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let 1942 Abilene Texas but you probably don't remember much because you removed before you were two years old that's correct tell me about what do you remember where did you go well I'm told that when we left Abilene we went to Oklahoma City for a while my father got a job in Oklahoma we lived there for a while and which I don't remember and then we came back to dallas which is where my parents were from ok now why were your folks originally in Abilene my father got a job after the war ok and in the jewelry business and he with a jewelry company I
can't remember the name of it but he did he remembered it said we lived there for a long that note was your dad in World War two he was a but because he didn't serve because of his condition he had which was Black Pete and but they made him put all the gear on and walk and then the doctor said no you can't do this your dad stay in the jewelry business then as you moved around he was in the business yes his his grandfather had been with bleep efforts Jill jeweler's for over 50 years and so he grew up in the business and he
was well known in the business okay now his grandfather you mentioned where was his grandfather living here in Los there in Dallas no time now he was he one of the first people that that company had hired as far as I know I never doing that he passed before I ever came along but yeah it was his grandfather so yeah okay and what about your mom tell me about your mom my mother was born in Fort Worth raised in dallas her mother had a dragard store on Second Avenue Oh and had that for years and then her brothers owned the mars stores on Second Avenue
which back then was like a may be it Kol's to this day but they had several stores all over dallas yeah i talked to me about when you were a little girl where did you go to grammar school ah brown on second aetna forest avenue okay then we lived there until sat down saws about eight or nine then we moved out to Lover's Lane area yeah yeah when I went to longfellow he have a brother Richard would you guys with older younger he's younger he's younger okay so when he came along to that ruin everything Allah we we never have an argument we had I
thought all kids grew up like us but I found out that's not true yeah yeah but we we got we have always gotten along well and what did you guys do for fun when you were little ah we went to the show we went to I had an aunt an uncle that lived in Athens we would go down there for usually two weeks at a time during the summer time and stay with them and we just always had a good time together now where'd you go to high school I went to Hillcrest High School ok and what was high school life like for you uh
it was really nice i enjoyed the activities football games I went to Temple so usually the kids that went to Temple and hillcrest we all got along during the week and on the weekends we had a good time I enjoyed it and then college were work after high school I went to North Texas for a short time ok got a taste of that beside the working world was for me ok and then so what did you get into I went into a mortgage company for a short time worked in mortgage company I believe downtown that was when I could still ride the bus no problems
yeah and got married after that okay and where did you meet your husband he was a good friend of a guy I was dating uh-huh I think we just all grew up together and he didn't live far from me so we just all grew up together and what was that first state like I think we went to show he was really good about we would go to the show downtown because that's about all you could goes the majestic of the palace and then always for dinner we'd go to the Adolphus for once in a while for the dancing so it was always an entertaining how
is dallas grown over the years it's just grown so much that you it's the closeness is gone you don't really have no everybody as you used to and you could get a round so much easier back then yeah and driving and just sort of grew up in your own little area but now it's all over after you left college in your working there's a very turbulent time in the country with Vietnam and there were riots in some cities do you remember that time at all Maryland is always scary yeah but you know I think we always knew that everything was going to be okay yeah
and what did you and Jerry settle down when you have balance in Dallas and what business did he get into he was in the plumbing business his father had owned a plumbing supply company and he was in plumbing but then he was a representative for a company out of California and then he decided to go into insurance and he was in the insurance business for over 40 years ok now did you become a stay at home mom orgy continued for about the first five years we the first year to with the company he represent out of California we travel about every other week around different
parts of Texas and Oklahoma and because he was a rep for that company the Vietnam War affect him at all was he in the service no he did not go into the search was the happiest time in your life oh I would think the the marriage the children coming along learning from being so young and girl and learning to raise a family yeah so what was your favorite decade oh I would think probably the 70s late 70s some reason that the 60s were just kind of strange to me but this wasn't my my cup is over some music you listen to as a kid you
remember who the artists were I mean Dean Martin the big band I and one day I was trying to figure out why did I like this because I think my parents listened to that all the time and you could understand the words and the music and the it was just the best we could dance to it tell me about your involvement with the Jewish community there I wasn't deeply involved only because raising the children and I did go to work we were members a temple and I got involved in some small activities there but it's been so long ago and now though you're involved with
the surface I did decide that I was going to do that because it dawn on me I'm a Texan I'm from Dallas and I probably know more than what I might can remember yeah so you're volunteering with the Jewish is so exciting I am and I have enjoyed looking back at some of the paperwork and what's involved and alexis has been explaining some things to me and I'm just and in awe of what is going on there it's fantastic now when you are a kid surely there was something you did that you would die if your parents knew what you were doing ah there really
wasn't too much because my I didn't know who knew who and so I was we were all pretty good kids the ones I ran around with because our parents knew each other and it was a time that you just kind of minded what you were your parents so now in your lifetime there's been so many great inventions that have come along is there anything that when it came on the market went wow how did we ever get along without that uh at the beginning and we were I remember when we got our first color TV it was just oh ha you know how we're going
to afford this and but we did and then other things and then we were I remember my husband not driving one Sunday and look just looking at homes and different areas and we saw this guy with this big thing of it to his ear and I said what is that he said that's a cell phone and I'm going oh my god how can he afford that and now they can't live without us so but you know you remember the color TV did when you grow up the date was there already television in the home another look we had TVs but and then we would but
they were black and white and you had to get up to change the channel which my dad would ask me to do that a lot and but we would sit around the TV to and uncertain Nights Watch certain shows yeah and just made sure we were home for those do you remember what those shows oh well there's I Love Lucy some of the westerns that we really liked Bonanza probably bonanza but i remember that i love lucy because my when she had Ricky it was the same birth date of my brother so we always remembered that oh yeah anyway 19 so we always knew that
you have three children yes I have two sons and a daughter okay your first automobile you remember getting it yes my husband bought it for me because he started traveling well with my first son came along then I was at home and so I needed a car so he bought me I think it was a late 50 Cadillac with the big fence on the back yeah and I went oh my gosh so but now looking back it was just oh god how did he do that but it was fun we need he won something safe for her child and what year did you injure get
married 61 okay now in your lifetime there's been so many momentous occasions on the national scene of course you are a baby actually during World War two but you remember the Vietnam era President Kennedy assassination attempt on assassination of President Reagan something good the moon landing for the first time in 69 tragedy of 911 was there something that happened that stood out that you really knew exactly where you were the moment had happened when President Kennedy was shot I my son was three weeks though and we were sitting at home and from the TV and I thought what is this going on I couldn't believe
it my husband was out of town at that time and I just couldn't believe it it was like it was a bad movie and then I remember when they shut down everything and we watch we just worked lewd to the TV like everybody else and we just stayed in and watched the whole thing on TV just could not get away from it yeah um when 911 happened I was getting dressed going to work and I thought oh my god somebody's had a heart attack and probably ran into the building and then happened again it happened again and then the phone started ringing everybody was calling
everybody I did go to work but they shut us down yeah the day yeah what's the story for the family to remember my father's mother she she liked to play poker I and my father was the largest baby born at Parkland Hospital for years Wow how big was probably at that time probably around 13 pounds oh yeah and for years he was the largest baby born so that was one thing so and I think my my mother's mother ran the store on Second Avenue so bet that back in those days that's all they did was work well you and Jerry have three kids and three
grandkids yes what advice does gramma have for the next generation I hope that they appreciate family and try to stay close like we did when we were growing up I think kids nowadays kind of beard to their own way and what they want to do and and I hoping that they don't get so involved with the new gadgets that they forget how to treat people I think that's the main thing that I find nowadays that they just don't know how to talk and carry on a conversation because of all the gadgets yeah you did a great job today oh well thank you thanks for doing
this oh I enjoyed it thank you