Ellen Krane
Ellen Krane came from a German Jewish family, some of whom she described as French-speaking. She was born in Germany, and her father brought the family to the United States as her father sought to get away from what was happening under Hitler. He first settled in Memphis, where relatives had already arrived, and he fell in love with the city and never left. Ellen grew up there as, in her words, a nice southern girl, taking on considerable responsibility as a child who helped her parents with English and with the tasks required for them to become citizens. Her family carried memories of relatives who helped others escape, including her father's efforts to hide and distract guards to aid others, and later generations of the family returned to Germany to visit her grandparents' house and family sites.
Ellen attended Goucher College in Baltimore, where she met her husband Harry while he was in the service. She went on to Northwestern University, graduating in 1960 as a married student while raising her young son. She recounted Northwestern's quota system for Jewish students and her determination to attend despite obstacles, as well as a demeaning encounter with a dean that only spurred her to make the Dean's List. She and Harry lived in the Chicago area, including Northfield and Sheridan, from the mid-1950s until they moved to Dallas in January 1962. She loved Chicago deeply and returned there over the years. After a divorce, she lived in California, in the San Diego area, from 1988, and returned to Dallas about twelve years before the interview to be closer to family.
Ellen was strongly committed to Jewish life and community. She taught Sunday school children and became involved in adult Jewish learning, which she described as a revelation. She was active at Temple B'nai and in hospital and community volunteer work, and in San Diego she served as co-chair of a building committee for a new temple campus and on the art committee. In Dallas she served on the art committee for the Stern Chapel, helping work with artists on the menorah, ner tamid, and ark. As an adult she became a bat mitzvah, learning to read Hebrew at age 17 and later chanting Torah, choosing a portion about the building of the tabernacle that echoed her building-committee work. She had two children, including her son Lee born in Chicago, and grandchildren, and she remained a devoted supporter of Jewish institutions and Reform congregational life.
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this is an oil 2017 by Mazal high on how are you I need my thanks and thank you so much for sharing your story with us today so go back in as far as you can in your family history and tell us about our ancestors that is a tough question really but else's that we're French speaking and later Johnson and who were the first to come to this country fathers Bernstein brother who is open here's County and state to see other shipment family in Huntsville Alabama that was three world was a very different answer and my uncle was the American neither one of action when
things became very very enjoy thank you around so were you born in Germany yes my sister so my father's health and to get away from John started out which at that time was a very sleepy southern town what took them to that spill when he came to United States over 97 or so he we had family and I grew up in Memphis in Memphis was traveling from - my mother losing out to ask relatives other people they just send papers for their relatives and he had change of training and mentis fell in love with the city never remembers never never that was a very happy
and I betcha with my mother's sister good I was pregnant that's how we so you turned out to be a nice southern girl like to tell me about your life in Memphis it was very typically most Jewish very hard farts laughs of course there were Jewish supporters so mostly Jewish kids said of their long tentacles the German Jews sort of said the day who is matter we didn't realize it as a child but Eastern did sort of a love-hate relationship that it was acting a would help everything and it's very much similar she was brought up to Dallas any small 70 now that's the e
station and for push your father's business sir he continued to what is in the work obviously I was three years old I was the first person to learning so I had a lot of responsibility Oh which require in junior high to do that luckily I would say and then do this so that was for them to become citizens they did that but you had to calculate things cause women but that was pretty good yeah so I grew up because you will really do a lot of things for your parents right never very okay July 1st was severe I did one too in certain areas and
then later wait master that's lr2 but Haskell was what was fun although I was very conscious watch series that but I still all the surviving female members one with so and my best friend sunny 71 years and for Archer to Dallas he was recruited at six never never dealt with Angelus and the reason our staff and what did you do he was always in the drug when that ended and absolute silence how first well as friends and I was teaching Sundays people children and the school did not had not heard of the help 70-72 and that's out of line Syngenta became female involved in learning
that was a revelation the cheese yes my grandparents vote but for the master so some of them they have terribly different attitude toward life one sentence the ones that stay at home Harsha take or fortune that there are much more suspicious probably some of my family are still out there you know of appearances there's congregation says they down tell me about your kids one son will be having a 60th birthday he's a commercial real estate he has two children why I'm graduated why just issued assignment and her grandfather is position so there's my son Bob that's it he's here teacher the twenty thirteen years old
step how long did you live in Chicago 55 to 70 chill I've gone Northwest my leg has right because we did divorce America we will run a light salad departure 20 million Chicago were involved in the Jewish community they're not there I mean what I was born to the cinema actor laughter because I nothing divorce was not and it's never worth harsh and pretty jr. to Dallas 19 that's what have you been involved with here my children and we're check not so well a bridge but a lot of would you like to give more yes so many people really involved with industry public on society so those taxes always I mean where we lived and that's friends it was very important to be part because otherwise I do but the Temple B'nai trip hospital very active we still have time you're very committed obviously Jewish what else would you like to tell us about your life experiences well I could tell you something about family's experiences help it was not that to yes
we could very much with so tell the story couldn't go cause he was help in the granted side so there were many and not be judged by the guards my job was to distract them still cards hidden and blankets that was my son we're natural in your conscience I manage she distract what I knew and this was years ago that is and grow he was yeah your father was helping other people so his brother friends without dark and he helped her lose and at that time he also had not happy they had to make sure the mansion that would be get out right person the
way and language what's not not at the fish there's Iver very very interesting and your children continue that are they not have been to Judaism if they continued well supporting you back by California has been back to Germany my mother drew things small pieces of better which he remembered they went back to my grandparents house very little this is a few years ago to people who currently living there in direct there were still pictures of my uncle there that have been very little changing and my sister and her family but going back now and one of our branches but but with what algebra she's already
seen they're places so they pursued it my jealous families that more so not to the center the warmth attack No and Israel is part of it continue to go back had saver what oh yeah I think so there's a definite connection to you Angeles and to to today what about your personal travel for fine Oh what could have not been to the east but and certainly back to Jim certainly got to start working where I was born when I mother's siblings we charge after there mother's husband who the sister who removed to back Tavares so we said so I visited Germany obviously this Paris and
Condon Russia Egypt the Egypt thus far and we were heavily guarded and we didn't realize like this here's where destroyed children especially in Turkey as when was that same trip very sad right you had a very interesting somebody are sharing with us I'm delighted to do it well you're kind of British is that really not no I was already married to Gary oh I met I was a council college in Baltimore he was in the service better and that's where I met you and then when he was through the service he you know I did yeah but I don't remember power I was a freshman
that first semester I didn't realize fine and then I was engaged after that so it was really so that was when he was in the school he must been in School of Journalism and he was getting my exercise because he went to Indiana right okay and then he waited at the service and that's when I managed so that was probably riding at Street food David you know I think particularly but did you know his friends at Pearlstein so she was a college friend we pledged a fire so I was there I was at Northwestern in 1959 and I started no I'm sorry 57 56 okay
and that's what I thought you go had I graduated 60 my son was two years old he was two years old when I got my degree oh so I was a married student the whole time I'm just focused most of the time so these are still in touch with us you know I was for a long time but we moved down here we moved back here he's the one that decided to do this to Dallas it's like I didn't bring him back home he dragged me back to my Oh because I love Chicago we moved back here in 62 January of 62 and so it's
taxes he was with sex yeah and then he went with he changed professions and when he had the opportunity to go into the brokerage business and he was with the oh and they said you'd go anywhere you want balance so that's how we came back here that's so both of your children are sick oh yes yes never ever change I'm at home I see I want to bridge all the time yeah they they they receive we was born in Chicago Lord was born here he was born Michael Reese oh practice there and you still he listen Santa back now but he still goes back to
Chicago one way to go mom if you keep away to take care of his allergy thing yeah I love Chicago we have a lot of Gloria's there I have kept up with him for a while chop it you know what happened I was busy establishing a life here we could go back off and because his parents were there until he had they you know became down here but I stayed in touch with his his mother particularly she and I were very close so weren't your father did you always yeah okay and we lived in Northfield oh yeah we were we were not there very long
I hate neighborhood I loved it it was all we got people and young children and it was just great and it was a new development you know it was a new house and we had lived it Sheridan an hour in the park when we first moved back there and his parents with them junior Terrace which was I remember 4300 North yeah pounding on the back to the city actually no I'm from Tennessee Chattanooga yeah yes where where did she live in Memphis I have friends right right I went to Rose which is right right up the street from bombing time yes yes she left she's
leaving Austin College the new president in violence is a Jewish woman and that is really that's all right you know you talked about I mean I had a couple of friends that went for at highs going to Holland Park that workshare of Israel but other than that every mean I kind of met friendly but it was the divide was horrible I mean it was horrible and I did something I never could stand that generalization and how the park the Jewish kids would go into the cavity yeah and if their own tables and I always had a lot of non-jewish friends as well as Jewish right
and I would make a beeline for the non-jewish friends I just couldn't stand the fact that they were setting themselves apart it was hard enough to be Jewish from Island far oh yes and dentist I'm trying to think about too much right but it was very it was very little you know but the temple kids sat at my table where did you go to my school center and so humble kid sat at my table they're very noisy kids and now that's not what they all say together didn't matter where they went they all set together and I just I don't know I got it I
didn't care it's not be sure what but I couldn't stand it because I thought they were contributing to the divine yes of course we make oh yeah yeah and so I never regretted doing that but I you know I think I didn't even recognize any sandwiches I know that there was well I'm trying to be there well of course you did my family's been here a very long time and I fortunately escaped don't know that changes his blog of course it has to but I remember in junior high my non-jewish friends being very apologetic that I couldn't go through this junior cotillion or something wasn't
because it was going to be a good don't stay too close he wasn't even a 10-5 about ways a member of North Woods first Jewish person ever oh really yeah interesting I didn't know I wanted to I mean he didn't ask me that is good but I had mixed feelings about but one of his Jewish bread so well somebody's got to do it good Jam so it's that been a pleasant experience that's a nice Club oh it's fun food is hard but telling it to anybody ever be worse than the Dallas Country Club that is the worst food I've been to some events for how
our high school reunions and so forth there and Harry and our guests and friends that he felt that one of his broker friends that he had in there were that they were together he used to invite us dinner there and then we played cards and I was okay doing that but I mean that was back in the sixties six years so you finished Howard what in 1960 and you you met Harris when you were captured by so America for if we did oh let me tell you about getting into Northwestern it was not they had a quota I'm sure mentioned Oh anything like that convention
they had a quota and it's the only school I'm going to go to I didn't want I mean I wasn't a University of Chicago time no and there was a Romanian College out in other side versus Chicago where I was in hospital I did Wow but that was not those anonymous yeah and so they didn't accept me and Harry senior had a friend at continental Illinois Bank who was on the board at Northwestern I've never wanted anybody to pay the way for me I mean - I'm going to do it myself I didn't want that kind of thing but it's the only school I'm wanting
to go to and if it weren't for him over that and let me tell you the other thing that happened yeah I shouldn't put this on my my audit history because mine was so short being done by what's-his-name but anyhow one semester I was taking a full load and one of the classes was in nine weeks for the quarter you had to read nine novels including you list Steve : and I had this full load of other stuff and I was just beating myself up and Harry said listen you're you're not in the school to do this so either drop a class or drop out
of school because this is ridiculous for you to be under pressure any message so uh-huh so well I think it no it was before I had lives before Hadley so I went to the Dean had to go to the Dean of Students to drop the class because it was past the time where you could just drop on so I mean we deceive and I said you know I got myself in trouble by taking to follow Bubba bunny said what are you doing here anyway you're taking the place of an unmarried student and you'll no doubt get pregnant and leave school and by the way what
are you feeding your husband for dinner keep frozen TV - oh my god well I was 20 years old and you know the era I came from you just didn't speak back to Authority no right now I would have died across the desk and ected what I would like to say but what it did was spur me on and I was I made the Dean's List of everything with the kid and I showed him I share with him can you imagine somebody that makes me but what was the did you see indignation no and I need to oh really yeah I can put my answer
my popular would she like you well not right now probably I'll download it tonight yeah thank you but you know when I look back and think that I put up with something long we don't we did and there was a time I would not speak up about any Semitic remarks I mean I remember the I have a very very good friend who loves me I love her wouldn't hurt I think she used to send Jew it down Judy I said July this is this Alton yeah this this is not anything you need to say it hurts my feelings every time you say and really yes
I'm guessing based on a friend I had from hot springs as well who when we said you can't say Jew him down and I said why not and and we said cuz that's I'm a Jew that's what that minions and she was like get in here that's not what that means Oh her name was is oh my god I forgot no last night oh my goodness it's all right I can think of their first name second that's crazy gives me a long time to speak up and I mean I was probably thirty years old before I started speaking up and I wouldn't let people that
is I realized what you just said but you know I moved to California in 88 and I came back here 12 years ago and I tell you they were a lot more enlightened out there people were so much more aware of Jewish things it was kind of like in New York I mean people are you like maybe that'll do errs when they're not just because they know and they've probably been invited to sailors and Rosh Hashanah don't you know who I want Jewish regardless if Jewish society is Richard Gere said I know you know he's like dude some it is these are people he sees
every day California's always saying yeah and so that was refreshing they knew so much more and we're interested what can you imagine Jewish kids in hot springs that's unbelievable peppy really I mean this young woman who's my kids age has now become she married an Israeli so and her sons so she became very aware and and all but I couldn't but a lot has happened in the past 40 45 years it's too bad it's going back the other way well it's true that even in the 60s even survivors who are not really talking know about in job I'm sure they probably didn't because they didn't
want to burden their children that's right and even the Jewish community didn't talked about it back then they they did what they needed to do if they needed to race money or sponsor somebody you know but they didn't really want to hear your story I can tell you the quota and Northwest the valedictorian of our class was not I don't know what was but any daughter so you were invited in at the great books course at that University Chicago no I was invited to be the student per student that did it we did the great books course and I was right I heard job study
but no that one make you skip and go as a student but that depth because Harry to the breakers course at University Chicago maybe they started that yeah able to walk wonderful colors he did it as a student yes he must have taken his last year in high school but then he went Indiana right yeah and that's where I think how and so you divorced my case and then you remember but I did perspective last very long but that's why I went to California but I came back here because his family and my daughters in Austin don't want to be closer to her but my
brother what I don't know did not know that as the famous local big Leopold case from Chicago no we're not my dad had a very small family but my dad was born here in Dallas and 19 more yeah his mother was from Houston his father came from two mmm early early 1880 you know the frogs or yeah she's an artist Yeah right right I haven't seen in the long I just met their daughter at the event Oh Jill if daughter AdWords I think it's her last night now just Frank Edwards yeah she but so you've met Jill because we just had our big danuel fundraiser
and she was on the host committee and so we met her and her husband and she I guess is in advertising marketing daughter yeah cuz she called she won't wait up she must be the writer then and she does like voiceovers and things like that she was gonna do she was going to narrate the video if we needed it but they decided not to do it what I hope you will have to consider becoming a member there they're just wonderful programs I would love to bring such interesting people and I have friends and methods which are and I was working there so I'd love to
do that I think you'd enjoy and you know it's we'll make sure to get you on an ark yeah on our mailing list and you go online at all yeah well it's DJ HS stop org and you can go in there you can join through there but you can see what the programs are and what's going on we have fantastic archives you know we are the deep repository for Jewish historical items in this my grandkids here or ESD oh so showing that far the integration has come when it was Blake's time to choose he chose to be to explore his Jewish background depression see pressure
I mean I would have been mortified of course that's great well could imagine doing it here my mother and my mother lived to be almost 94 she passed away in 98 oh but she would walk into temple and there were a few key Paz and Holly and what are these people do and I mean in a cancer did she live to see the candle oh my god oh you made that I can't that we had a can of course we had such a wonderful musical director you know he needs like tops in Jewish music composition and everything and I think that's why it took the
temple quite as long as it did because Simon Sargon was oh that he was so is phenomenally now but you know what's interesting when I moved to San Diego things were still very much like they had been when I was growing up and I went temple shopping and I really wanted you know temple that had the feel of a mani well and so I went around the services on Friday night and I went to bed Israel which is the oldest reformed temple in Southern California and I walked in and I thought I wasn't sure if Israel they were doing everything in 1980 a temple was
doing when I moved back here 12 years ago so I was used to it already but my family my brother and sister-in-law still you know don't we didn't like it don't like it and I just find the services so much more joyous and oh I all absolutely all the multimedia stuff they do in the same I mean you know we've got two female panders now I know it's just my freshman year in college and Memphis my friends who've grown up there she was an old swing all sling her yeah and her father was burned the musician that was no no this was their daughter okay
fabien and Burrell yeah and does she really well I she was still going about the last call an aloof and so she took me to Temple Israel for Kol Nidrei and I grew up in a conservative congregation in Chattanooga which was sort of you know conserve a dogs yeah and so I was just horrified I remember coming back to my room in college and just sobbing it was I was sorry it's over but now I've got to read the seventh commandment on Shibu Oh our class is reading the Ten Commandments so I'm working on that I can read the Hebrew fine now I'm pretty proud
of myself having learned at age 17 oh yeah that's that's all I'm gonna achievement I'm not saying that I really fast but I can read it but it's the it's the chanting because we have to chant it so right you know mccords the trope and then we listen to it but it was just a duck quacks yeah yeah we're still hungry oh I've got another one this Saturday the following Saturday and I think to follow the final one is on July 4th because we did not do it as a clan they used to do it as a group now it's much more personal I know
witless I did it by myself no other people have done it alone there that's what the deck oh well I was pretty thrilled a lot of forbidden here yeah I had to give up some of my volunteer work because I was oh but it was particularly meaningful because my Torah portion was about the building of the tabernacle and in San Diego I was co-chair of the our particular building committee for a brand new temple campus 1290 mm on it was a five and a half year project and I was on the art committee here for the Stern Chapel so we worked with the artists to
come up with the menorah near Tom made an ark and so that was extremely meaningful to me so I was kind of bad I wanted to do it the stern chapel and I certainly didn't want the Torah portion that talks about what you do with the remains of the Hannibal's the defense sacrifice yeah I never have known what anybody could say about that okay there okay so I I saw this Torah portion on soft-serve chapter was available because of course the bar got missed the kids get priority but disturb chapel was available a number of times during this spring and Boyata zeroed in on that
and we had to write read by Robinson tell me why we wanted that particular Torah portion at but boy I got that end of her immediately and she said that's fine so what's that attracted you the words you know what I had known somebody in high school who went there he was actually a local priest at the Episcopal Church across the street where I did some volunteer work and he was just delightful and he encouraged and I actually went with two friends went a year ahead of me and then three of us went the next you yes actually they actually have a pretty significant Jewish
I mean considering this well when I was there there were 1,200 students now I think there's maybe 1400 but they have a a sort of Hillel kind of offshoot so they have some programming that they do the Jewish students organizational it really is I mean it's such a beauty my go to Memphis I Drive down there just because it's beautiful and I know what the neighborhood looked like in those days it really hasn't changed that much and because of gentrification you know a lot of things that had begun to kind of fall down we're going I can't bloom it I was just there about a
month or so ago and somebody said Oh have you been to some new place and I and they said it's on Watkins and I said you mean we're Sears used to be and they said yes they've taken the Sears building and turned it into yeah it's beautiful area I mean Oh trees big trees and just gorgeous and raves is right across the street from the zoo yes so at night like if a police car would go by you would hear the big cats driver in the hotel there oh and no not the Belle Belle miss Radford Belle instructor so when they would babysit Woodley you
know they were end up going to the zoo about 40 uses tape it right across the library and they can be kinda animals and any other wonderful Lincoln Park Zoo and so you know they get back from the zoo and he take his nap and get up and well what do you want to do Lee let's go to the zoo so he's with a pretty much raised at the zoo until we left there but I just love Chicago we've had the great spring it's such a great I still not traveling much I'm leaving but I've not I love it's always referred to me it's gone
back on business a number of times but when I've been put back on a pleasure it's proven gosh years since I've been there I just couldn't get over how everything had changed and how clean so I can clean New York gorgeously minar and everything being I mean it's just really fabulous yes and walking down Michigan Avenue they had in their big planters this is of the summer they had their big planters of dress farms that were made out of wire and they had flowers planted in them and vines growing up through it was tech fun to urge deadly to beautify the city the younger daily
that's all right there under the older daily where you were there - oh that's you remember when Queen Elizabeth she came to Chicago and all we could think is oh my God he's going to talk to her and Sadie's dare be crumbly I it's funny that Northwestern never found any somehow your kid and that's fine because I wouldn't have given a dying to them and I support Goucher very nicely because I loved it there Chicago I loved character was wonderful it was such a great experience but I have not given it done to Northwest I tell you who I heard him shell that they did
we had her down for a women what we call it career women's network really are women to perform Judaism at my temple in San Diego was the gal that was prison of Columbia Pictures and she was with Paramount Pictures not Sherry Lansing yeah surely Sherry Lansing in this presentation you