all Oral History
May 29, 1980

Lillian Roback Butler

Lillian Roback Butler was born in Russia and came to the United States as a one-year-old, sent for by her father who had emigrated during the years of the pogroms. Her parents came from Kiev, and family members settled in places such as Mineral Wells, Fort Worth, Waco, and Omaha, Nebraska. Her family landed in New York and eventually went to Omaha, where her father lived his entire life. Lillian grew up in Omaha, attended high school and a stenographic business course, and was working as a secretary for a hospital supply house when she first traveled to Dallas.

In 1921 Lillian came to Dallas to visit her sister, Mrs. Lewis Onish, and decided to stay after being offered a secretarial position. She first lived on Hickory Street, and after meeting Sam Roback at a Simchas Torah celebration at Shearith Israel, she married him in 1922. The couple lived on Spence Street and later bought a home on Park Row, then built a home on Larchmont in University Park. Their son Stacy attended Highland Park High School and Tulane Medical School, later settling in Minneapolis. Sam had come from Warsaw, Poland, peddled bananas by horse and wagon in Waco, entered the junk business, and later ran an automobile accessories store and a plumbing supply business in Dallas.

Lillian maintained a strictly kosher, Orthodox home throughout her life and cared for her mother, who lived with her for eleven years. She served on the Shearith Israel Sisterhood board for about forty years, taught Sunday school for fifteen years, and was treasurer of Hadassah. She was a life member of many organizations including Hadassah, Pioneer Women, the Eastern Star, and both Shearith Israel and Tiferet Israel Sisterhoods. She recalled hosting rabbis, cantors, and visiting emissaries from Israel, and counted opera singer Richard Tucker as a personal friend. After Sam's death, she married Albert Butler around 1974. She witnessed decades of change in Dallas, from segregated streetcars to seeing a Black woman serve as a judge, and the shift of the Jewish community from South Dallas to North Dallas.