Jo Reingold
Jo Reingold was born in Dallas, Texas, in 1956, the daughter of parents who had each come from Brooklyn, New York. Her father moved to Dallas on a lark to work in the merchandise business, and after meeting at a family party in Brooklyn, her mother followed and the two married. Three of her grandparents were from Eastern Europe, and at the time of her bat mitzvah she still had all four grandparents and five great-grandparents living, most of them in New York. She grew up in Farmers Branch, one of only a few Jewish families in the area, and endured the early loss of a younger brother to Tay-Sachs disease; her parents later adopted her brother Mark.
As one of very few Jewish students at her schools, Jo threw herself into her synagogue youth group, BBYO, and Young Judea, serving as a chapter president and on local and regional boards. She was a serious pianist as well as a singer and dancer, performing at weddings, bar mitzvahs, and Israel Independence Day events, and she once sang in a group with Mark Creditor. She attended the University of Texas at Austin, choosing the Texas system in part to spare her father out-of-state tuition, and earned her degree in education. She went on to teach for nearly 29 years, mostly in Dallas Jewish day schools, and helped open new schools including Solomon Schechter and Wise Academy.
Jo married David Reingold, whose family she had known since childhood through Tiferet Israel, in a memorable ceremony at Fair Park's Butterfly Garden officiated by Rabbi Scott Cohen. Throughout her life she served the Dallas community, holding leadership roles in Hadassah, where she revamped the professional women's group and started a nurses council, and later serving on its regional board. She was active in the Jewish War Veterans women's group and co-chairs the Hello Israel program for the National Council of Jewish Women. As a teenager she served as a teen representative on the Federation board. She witnessed the Dallas Jewish community grow from about 10,000 to roughly 60,000 and recalls vividly the day President Kennedy was assassinated.
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Joe good morning good morning now you've been involved with a lot of Jewish community service hadassa Jewish warvet National Council of Jewish Women the name of few tell me about your involvement with those organizations well it started as a teenager I was very involved in Jewish organizations which kind of prepped me for my later Life as a young woman my dad asked what would I like for college graduation and I piped up I don't know where it came from I said I would like um life membership in hassa he said okay and that's what he did he bought me life membership back then it was
not very expensive and from that minute on I joined the professional women's group I was a teacher and it was a good group to join I got involved with some wonderful women and it just went from there I just decided I need to do other things besides that I was very involved in tadas I became president I did a lot of things on the board um and it just kind of blossomed into other organizations and other things that I wanted to do so your work with Hadas who was at for the Dallas area Dallas area okay tell us about what some of the projects you
guys worked on oh gosh well I started again we revamped the uh professional women's group under my leadership which was wonderful we started something called the nurses Council under my presidency which was terrific it's a group of women that are in Allied health professionals and um we we started a group just for them those were two biggies as far as Dallas is concerned I then jumped onto the regional board level and I had several positions visiting other cities and trying to help them out and counseling them of any problems they might have in San Antonio and Austin and some other places so that was exciting
okay and um I also moved to Florida twice and came back to Dallas twice something kept pulling me back to my hometown so but while I was in Florida as well I was active in the same similar activities with adasa okay and talk to me uh now about the Jewish War veterans oh it's a wonderful group very Hands-On they do lots of things in the community it's different from hadasa because as you know Hadas is mostly most of our projects are in Israel and people can't see it and they can't touch it and they're not sure what they're giving their money to sometimes jwv it's
an easy cell we know that it's helping military it's helping veterans right here in our community and worldwide and Nationwide um you don't have to be a member of the people think you had to have been in the military to join not the women's group The Women's Group it's just anybody who wants to help out we help with the veterans hospital and we help with children's projects as well we're allowed to do more than the men technically so we do do more than the cuz we're women we like helping children and the poor and the downtrodden and and the veterans so it's wonderful it's a
great group okay and the National Council of Jewish Women I am the co- uh not director that's not co-chairman of something called hello Israel again it's my love for Israel and my Zionist Tendencies come out we plan little programs U audiovisual AIDS and materials and fun just Hands-On stuff with sixth graders throughout Dallas Garland and Richardson School District now as you're out trying to recruit people to help you in these organizations what what is it the the sighting factor to get people involved we basically lay out some of the things that we do that are important to us and we get people to to sign
up for it and it's really not that hard um you'd be amazed how many women in Dallas are involved in something something Jewish really a lot of women I think I I don't know I'm not sure but I would say probably more than other communities there's many Jewish women involved in something because they believe in it and it does give you great joy doesn't it oh yes yeah I if I could be paid for my volunteer hours I would be very wealthy as a retired school teacher I never got paid much but my volunteer work is really where it's at all right well let's go
back to the beginning now 1956 you had to say that yes Dallas Texas Dallas Texas I got here by accident I always tell people the city has changed a little bit oh it's changed tremendously um and we've gone back so far the hospital you were born at you said was imploded it's gone it's no more I have no proof that I was ever born here well well tell me what you remember when you were a little girl what was life like I do remember believe it or not my days right here at the JCC in the tiny little preschool tiny little JCC that we had
um my family was very active then and at teared Israel both and both of which I joined here in preschool and we joined to farad Israel when I was about seven or eight I started Hebrew school there and um I remember my parents they're both from Brooklyn New York so they didn't really have any friends here in the beginning and my dad moved here on a lark to work in the merchandise business and my mom came later they met later and they had to meet friends they need to they needed to know people their neighbors and tarit Israel members and other people so they they
joined several places which I'm glad they did and as a young child I also you know became friendly with some people from way back that my family knew and my and they had kids my age and the rest is history we you know well you said they came both came from Brooklyn at separate times and met here they they didn't know each other back in New York no it's a It's The Story Goes my father went to visit his parents back in Brooklyn and they met at a party my mom's family was there and my dad's family was there and they each said have I
got a boy for you and the other one said have I got a nice girl for you literally they met uh my dad said it was really love at first sight he swears it was I don't know about my mom but he was already living in Dallas and so she came well she he went up and back a few times she came down here to visit he proposed to her after two dates which I in these days is prettyy much unheard of you know but that's what happened and she moved down here never regretted it never looked back she really liked Alice now your grandparents
and everybody had stayed back in New York though yeah three three of my grandparents are from uh Eastern Europe and one of them was actually born in New York MH and I thought that was unusual cuz back then you think everybody was born in the you know in the old country but one of them was born in New York so okay well tell me about uh where you went to grammar school and and what did you guys do as kids first of all have to say we lived in a little Community we lived in Farmers Branch uh you know West or whatever south of Dallas
West of Dallas anyway and um no Jews none there are five Jewish families in my huge in my area in my development and I asked my parents over and over why did you move out here you know this is hitzville what there's nothing out here and their answer always was it was a nice Community it was lovely and it was affordable that's really all they could afford at the time small little starter house you know Fox and Jacob's homes back then so I got to know my neighbors and I did know my Jewish neighbors because we car pulled to taret together a couple of us
and I was the only Jew at cabal elementary school and I was almost the only Jew in all of my classes at Marsh Junior High which is still there now it's Marsh Middle School and almost the only Jew at white high school which people can't believe these days but very few Jews were there so it forced me or enabled me however you look at it the good thing was to get very involved in my my youth group at my synagogue and to get very involved in Beday Bri and young Judea which I loved so you know um had siblings yes my mother had a child
I had a younger brother who died he only lived to be about 20 22 23 months old he had TX which was a genetic disease and unfortunately he you know didn't make it no no child survives it we're working on a cure but it's not here and due to that I started a group here in Dallas I helped I helped with a group of women who also had similar either someone in their family or knew somebody with TX and we we had kind of our own support group going here which you know which was kind of nice cuz other communities have it also um for
various genetic diseases so right and then your folks adopted yes when he died they they only waited a short while it's not a good thing my mother wasn't ready my father pushed it on her and they adopted my brother now who I have Mark he was about almost four years younger than me so we really honestly Hardly did we didn't interact much mhm he was always we were never in the same school at the same time except one year we overlapped at the elementary school that was it so talk to me about high school life high school was wonderful absolutely wonderful for me um I
did well academically and I always did my homework and I always did what I was supposed to do I was a really good student but again it goes back to the stuff I was doing on the side was really more fun I was a dancer and a singer and a piano player and and also involved in Ben brith and young Judea I was in a dance group I was um I traveled for bbo I was on the board of bbo local and Regional Bo so again it's like the precursor to all the stuff I'm doing now as an adult I did as a teenager now
when you were um you say you you sang and you dance and played the piano did you ever do any of that publicly yes um I was in a group actually with Mark creditor real estate oh okay person he owns a business get there first and some other he's active in the Jewish Community we had a little singing group I was in several other rock bands believe it or not but I didn't do it didn't do it professionally bar mitzvos weddings here at the JCC Israel Independence Day way back when I was in charge of entertainment for Israel Independence Day every year what was it
like in front of the crowd I didn't have a problem I loved having a mic in my hand I loved performing no problem I enjoyed it did you ever think about trying to do it profession yes I did I I always thought I missed my calling I should be on Broadway somewhere but no what' your parents think um interesting their their advice was if I'm not going to perform mostly piano forget singing and dancing which I love but mostly I was a very serious piano student and I practiced a lot and I I think I was pretty good but if I wasn't going to go
on with it after college then they felt there was really no point in continuing and paying for lessons and you know whatever and I had to make a decision at some point during college that I was I I decided I was not going to do it professionally and so I went another way which was education which is fine you know became a teacher and I don't regret it at all but I love you know sitting and piddling every once in a while but I can't play and perform anymore now um in high school what was bbo life for you it was my life I was
a sweetheart of Louis AA and I was president of my chapter wle BBG and I was on the region board and I was on the Dallas Fort Worth board uh the vice president of the board here locally the the Metroplex and um we did a lot you know back then times were different our Focus was on service projects it's not so anymore cuz I was professionally I was um bbo director twice here in Dallas and it's just changed a lot you know I mean yes we had our social functions we loved our dances and we loved running around with everybody but we really focused on
doing good deeds in the community right and that's all but disappeared now which is a shame After High School was it were you on to work or on to college I went to University of Texas I uh in Austin in Austin I was accepted to a small College in Chicago and another one in Boston a teaching educa teacher college and I decided to stay at in Texas the Texas system um mostly which my father may he rest in peace didn't know this because I didn't want him to have to pay out of state tuition and that's that's the truth so I stayed at UT all
four years and I do not regret it it was fabulous the the school of education was excellent It's way up there with the best and I had a wonderful time also doing service projects and meeting people and social things and I was in a group called gde Gamma Delta Epsilon which was not a uh Greek sorority it was a Greek service organization again we go back to I was was doing lots of good deeds for people on campus and off campus and it was a lot of fun and what was the times in the country like when you were in college um I would say
they it wasn't unrest it wasn't a lot of unrest it was pretty peaceful and pretty okay kind of right after the hippie era after the hippy era a bit after God forbid the the gunman that was shooting people on the tower at UT UT had a bad R because of all that you know Nationwide people were scared to go there people were scared to visit but this was about four years later so it was okay it had calmed down by then um and yeah we didn't have a lot to protest or you know maybe that's good and bad but they were good years they were
very positive years now where did you meet your husband when I was eight our families knew each other we were friends from tar Israel my synagogue so all those years I knew him I wouldn't say we were friends really until much older his older brother and I became friends probably around Junior High age and we were friendly throughout the rest of our life till now his older brother and I um David was kind of the nuisance little younger brother that was hanging around but I got to know him better in high school because he was in the chapter that I was sweetheart of and he
said he had a crush on me since he was about so that's very nice it took him 30 years to ask me out on a date 26 years to be exact really and we went out on our first date it's a I won't go into the whole story but we we've known each other through the years uh we were friendly and I moved to Florida I moved back to Dallas and his brother said you need to give Joe a call you know give her a call ask her out so after all these years he was 40 and I was almost 41 when we had our
first date officially yeah wow when did you guys get married uh 4 months later got married in Dallas it was wonderful at Fair Park in the uh the Butterfly Garden area of Fair Park which was wonderful it was fun it was a great occasion the rabbi was um yet Scott Cohen which who was at tared Israel who we knew very very dearly and knew him very well and he was thrilled to do the ceremony and uh the whole thing was unique the fact that we were older the fact that we did it all ourselves our parents were not involved not monetarily or anything else you
know we knew what we wanted we were old enough and we did it and the rabbi was just amazing he went around at Fair Park at different in the gardens and had like different areas where he was teaching people about the wedding ceremony it was most unique it was really wonderful what can you tell me about your grandparents I was very close to them the sad part was that they were in New York all of them all my whole family is on the east coast and we were here I used to say I'm stuck in Dallas but I like Dallas but it was sad that
I wasn't near any of my relatives growing up I wish I could have been but you know circumstances were different but I I was as close to them as I could be uh we saw them once or twice a year whenever we could afford to go there or they came down here to visit us um um but we were I was very close to I I was really fortunate honestly I had all four grandparents living and five great grandparents living at the time of my bot Mitzvah wow yes that's really unique all in New York and every chance I got I went to see them
and visited and I spent a few Summers up there and really got to know them and I don't think hardly anybody can say that five great grandparents living yeah that is amazing all from the old country from Poland yeah so it was but my grandparents and I were very very close and they lived most of them lived they had longevity lived into their '90s almost '90s yeah yeah how have you seen the Jewish Community change in Dallas over the years the biggest thing a couple of big things is the growth obviously when I was a child I remember or even a teenager I actually had
the um the honor of being on the board of the Federation mhm they wanted a teen representative and picked me which I was really honored to be on the board so I gave my input as a 16-year-old 17-year-old I was on it two years of what the community needed like they're going to listen to me right and they did listen years ago we decided we needed an indoor pool of course it only took 30 years to get one but hey you know that was my suggestion U and some other things I'm proud of that I did but um the numbers have changed obviously tremendously there
were about 10,000 Jews when I was growing up in Dallas and now there's about 60,000 I think is the latest statistic so numbers alone brings an influx and people from all over and different ideas and different programming and you know different things happening um one thing that's really really nice about Dallas and I don't know that it wasn't well when I was growing up that organizations tried on a certain level to work together Laura Seymour is very proud of saying that now we work together with Israel Independence Day but it's it goes backways I think we've had um coordination among among Jewish groups for a
good 20 25 years or so where we really have worked together to do various things you know Israel Independence Day is one example in the community which I think I don't know if it's Unique among cities but I'm glad that we do it here I think I'm proud of the fact that Dallas can do that right the now you were uh obviously a little girl when Kennedy was assassinated do you remember your parents talking about it at all I remember that day exactly we all do if we were old enough to remember it all we know exactly what we were doing we were at school
of course during the day our teachers heard the news immediately they came back into the classroom hysterical crying hysterical crying didn't matter if you're a Democrat Republican whatever you are you were hysterical crying we were dismissed in those days we walked to school and walked home so we walked home and we hung out on our front lawn some of our moms including mine who were Housewives went to see Jackie Kennedy went to see them and greet them at Lovefield or even down town wherever whichever it was and my mother wasn't home and some of her friends and my neighbors weren't home they went to see
Jackie Kennedy and they got to shake her hand wow yeah then my mother proceeded towards downtown I swear I I wish I had statistics on this but I I would believe my mother was like the first to to see cuz she was very observant as a mother she saw immediately when Kennedy's limousine and C cavalcade was going the wrong way on a one-way street she says something's wrong immediately something's wrong to her friend in the car they saw it they saw it happening they didn't see the shot they saw what the after immediate aftermath and we all hung out outside until our parents came home
to let us in the house and we were upset but maybe we didn't quite understand it all except we understood you know somebody had just shot the president we we got that part I was seven at the time second grade wow and then you remember the the shooting yeah yes yes yep you know I remember it like honestly now that it's the 50th I can't believe it was 50 years ago it's like it was yesterday and to this day I'm one of those dallasites who's tried to move on and have some positive images of Dallas rather than everybody remembering us you know by Kennedy's assassination
it's hard it has been 50 years of struggling with it all honest to God first I open my mouth and say I'm from Dallas and the first thing they say is H that's where Kennedy was shot even to the you know to this day some people say oh that's where the Dallas the show was shot you know the TV show but U besides South Fork I don't know that we'll ever live it down because it was a very steamy time in our polit political life Dallas Texas it really was happiest time in your life oh my late 20s okay late 20s was there something special
going on I was involved in things like I am now a lot of fun things a lot of road trips with friends uh dating several guys um my job was really good I was at at one point I was at Solomon sheor I am proud to say that I was teaching and I opened three new Jewish schools schols in Dallas I was I mean I was on the first staff that was there is what I mean I opened uh The JCC here when it was brand new and Solomon Shor when it moved from sherith Israel to its own building North Dallas and wise Academy which
was a short-lived but wonderful reformed Day School mhm but those those were good times I was the Solon sheer at the time and how many years did you teach School total almost 29 years okay and where was the bulk where where did you teach the bulk of it was here in Dallas in private schools I was at just about all of the Jewish schools for several years or more um I did have a stint with DISD couldn't stand it absolutely could couldn't couldn't deal with it all the politics of public school and went back to private school teaching you know when you think of the
kids some of the kids that you taught years ago and then you see them today what do you think amazing they've grown up they did okay they're not ruined you know I taught first grade so I'm I'm I'm proud to say that I taught some of them how to read and write do their math you know that and uh yeah they were little ones when I taught them and they're all grown up with families of their own in some cases or phds or you know Wonderful jobs they have come back and I have seen them and it's been really wonderful to see them what advice
do you want to leave for the Next Generation they really need to reestablish manners a stronger ethical code if possible in work and at home and uh and to work and play nicely together that's just some some of it's been lost in this generation I think I really do think so you did a great job today oh thank you it was very good you enjoy it yes you did you did wonderful