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you're filming all this right uh my name is joe reingle the interviewer and i am with edie singer and today is august 31st 2018. hi edie how are you good afternoon good thank you tell me what you remember about your grandparents and parents and where they lived and where they went to from there where they settled in okay my grandparents uh i i'm named after my grand one of my grandfathers um so i never met him i never met either one um actually i'm named after i'm trying to think of if it's my it's my father's father his name was edward and my name is actually edith edith edwarda so i'm actually named after him and his wife i had only met once or twice and they lived in um
ohio cincinnati ohio my mother's on my mother's side she was actually born in um i can't think of it off the top of my head but she left there poland and she left there when she was three months old came to a ma well she didn't come to america until she was like 20 21 years old but she was raised in paris lived in england and came to the united states met my father a dance hall that she was you know they both love to dance what city was that in chicago but actually when she came here she came to new york and she had
relatives there then she came to chicago or yeah i guess so anyway they met in chicago and um like they got married like three months after they met oh boy yeah that's good and they stayed married and had three children i am the youngest and i have two bro had two brothers that both passed away so how did you get to dallas uh that's a good question another good question um it was kind of accidental i was actually engaged to somebody else at the time and my parents weren't thrilled they liked the person very much but he wasn't our faith so that made a big
difference and i think the biggest difference was when and i didn't really think that much about it until my mother said something like oh i could never go to a church wedding um and then um and i could never come to visit you if there was a cross on the wall you know so that really turned me off but how i got here was um there was an uncle of mine passed away and the whole family had come to his funeral and one of them one of the well it was my mother's brother and his wife that came among other people from out of town
and he was going bay back to texas and that they figured that would be a good opportunity to get me out of the situation i was in so i left my ring with my mother and left and came here and that's when my um i met well i had known my cousin selma and she fixed me up with paul how old were you at the time actually i was 17. 17. i didn't know that no a youngster yeah so did you finish high school here or no there you were already i graduated when i was 16. oh okay so what did you do when you first came here to dallas so when i first came here to dallas i dated a lot of different people and um because i hadn't i didn't intend to stay but i met paul and we and i was 18 and a half when i got we got married so we must have gone together for about a year or a little bit somewhere around there right and and then just decided to stay to make your home here where did you first live when you got married when we first got married we lived at the village apartments on preston
road and we lived there for about a year and then we bought a little house it was called the enchanted cottage and i loved it yeah and by that time we were married two years and and i was going to have a baby which we'd had when we lived there actually i had all three children there in that place and that little enchanted cottage show was enchanted and you were members of sheriff chair of israel we were married there and yeah we're ready to do what 57.79 oh yeah so as a young mom and fairly new newlywed-ish you know just a few years what did
you find yourself getting involved in in dallas you know at that time i really didn't have i think i had two kids at the time i had three kids within five years so i was i mean they were little small i think i had my son and my daughter they're a little better than a year apart and i joined council of jewish women and i really liked it and then by the time i had my third i couldn't i didn't have enough hands to handle everything so i just was a stay-at-home mom for for actually for quite a while and um for 12 years and
then i figured my kids are old enough to handle it right you know so then what did you do i went to work oh yeah where did you work and that the what did i do at first you know what the first job i took um when i decided i was gonna go to work was insurance and i didn't really like that there were too many no's [Music] and then i took another job and it i really enjoyed um it was uh for a company they were the world's largest food management service called ara at the time and that was in the 70s and i
sold coffee machines to not the machine itself the service to offices right they're still in business a.r.a i believe so well i think what it's a different name but that was just a little part of it they they did all the uh food services for the olympics although you know just and they were all over but uh coffee systems was a division and just a little drop of a big company i think it's called something else now it's been many years right because i left there in um let's see must have been uh 80s because then i became an optician really yeah and that was
interesting and i love that job oh wonderful did you have your own no free standalone no no i work for a company actually the first one i worked for the very first one was i can't think of it as many years ago but i worked there for quite a long time it was very well known optical company they were here do you remember it i can't think of it that actually the parents lived on inwood and right at that curve remember that family anyway um and then um and it changed several times then it was cold vision there were part of sears girl right and
then um they bought it and it was luxottica they're very well known the company so how is your family grown where are your children now and grandchildren well my children i have only one in dallas now and she has two daughter julie and she has two children and is happy and married and the other one is in florida and that's mitchell and kathy they do not have children and they're both career people they did have a dog but the dog passed away yeah that was their baby and they were married for like 32 years they've been married for 32 years they're gonna celebrate next month
in september very good and then uh there's lisa who is the youngest and she lives in um california oh you've got one all spread out all over right that's what paul thinks that we can visit you know right each one for three months and that would be good yeah are you doing that yet not yet not yet yeah then my grandkids um i have three granddaughters and we're very proud of all of them they're they're really something they really are times have changed i mean with computers and everything it's unbelievable how they learn and they're able to do so much and they live here uh
well two of them do okay at this time and then the one uh now she just got a job the air con engineer uh lives now she just moved to i think where did she move to seattle and we haven't visited with her yet since she's moved she moved to a better right okay very good yeah so what do you do for fun here well for fun what do you like to do now what did we do last night yeah we go dancing we went dancing last night great and um what do we do for fun i can have fun just doing nothing quite frankly
i mean i like to be in the yard um i like the outside i'm outside most of the time and i just don't sit around i like to putter around cutting things bushes and i don't cut the grass but i do most all the other things i like to paint paint um like well i also like the artistic paint but i do paint walls and everything else great so describe to me in your words like what i asked your husband same thing how have you seen dallas change oh my god more people i mean that's the biggest change and of course more opportunity for the
people coming in bigger companies small companies getting bigger the little ones even the big companies are going everything's changing i think computers has played the biggest role in our lives today i mean whether it's good or bad i mean there's an awful lot of good um especially in the health field i mean now you can have an operation without hardly being cut at all right an unbelievable things that you know we never even dreamed of i mean and dallas has a lot of all that yep really does and if you think about our parents coming back and seeing even a phone without a cord or
a television with millions of stations or just all this satellite and what do you call these things that fly um the drones the drones yeah i mean what they can do and uh everything's being delivered to you if you want it it's available it's available right that's true we like to ask everybody think about what are you the most proud of no question my family yeah you raised them right yep yep not kind of what yes that's good anything that you would like to add at all to the interview no i think i'm uh i need to be thankful for everything yep very good i
think we all do we're glad you came here from chicago that's for sure yeah i'm very happy about glad you made it here thank you very happy about that thank you so much sure okay