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yeah this is an oral history of Emily Tobolowsky taken by Maisie bow on Tuesday March 20 hello lovely thank you for welcome welcome yet into your home my pleasure we are just delighted that you've agreed to do this tell us what you know about the early history of your family well that is a challenge on my side of the family which means a little different than say Peggy Easter that group because it's a different branch if you will some where it meets with ours but my father was born Edwin was born and raised here in Dallas his mother that a Gertrude was born and raised
here in Dallas she had a brother who was born she was the elder as I understand it she had brother was born in Wichita Falls now my grandfather my father's father was born in Sweden and the most interesting piece of it all is that he was a Tobolowsky and she was the Tobolowsky but they are not anything approaching first cousins I do not know that someone must have the big family tree I do not know how that all came together but there were a number of Jews born in Sweden I think leaving Oakland nice leaving Russia and so Reid was born in Sweden and beyond
that I do not know where and a Gertrude's parents her mother got here so far as I know fairly young in her lifetime I don't recall anything about her father I never knew that I'm named after her I'm Emily Gale and I never knew her and in fact my mother never knew her because she died so that is what I know about that part of the family at some point there are crossovers with the other part of the family but I don't know where that point is there are people in the family who are doing lots of genealogy work I just don't happen to be
one of them who was the first person to come to Dallas and what brought them to Dallas well to my knowledge my grandmother Anna was born here and I think she was brought here by or arrived here because her parents were here now how Ruben got here who was her husband my father's father how he got ears I do not know what brought him here I'm going to assume us family but that's where my knowledge of how this family intertwines and intersects stops I think Myra Tobolowsky Prescott has a a map of the family that far exceeds anything I know but then my so my
dad's dad Ruben was in that business in Dallas and my father became a lawyer and okay and that's as far back as I know except a hat business was in a wholesale or retail that business worked for Davis Hat Company and I don't know it was not this business I do not know Ali it's okay am i ruining this you could jump at it out I do not know how he came to work for them I do know that he did some sales because there is a funny story about all of that he wouldn't always remember people's names even though they had been in and
bought other hats and he managed mostly to finesse it by asking people how to spell how they spelled their name but of course it came down to Smith or Jones or something that clearly revealed that yet no idea what their names were these women's hats and members of ours I know [Music] so can we turn that off for just a sec yeah okay and where do you recall about spending holidays and special events with your family well we always had holidays together sometimes with extended family the singers were usually hosted by my parents at our home and so we had a great group Adelina Maureen
Harrison and Pauline crass and Marvin when he was alive but I'm not so sure he was with us very long and the Ravens and so we had great pass first we always went to temple on the holidays and the break fats were usually above just the immediate family although there are larger parts of the family that have to break fast and occasionally we would join them the my favorite holiday was Passover we always said wonderful wonderful Passover Staters and you all probably have a recording I hope of Leon Ravens song the birth of the Jews that was written to the tune of the birth of
the Bliss and Leon used to sing the birth of the Jews every Passover and it was you know he and and I don't you know met each other there were both theatrical people and I think they met at the USO or something and so they Leon would really put it on with the worth of the Jews we all absolutely loved it what was the impact of your family on the general community in the Jewish community well my mother Shirley always was out doing something important she did not work outside the home for money but she was always doing something outside on a volunteer basis she
was involved in something called the panel of American women which was a group of women from different religions and ethnic backgrounds would go around and talk to organizations about getting along in essence my father was the I believe first president of golden acres so his his belief in social action and my mother's belief in social action were both very strong and came to me very early my dad was loved and admired by most of the people he knew well so much so that when I decided to become a lawyer I didn't really know that people didn't like lawyers or many didn't like lawyers because everybody
loved my dad now it is true that most people love their lawyer that just don't like lawyers generally but the irony being a judge for the last it's almost 12 years is that my father's nickname was judge and many people close friends and family would call him the judge or judge so it was very ingrained in me very early that the community was important that it was important to give more than you take when did you decide to run for judge I had been a practicing lawyer for 26 years at the time that I was elected and I was ready for something new I had
thought about it for years before and decided it was not time as you know Texas is unusual in that we have partisan judicial election so in my case because I did strongly identify with a particular party I had to wait until I thought there was some chance of there being a victory or two for the party and as it happened something I didn't foresee I think a lot of people did I did not that year which was 2006 the election of 2006 we swept and won every judgeship which was contested and so it just was a matter of thinking I had the personality for it
the desire for the challenge but I thought it would be something that would see me and I have found it that's wonderful what do you feel your lasting and your family's lasting legacy I hope that the tabla ski name is always associated with doing good things in the community the last two three generations there are a lot of lawyers and I think there were well me I read George's Mira's children and Donna's children their lawyers among all of them and so I think continue the connection to the legal community will always be there but I'm hoping that also the connection to the Jewish community generally
the volunteering the you know taking on important issues in the community will always be a legacy of the family what have you done in the realm of volunteerism well I have to say I'm slightly embarrassed that since I have been on the bench I've cut back a little bit in my Jewish involvement eight years ago I was extremely involved with the American Jewish Committee I was the president of the Dallas chapter I've been on the Community Relations Council I've been an officer of temple Emmanuel but all of these things were some little time ago I just don't find that I have a lot of volunteer
time right but it but volunteer time is something I hope to return to it if and when the time for me to leave this judgeship and you don't want to something else occurs what would you like your personal legacy to be a good daughter a good sister a good cousin like a judge a good friend good I just want everyone to know that I really care very deeply for them and I care about the community the broader community and the Jewish community but much support to me at this stage in my life and my mother's life and my father's life before he passed away is
that I have been continued to be the daughter thank you very much for letting us interview you today yeah sure it's been my pleasure and Howie apparently my dog had a few things he wanted to say