay they moved to dallas my mother was born and down in saint louis and i think my grandmother moved to dallas i can't tell you why and let's see i made a 6 today let's go back a little bit before that you remember the house that they lived in in dallas my house yeah oh yeah we
lived in a big old-fashioned house wooden and when you walked in there was what they call the reception room and there from the reception room was the big living room and then from the big living room you walked into the very very large dining room i mean it was big it was bigger than this anyway we had a nice family when i was going to be married all the family got together and they pitched in and got a beautiful dinner for several or lunches and the whole family came to help cook and when they get all set in the dining room to eat that dinner
was just beautiful and the rabbi and the canter were up in the living room and they would marry us so we were married on june you know august the 23rd what not long enough i wish you could have known hey he was such a wonderful wonderful man he came to the united states from poland with five dollars in his pocket and that's all he had and he found a place in the back of a servant's quarters to live with there was another man there living so they shared the rent and they didn't have the money but they worked it out and the man would go
fishing and when he went fishing that's when they had something to eat otherwise they ate they had just bread and milk but abe worked very hard and he found him let's see what did he do he he went to a radar where his family some of his family were and they put him out on a farm to work and he loved it so from there after a while he decided he liked it so much he'll do his own farming and he did and he opened up the cat's farm cats and he had a cast farming company and he did very very well the people in
new york were proud of him they wanted to buy him out but he said no he's going to be his own boss and do what he wants so from there he did so much so well and i don't remember what else well we had we had babies about that time and it was born and then sharon and carol could we go back to your your father what did your father do in dallas my father was in the produce business but actually he was in a in a truck going into the neighborhood selling vegetables he was a peddler so that's what he did but he had
a truck he had a truck and how he got it i don't remember i guess he had to work to get it and he he went from house to house waiting trying making money and he was doing very well so but one year i don't know if i should tell you this it's so ugly one year they were doing badly very very and they didn't know they didn't have a nickel to buy toilet paper so papa got the wrapping from from the apples and the oranges put in the bathroom he said here that's what you use and i guess if you use it or you
don't i guess you make do don't you did your mother work at all my mother she was there and i don't know whether she did i'm sure she did what everybody did i had a wonderful mother she was a wonderful cook in fact oh i'm getting too ahead of myself but in fact when she would cook for the synagogue men's organization they would call her mama goodman and when they knew mama goodman was cooking all the boys were there i mean the boys the big boy but do you remember any special dishes that she cooked any special things that she cooked any special what things
the dishes that did she have a favorite no she was good at all of them but she made a wonderful roast because she would rub it down with all she'd mix all the sauces in her hand and rub it real good into the roast where it tasted so good you could taste it it wasn't just plain meat so we had a nice we had a wonderful mama she could manage on nothing and papa on the weekends would come in with all their leftover fruits and vegetables so he would bring those in he said we may not have anything but at least we eat the spread
eight as good as the president of the that's the way he felt about it because we were we were not starving we weren't asking for any so that was the truth and i had a nice papa it was very quiet i guess that's who i take from very quiet and didn't see very much of him because he'd get up early in the morning at five o'clock he was gone to go pick up vegetables and floats to go sell them and then what else what's next well was it was it an orthodox synagogue that you belong to we belong to sheriff israel orthodox in dallas and
i was confirmed they are uh very nice that in that year that was dr gold have you ever heard of dr grove he was famous and so he was one that i was being confirmed with but after that i think he left to go to new york i mean what are they going to do in this little city but anyway after that what comes after well let's let's talk a little bit about living here let's talk a little bit about living in laredo oh in the radar was there with his some of the family there and they put him out on a farm to work
and that's where he loved farming now did he know farming from poland what do they know from poland i don't think they know for much anyhow whatever he had he had to learn for himself and he was so brilliant i wish you could have done me just i call him brilliant i'm sure he was and he was a nice person and he was so wonderful to me he was 12 years older than i he treated me like a little girl and let's see we had a dad and then we had sharon and carol and let's see what else did you always live in did you
live in a laredo for a long time oh no no we were in foreign but i'm lost i remember yeah corpus was the headquarters of the cat's produce company then yeah abram went into the business for himself he told the people in new york he designed from them to have his own farming company which he did and he did a great job and he had a lot of people working for him in the office that's where he had this band um i can't i'll think of it in a few minutes anyhow he got him in as a partner not then he told him he didn't
have to pay him a dime for that he can be his partner just right off the bat so they built up a big big big business was that mr shapiro when the copper stick top is fishy at another it was a chance produced and let's see what else i'm lost you're doing great he did wonderful you're doing good oh he uh he was brilliant i mean not because he was my husband but he was really brilliant and he was so nice to so many people that you wouldn't know but after a while let's see what happened oh after a while i think he decided he'd
go travel a little bit and i think he decided he'd take a trip to new york i think he had some distant cousins up there oh and i think i went with him sure i did and we went to new york and we met this cousin she was very done she had a little lunch for us and we were talking about old times and she was saying that she she made a i forgot when but i'm lost well now as i recall as i remember mr katz sort of invented a kind of an onion that tasted very good yeah he had he had a car
and we drove to from corpus christi and to drive with abe teds after we came back and it's mother-in-law met me she said my god what happened to you i said i just had to drive home with aid cats and it shouldn't happen to anybody i know one year we came back from a convention that was in new orleans and this was a really anyhow we got in the car to leave the convention and the hotel and it's pouring down rain i mean just stick you can't see two feet in front of you we're getting a and this aid cast starts going 90 miles an
hour and you can't see in front of you i said for god's sake slow down it's just like talking to a brick wall but we got home and that's when beckberry said what happened to you i said i just had a trip home with abe oh she said i understand so that took care of that i said from then on i'll never drive in the car with you again i'll do the driving and that's the way it was because oh you need to drive with him one day at 90 miles an hour and pouring rain that you can't see in front of you i don't
want to do that well i did it and it almost killed me but any half of then on let's say where am i i don't know no we were in its house on staple street when she was young and had her had uh let's see tell me i should say younger not young where did did your husband have brothers or sisters what did he have brothers or did sisters had brothers and sisters i don't remember a brother maybe does he have a brother he came when he came from lithuania he came from his older brother with his older brother leon who was 10 years older
than he and then his younger younger brother max came after world war ii he was in london during world war ii but he lost my dad lost the rest of his family in lithuania in 1941 this is mother's family okay i see oh yeah is that your mother can you tell and that you'll have to come because i can't see it i know flo is here somewhere my grandmother that's mama and that's archie my zadie and that's my mother and that was me and that's her older brother harold the younger brother i'm sorry her younger sister florence brother david and aunt dora who was married
to her brother harold thank you your rook and that was in their dining room in their house in dallas when i was just a little girl well you're right it was a big room well it was tremendous for those days this was my mother you know who that is no you don't know who that is that's when i was very young yes and very beautiful well thank you you've got a beautiful picture thank you and that that's a beautiful picture where'd you find that you went through all those no it's in my bedroom yeah that's a beautiful picture i probably wouldn't i know one year
one of the beauty foundations wanted me to go on the road with their product because my skin was so perfect mama said are you crazy you're not there leaving this house for anybody so that put a stop to that let's go back to when you were a young girl where did did you go to school in dallas i went to school in dallas what was it like where did you where did you go do you remember the name of the school i don't know i don't remember right now but i'll think of it later okay what was what was the school like were they nice
to you were they strict oh yeah you know we just went and went to school saw the teacher and did what we had to get our lessons to go home and work on our on whatever we had to do and that was it but did you mama would always have a nice little supper for us was there a subject was there something some subject that you enjoyed particularly at school really i took sewing and making clothes i like to do that so my first thing that i made was a little kitchen apron but when i got a little older and knew more about sewing i
made a beautiful black velvet dress that fit me perfectly i was very good at it so but you