all Oral History
February 7, 2001

Marian Perl

Marian Perl was born in St. Louis, Missouri, where her father served as a doctor with the Veterans Administration at Jefferson Barracks. When she was three the family moved to Des Moines, Iowa, living on a VA hospital reservation, and when she was ten they came to Dallas in 1941. She grew up in East Dallas, on the last block of Swiss Avenue adjacent to Lakewood, where very few Jewish children lived. She attended J.L. Long Junior High and Woodrow Wilson High School, where she was the only Jewish student in her graduating class of eighty. She rode a bus with a handful of other children from the Lakewood Theater to Temple Emanu-El Sunday School, then located in South Dallas.

Encouraged by her father, a brilliant and somewhat eccentric man who insisted his daughters be able to earn their own living, Marian pursued higher education. She attended Mills College in Oakland, California, spent one year at SMU, then returned to Mills to graduate. She went on to the Columbia School of Social Work, then called the New York School of Social Work, earning her master's degree in 1954. She specialized in adoption and foster care, but unable to find such work in Dallas, she joined Jewish Family Service, becoming its first permanent master's-degreed social worker under director Bernie Goldstein. She also served as social worker at Golden Acres two days a week, where she had interned in 1953.

Much of Marian's early work involved resettling the last Holocaust survivors from displaced persons camps and successive waves of immigrants, including North African Jews from Algeria, Tunisia, and Egypt, finding them apartments and jobs with the help of interpreters and volunteers. She married Ito Perl in 1960 and later returned to work part-time, eventually joining Golden Acres full-scope at the invitation of executive director Herb Shore, whom she deeply admired. She handled intake, admissions, casework, counseling, and staff supervision, adding hours as her children grew, and retired in 1997. She remembered Golden Acres as an intimate, warm home in its early years and treasured stories of the residents she served across her long career.