all Oral History
1987

Lillian Melnick

Lillian Melnick was born in Poland around 1897, in a small town she recalled by names such as Baroza Kartuzka. Her father was a melamed, a Jewish teacher, and she received a mixed education, learning a little Yiddish, a little Russian, and attending a Russian village school where she experienced anti-Semitism from other children. At about fifteen she went to work in a store selling salt and herring, earning what she described as a high salary, before leaving for America in 1914 at around age twenty. Several young women from her town emigrated at the same time, scattering to New York, Cleveland, and Philadelphia.

In New York, Lillian worked in a ladies garment factory as a machine operator and joined the union. She married her husband, a painter and contractor originally from Bessarabia near Romania, and lived in New York for roughly fifteen years. After a difficult period in Los Angeles during the 1929 Depression, and after arranging to bring her father over from Europe, she decided to leave New York. Encouraged by a relative in the retail business, she and her husband came to Dallas in 1930, where her son Harold was born; a daughter followed about three years later.

In Dallas the family first lived briefly in South Dallas, then moved to Oak Cliff, where they bought a grocery store open long hours, six to ten. Around 1941 they bought a store on Harwood Street in South Dallas, and her husband later worked in building and real estate. The family lived on Park Row, then moved to University Park on Marquette in 1949, and Lillian later moved to an apartment building around 1977. Deeply involved in Jewish community life, she was a life member of Hadassah, Pioneer Women, and City of Hope, and belonged to the Workmen's Circle, the temple sisterhood, and the Jewish Community Center. Her most painful memory was losing her entire family in Poland to the Holocaust despite years of effort to bring them to America.