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so i'm joe reingold and today is may 14th 2021 and i am here interviewing esther solomon for our viva shalom celebrating latin american jews in dallas welcome esther thank you for being here good afternoon it's my pleasure being with you here good uh can you tell us first of all a little bit about your background where were your grandparents from where were your parents from and where did you grow up okay my parents are from romanian they met in israel they married there i was born in israel and when i was five years old we moved to brazil so i was raised in brazil okay
how did they pick that country to live brazil yeah okay my parents family was ultra-orthodox but very cosmopolitan so they knew exactly what was going on in europe and so they sent their children to israel one by one the first one was my aunt from my father's side and she was married already so they came to israel and she was taking care of everybody that would come after her so when my father arrived to israel he was following her instruction and then she moved to brazil so we follow her that's how we got to brazil but do you know how she picked that country of
all places just because she felt safer in south america i don't know what at that time brazil was very easy to live on they didn't have to pay taxes and so it was easy to move there that's why they moved here to brazil i'm sorry and they started a little business in brazil it was a a comp a manufacturer for women's blouses and my mom was an expert in sewing so that's why we moved to brazil okay what city did you live in and tell us a little bit about your childhood what were some of your favorite memories of your childhood we moved to sao
paulo and uh my favorite moment was to meet with my aunt her children that i really loved a lot and i remember my uh one of my second cousins i mean she she was born in december and we arrived in january to in sao paulo and in our way from israel to brazil we we went by ship and we stopped in italy and my dad bought bought me a huge doll and the first thing that i did in sao paulo it's to measure who was bigger this baby that was born or my doll so this is something that i never forget then uh i love
i right away i went to a orthodox jewish school i mean orthodox not very traditional but in a religious school okay and i made lots of friends there the and i still have my two best friends were from that time and we had a nice life there you know we had a lot of [Music] youth movements so i belonged to breakeven it was uh we and another one that was called sip it belonged to a congregation a conservative congregation and i think this is what was fun to live in brazil were your parents involved in any activities or organizations as you were growing up uh
yes my mom she worked for the religious uh party to i think it was a good night israel even that we we orthodox but we were religious and they are a good israel is a ultra-orthodox and my dad he was in charge of the the jewish newspaper in english so that's what we did very good that's wonderful did you stay in that in that religious school all the way through high school and then what did you do after high school i went to a non-jewish it was a founded by americans called mckenzie and i i studied um it was a secretarial school to be as
become a secretary but the degree of the secretary of school i with this degree i could follow to a university and that's what i did where did you go to university oh i went in first when i finished the secretarial school my parents my my parents sent me to new york and i studied at the fit the fashion institute of technology then i came back to brazil and i studied at the university called imb that was for marketing so i finished that then i went oh yeah then i got married i had my two of my children no the the three of them i went
back to school to to have uh my uh how do you call major in fashion design in brazil and that's what i did for a long time my parents still had this manufactures manufacturer that was really a big business and but i didn't design with them because my mom was the stylist i worked in different branches like designing uh purses and boots to a a big company a shoes company so that's what we did so how long did you stay in brazil and how did you come to this decision to come to the united states tell us a little bit about that okay i was
married my heart my husband my first husband was invited to to to be the president of a company in orlando florida it was a company for brazilian storms that belonged to a friend of us and he moved this company from hong kong to orlando so that's why we came to orlando and in the meantime after a while we decided to get divorced but i really love the the life thing in the united states so we i went back to brazil got my divorce and moved back to orlando and my middle daughter and my youngest my son came with me so that's how we we got
to to the state what happened you didn't mention your oldest child oh my oldest child at that time was dating what is now her husband so she didn't she didn't want to come and she's still married with him and she's still in brazil and the same way that my son is still in brazil he went back so here i only have my middle daughter and her daughter and back in brazil i have my oldest daughter with two granddaughters and my son that just had a baby off oh wonderful how often do you get to go back and visit oh i used to go every year
once or twice but now with this pandemic is terrible right i forgot to tell you that the jewish community in brazil at that time was a hundred twenty thousand people and we had lots of things jewish institutions okay the first one we had here i think you call it country club but there is it's different you you become a member and it's for all your life okay and it was it's still a it's like a city we had about 10 swimming pools i don't know how many tennis courts and a movie theater lots of restaurant inside lots of programs for the young the eldest it
was amazing so i would spend lots of time there and the biggest hospital in south america is the jewish hospital what what no go ahead oh the big hospital of america is the jewish hospital called albert einstein and it's very very modern modern and it's a excellent excellent hospital so it's known all over the world is the doctors of excellence it's really a great great place then we in brazil they have the suffrage family and the sanford family helped to a lot to support all the jewish so they they open a kosher butcher and they would sponsor so the the meat wouldn't be more expensive
than regular meat uh they open a few synagogues huge they look one the biggest one looks like uh a castle you have no idea how beautiful it is and now it was not in my time but my granddaughters back in brazil attend this school that they founded is a school where the children learn uh besides portuguese they learn hebrew english and french and french and it's also kind of a small city it's amazing so the jewish community it's very concerned about the the youth and they they do everything that they can for all those for the for the jews in brazil also i was the
secretary for the first best habbat that opened there i worked in the bedrabbat for about eight years and the the dance uh slowly slowly they started to send more rabbis to every state in brazil and i was in charge of them to find them housing and to helping what they could they would need and so i i i think that i did a lot back in brazil i really i enjoyed a lot but today i wouldn't like to go back to live there i love here the united states what did your family i'm just curious what did your family and everybody think when you decided
to move to florida they said okay at that time my parents were deceased all right okay so uh my i'm sorry my english at that time they didn't say you know it was her uh their son's decisions right so we moved then after a while then i met my uh husband ted that we still together about 18 years ago 19 years ago and we we got married in orlando after a while my only brother got divorced from his wife in brazil and he moved with us to to orlando then uh we moved to dallas because my husband's job mostly was here in dallas my brother
followed me and now he is married also so most of my close family is with me i was just going to ask you how you came to dallas so you answered that ted had a job here but it probably he he would be two weeks in florida he would come from orlando to to dallas for two three weeks in a month so i told him why don't we move to dallas so you don't need to travel so much and that's when we moved to dallas so tell us what do you think it was like what was it like transferring here moving here and what was
the jewish community like for you when you first got here you know it it wasn't difficult to move to to dallas and i i am an adasa member so as soon as i came my the president of hadas in orlando she contacted the adasa here in uh in dallas and they called me so right away i was integrated with the adapter and the following president of a dancer she used we used to live in the same neighborhood so and it's to the open area and we're still very good friends still today and we joined the first we joined uh what's the name um this charity
israel the synagogue and in the beginning and then we moved to nishmatan that we really loved and we did our social life around the synagogue zadasa so it's very nice the i think that the they're very it's the hospitality is awesome here but they they don't have so many how can i tell hello yes but it they don't have so many things like in brazil for the jewish community but it keeps growing and growing here right at least since you got here yeah oh yes it's still growing and growing that's true yes yeah so what can you can you think of some traditions that you
brought with you from brazil that you still practice here in dallas oh the food i i do a lot of uh i cook lots of brazilian food um even we have there is a a small super mark a brazilian supermarket here so i can find lots of ingredients now they are opening a second one that seems that's going to be bigger than that what mortar dish of course i still talk in portuguese with my daughter here there is no way that i can teach my granddaughter to to speak portuguese okay and the tradition that i brought is my background of being jewish you know that's
what we that's what i brought from brazil okay and hopefully your children will carry that on with them as well what have you and ted been involved in lately oh ted belongs to this organization and it's house of david it's a it's a kind of masonry but just for jewish males and he's very involved with this they do lots of uh good deeds not only for the jewish community even that's mainly with the jewish community but they they do it for not jewish people also and uh they have uh every week they meet i mean now it's everything by zoom because we dispend them it's
not easy and once a month they used to have a meeting that the wives are included and it's very very interesting and he also he is in the board of finish madame and that's it i do lots of volunteer service at nishmatam and that's it if you could change anything at all what would you change about your life what would i change oh i would try to bring all my children here to live to be with me because it's very difficult to live so far from your children do they have any are they are do you think they're planning it at all in their future
i don't see it because both of them are very well established in brazil i don't see it i hope we hope you can travel there and see them soon at least anything you'd like to close with anything you'd like to tell us that you haven't said yet no i just i would like to thank the texan jewish community for the reception that they give to us and let them know that i am here and i would like to help you and whatever you need we appreciate that very much and thank you esther in regards to your family and have a great rest of the year
and hopefully we'll all get to travel soon right thank you very much