Julian Rachman
Julian Rachman's family reached South Africa from Europe in two branches. On his father's side, his grandfather was born in Russia and, through an arranged marriage, wed a woman in Lithuania. His grandfather studied in Vilnius and Berlin, became a rabbi, and worked as a ritual slaughterer. After a falling out with his wife's uncle left him without work in a small town, he heard about South Africa, took a pulpit rabbi position in the Cape, and later brought his family over around 1934. Julian's mother's side came from Berlin, where his mother lived until age eight and witnessed Kristallnacht. When the Germans shut down the newspaper where his grandfather worked, that family also left for South Africa, arriving on one of the last ships in 1938.
Julian grew up not in South Africa itself but in Namibia, then administered as a mandate of South Africa, where his father served as rabbi of the town. He described an idyllic, almost Mark Twain-like childhood in a small society of fifty or sixty Jewish families who knew one another and spent the Jewish holidays together, centered on the synagogue. After graduating as an engineer, he watched unrest in a township near Johannesburg in 1976 and, uncomfortable with apartheid and fearing conflict, decided it was time to leave permanently. After marrying, he and his wife Claire briefly considered Israel, spending about a month there, before immigrating to the United States and settling first in New Jersey.
The Rachmans found New Jersey too driven and impersonal, so Julian sought work elsewhere and moved to Dallas in 1979, drawn by a city that reminded Claire of South Africa. They knew one person, Joan, who hosted them their first week. In Dallas they built a life among both South African and American friends, working together on Jewish Federation campaigns. Claire taught Hebrew at Temple Shalom for about 27 years, and Julian's parents later joined them, with his rabbi father active in the community. Raised Orthodox, Julian helped establish a shul and served on the board of a Jewish school. He and Claire raised four children, celebrated the holidays with large Seders, and maintained strong ties to Israel. A proud American citizen, he reflects gratefully on the country and its support of Israel.
Julian Rachman's family reached South Africa from Europe in two branches. On his father's side, his grandfather was born in Russia and, through an arranged marriage, wed a woman in Lithuania. His grandfather studied in Vilnius and Berlin, became a rabbi, and worked as a ritual slaughterer. After a falling out with his wife's uncle left him without work in a small town, he heard about South Africa, took a pulpit rabbi position in the Cape, and later brought his family over around 1934. Julian's mother's side came from Berlin, where his mother lived until age eight and witnessed Kristallnacht. When the Germans shut down the newspaper where his grandfather worked, that family also left for South Africa, arriving on one of the last ships in 1938.
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okay you're good my name is Julian Rahman today is April thirtieth nine twenty thousand and fourteen and well great to go fast and tell me whatever you know about your family originally how do they get to South Africa if you know yeah so originally my dad side my dad's father was actually born in Russia and had an arranged marriage got married to a lady in my grandmother in Lithuania said we're from Russia to Lithuania studied in at the Vilnius shipping in berlin vilnius a it was a rabbi and the reg marriage was in a small town about 80 kilometers from building in Breslau and my
grandfather was his primary job was at shipping a shot at ritual slaughter and he would for my grandmother's uncle and beginning so how do you get to south africa was my grandfather's a fairly direct and him and his wife's uncle did not didn't see eye to eye and he did not have a job in a small town so he had to find something else in you heard about South Africa so he left when she said I fragata position is a pulpit rabbi in in the Cape little goof place called laingsburg and earned enough money to send a family out several years later this was nearly
1930s I think the risk family came out about 1934 two legs book that's on my dad side I patrilineal side of my mother's side my mom and grandmother and grandfather were from Berlin my mom grew up in Berlin till the age of eight and they looked through saw Kristallnacht and my grandfather was working for a newspaper and the German shut down the newspaper had no work so he did about South Africa just like the Lithuanian part of the family they packed up I think of one of the last ships to South African 1938 Wow okay just in time just in time absolutely so tell us
a couple of things about life growing up in South Africa what was memorable to you so I actually didn't grow up inside after I grew up in Southwest Africa Namibia which was at the time part of South Africa was a mandate to to South Africa after the First World War so life growing up in Namibia was seen if you can imagine almost seems Mark Twain ish very idyllic no TV had a shortwave radio and a very small clothes true society that everyone knew everyone else small better 50 60 Jewish families my father was a rabbi of the town and we knew everyone around us and
everyone was like just one big family most of the people they were thought the way you Jews and everyone was kind of friendly with everyone else and spend all the Jewish holidays together and Jewish la pretty surrounded the synagogue and functions and everything that that was in in the took which is the capital of Namibia wonderful wonderful relaxing life no stress sounds great oh yes hot so how and why did you make the decision to leave its sewing so in 1976 there there was a riot in in one of the black townships surrounding Janice park in alexandria Township and I was sitting my office I
just graduated from college engineering and I looked out the window it's all the smoke didn't know what was going on and heard about this right I said I said to myself I was unmarried at the time and I thought I'd always wanted leave South African see the world I never thought about not coming back but I was very uncomfortable with apartheid and I decided this is potentially the beginning of a major civil my that day actually made the decision it's time to leave South Africa permanently I never agreed with apartheid I always felt that comfortable because they're on the wrong situation the government was not
following a path of agreement and working through segregation and I decided then and there that it'll be a time of conflict now it's time to leave I don't agree with the situation time to move on so once you made your decision when did your family feel about that how do they take it my dad to go as soon as you can in fact he quoted the quoted the Torah he said left off huh leave leave your family leave everyone and go go forth and so there was there was a decision to leave set out because so in the interim I got married and we spoke
about going to America Israel and one of the two so we went to first choice my wife's best choice was Israel my first choice was America had my best friend living in America that we argue too high school college with and so my voice gets the first choice we're going to Israel and the funny thing is try to get a job in israel well first walk we're going to go to keep little button for six months and so the Jewish Federation South Africa set us up for all time we go there and it was a group called her show merits here which its they raise
pigs need pork on the kibbutz and I said that won't work for a rabbi son so I immediately turned that one down so I went to look for a job and engineers were on strike in his role engineer never heard of an engineer and strike in America but then Jays one strike so we spent almost a month in Israel and packed up and came to America you said your best friend was here where does he or she he was at MIT studying getting his mba in boston so he was seeing America but we came actually to New Jersey to to my wife sample also read
by New Jersey at the time from South Africa so that's kind of how we started in a very good how long did you stay there too long I'm just kidding mag do just fine that's it my family no we were you Jersey for about two and a half years understand a job there found a job there within a better less than a week in stata quicken we moved out my wife sample within two weeks start on our own work there for about two and a half years and then move to Texas okay so my question is what brought you here and specifically to Dallas what
would be to Dallas good question work in New Jersey the other miners match my commuters Minister work Clara had it where to teach about 14 15 miles away and the snow she just chooses basically a bedroom community for New York so all the my wife Claire very social people the other leave at five in the morning don't come home till nine at night and the weekends they exhaust today it's not a very social they just people are very hardworking and very driven and she doesn't feel it was the life for her she want to be in a more relaxing City more some of something more
similar to South Africa so I looked around for another job and found Ned and one of the trade magazines from Dallas came for an interview and she GNE seen Dallas hadn't heard about Dallas knew nothing about it because everything kind of west of the Hudson is for the Hicks so she said to me what's Dallas like as it does it just like South Africa she said we're going so sides unseen be packed up and kept the Devils in 1979 by then they were quite a few good handful of South African yeah about did you know anybody you know we knew one person was Joan of
Vermont in fact we stayed with her the first week we're here before we found an apartment okay okay was very very close friends with Jones assisting us textin all right so so that's how we kind of got to effect claro john's wedding dress with a they've traded window wedding dresses and for our wedding so we go we'll go back small communities so there were a couple of South Africans at the time and yeah we were a little bit older than I said it Asians make a big difference but that age would I was forward 25 26 and pink German or us for any their thirties
know a little bit older that's more established there really had a house we live in the pot so that's kind of how we couldn't prove it South Africans yeah in what ways where others helpful to you when you first got here I think we go Dallas is in pretty easy place you don't think once we settle down just find you own way and we actually found Americans the Americans in Dallas with close friends Soundgarden's live across the street from us when we bought our house and we've been friends ever since our kids grew up together and they we kind of upset about half our friends
of South African and half of Americans and they just Americans are just like you written in new friends so we work together on the Jewish Federation campaigns and we just got along great but on a social basis we're not we try to be friendly though they had their friends they were not interested in expanding their there arises i find that somewhat surprising but very southern very friendly very helpful you could call the bell but on a social basis and expanding the social circle was not in their purview you've touched on it but tell us some more about how you you and your wife and your
family got involved in the dallas jewish community specifically well on the one side cab in Hebrew teachers she taught at Temple Shalom for 27 years the bed Torah so we we've got involved the Jewish community my late dad my mom moved here in 1983 and he was deep toreador for sure with Israel who members there at the time so we're very involved my dad was extremely evolved a lot of friends there if he comes in your part of a community you integrate very very quickly and so we got to involve the Jewish community signaling on a significant basis and then as the orthotic community group
because we were Orthodox and South Africa ashura two fellows one of the early members on the board there in pub establish abide lot of work for rabbi Goldschmidt when developed if the shul at north so just be involved over the years on a multi-faceted basis how would you describe your children's Jewish education that's a good question it was not what what I expected it to be I was on the first board to establish a dinner and it was a very small school one of my kids together because I really felt they needed a high school Jewish education I got that back in South Africa and
it was very small at the time they would not just couldn't get there keep the interest so it was there was a keeper their clean copy of the key bird Solomon chapter 02 birthday they all wanted to really be involved I think being children of immigrants they want it they don't want to be in a small immigrant environment they want to be with the rest of for the Americans so it wasn't what I would have really liked so hoping for whole lot better for my grandchildren how old are your children now my oldest is 32 and my youngest is 26 are they here our where
models daughters in Indianapolis I youngest son is indeed nap vessel so with her he's living with a hot dog and then my older son is in San Francisco finishing he'll be finished coming back to dallas in May and then my youngest daughter's new york well spread all over brought the ones coming American chance yeah once coming back to town so yeah that's great are you hoping maybe a few of a few more will decide picked up Becky my daughter who moved to india never said she's not coming back she loves it there my daughter moved to New York said she loved me on so much
will never move back so I don't know never know Never Say Never birthday yeah sure um can you think of some Jewish cultural traditions that you have maintained from home that you get you brought with you here perhaps that are different from what other people would do cultural in partial total religious so religious yeah they were brought from um I observe all the plugins so I don't work on any of those holidays and it's kind of pretty strong south african thing that you know taking two days from work people do that and I pretty much stuck to that and you know we have the big
cultural thing is we're big on celebrating the holidays together rosh hashanah pace up and so points basically had 31 people for the Seder and we love having and having kids we make a hole not a big production but we makin moves fun you know lots of food and lots of education and lots of singing and just that's a really big thing the Jewish holidays meet that's kind of what we live for we worked so hard in America that having showed up from the holidays for you very good how important was Israel to you growing up each other paramedic Lawrence that was it Israel we all
with was always focused in our psyche we I was a bigger emigrated to Israel and I'm not sure why I want yeah it was always there had a strong affiliation with Israel you know I remember the days hearing about and just you know once sold you get killed you feel you feel the pain as a Jew so very strong sigh mystic feelings that South Africa when the October war broke out first thing as young guys did college was go out and campaign for the war we go collect money and blood drives and those are really finished college volunteered so very very strong affiliation with with
Israel has that carried on here not a strong good America's you feel that America supports Israel you don't feel it see the way south africa that each individual said that because israel he said your parents came here what about any other friends or family that had followed you here my sister followed me i only have one sister and then my wife sister followed us to she's season in washington DC soon after do they come my sister came three years ever 103 years it was one year after we arrived in dallas she followed right after me and pushy have a place to come to and then
my wife says to probably two years later moved to washington DC what about Claire's family anybody in her sign come here as well that's exciting sister what about her parents are a nobody can parents parents came for a short while but dad had many pollute difficulties that you know the medical America without a job and everything was very difficult so he moved back to South Africa okay so since immigrating here you said you had how was your family grown religious be physically way I've known as right Oh since a since we yeah well all four of our kids are Texans so we have four kids
and son-in-law and grandson so we have gone from 22 to seven eight here too yeah to ATM this might be tough but what if anything do you miss about life in South at what if anything mm-hmm that's a good question I don't actually miss anything the only thing that I really appreciated was that everyone lived in the same city your family your children your uncle chance there was a lot of I would say family pressure or peer pressure of it in a good way in a very positive way you don't have that in America is very fractured I'm um I don't miss it because I
me I didn't live there long enough at my age or through my head of yours too but i think i missed that because i think that that's very important family is very important and evident circle and the other thing is going to college your kids just pack up at 17 18 and they God college versus Iran went to college that stayed at home with that sense of closeness and family and tradition and upbringing I think some of the social issue is that my kids have experienced difficulties in government through those late teenage years of college who is the result of not being part of you
know strong family and you're only connected by a telephone as opposed to coming home every day and being part of the family having meals together and holidays there I think I got their freedom too early in its you know I think that's something what am I regret at the part of the family and parental influence was cut off her pretty quickly right at college done have you returned to South Africa to visit sorry that person okay several times not many got three four times in the last 30 years yeah what was it like do you remember describe what it was like to go back I
was wonderful and just you know very nostalgic and I took my mom on a trip in 1995 back to Namibia and we went to the cemetery and sauce though a lot of old friends that have been buried there and a lot of nostalgia and you know the old synagogue and a couple of other friends that still lived there if you about six Jewish families living the Libyan Air very small so there was a wonderful trip amor family we went over pacer so it was we spent time with my wife sisters were still there everything my late aunt and uncle was little I've so we're really
every time we'd be back has been nicer than the time before just before well good i'm not sure everybody can say that but that's very good sir but you cannot just go there can you come on hold for a second thanks um ok so last couple of things first of all are you officially a US citizen yes ok and what does that mean to you what it means to me is I think it's one of ya putting being Jewish aside which i think the ultimate the most important thing but being an American citizen what America stands for is probably the most unique concept in the
world where if you were in England veo being a Jew you never really ever be an Englishman because you're an Englishman is member of the Church of England and they part of the religion the Frenchman has got history with him and the German is a German but in America Iran's an American you stand not for nationalism but for an ideal and ideal of justice and equality and kind of what the french revolutionary writers wrote about but never accomplished and i think that's what America stands for in it it's in a unique country that don't think is ever existed in this world both from a cultural
standpoint a economic standpoint because it felt very strongly on on merit and meritocracy and its system of government so to me being in a very consider than I told most Americans that I know how proud they can be a bean American it's a wonderful place and in the best part about America is how much I support Israel that to me is you know in fact moment to my partners are very religious Christians and they believe part of America's success has been their support of Israel they think that's it's all tied in I don't disagree with him I think it's everything's intertwined so being an American
is is a wonderful thing a very fortunate thing we need to get a paid advertisement if you say oh that's true it'd be great I love America this is a wonderful country where wonderful people and just what we do people who tsunami victims and you know for everyone in this world that bringing refugees and it's very unique on the and that's on the one side on the flip side capitalistic you either you work hard you prove yourself there's no giveaways it's not a not really trying to make it more socialistic but it's it's a tough camping that's up down when you sit coming to this
country you have to work hard and prove yourself otherwise you get nowhere it's it's a there is no there is not a country built on handouts and not mediocrity you know just be you know some of the families that have helped being whatever just do the minimum to get by doesn't fly in America yes it's a great place it's you know nama capitalism no with a socialist bit but yeah lastly on a personal note tell us why I believe you are glad that you came here what am I glad that it came here well several several reasons why I'm glad the the first one is
managed to extricate myself from the flight out I just didn't feel that I could live in a country and support something that was that wrong so the move to leave and leave it wasn't the shock that made me move wasn't the reason I moved that Civil War wasn't the reason I moved the reason I moved it wasn't the right place to be and I didn't see the long-term future in South Africa so and the other one was America being the place that is always monitored as a kid wanted to come to America not necessarily permanent Olivia but to spend five to ten years and just
see the country and experience it always followed American politics and America's global power and was always involved in in cold war and just Watergate and all these things that happened over here then presidents don't egg proprietary there's a way to get rid of them doesn't happen anywhere else so it's pretty unique gets it well we're glad you're ten years has expired or you've chosen to stay on so I've never yeah yeah thank you thank you for the interview room next you know appreciate it okay