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hey it's uh March 4th 2022 I'm Rick Charney and we're interviewing Marsha Friedman and Marsha please tell us a little bit about your family history and start with if you can your grandparents and where they were born and how you went into Dallas my mother was a Dallas native born and raised here in Dallas um my grandfather was a dentist in Downtown Dallas um my other grandparents are from New York that's where my father was from oh Sylvia and Saul Hut were my parents okay uh Fannie and Max Silberman were my grandparents and their whole family is down here from um Fort Worth and Corsicana
and all over okay and I had a sister and a brother my brother Mitch died when he was 17 of cancer my younger sister Nikki died about four years ago uh we graduated from Hillcrest we were members of Temple Emanuel on Northwest Highway uh had a great time there my mother worked at Golden Acres for about 10 or 15 years and loved it um what else when San and I got married we moved to Baltimore like Stan said uh stayed there until 1972 came back here and were amazed that they were showing us houses in Plano because nobody lived in Plano at that time um
we had the three boys and you're lucky to have the twins enjoy them they're a lot of fun thank you every day yes yes it's wonderful Stan and I really got active in bbyo in uh 1990 I hated bbyl and my mother forced me into it and I couldn't stand it but being a divisor it was great absolutely wonderful met a lot of nice kids and their parents and got along really well and we were doing that for about seven years I might be wrong that really brought us into the Jewish Community I guess because youthful energy it seems oh God yes where are those
days those have gone away oh when uh we started with a DOT hovering it was really nice it was a wonderful it really got into meeting a lot of people and uh saw religious school and the temple in a different way than at Emmanuel what would you say was the biggest difference between the bbyo when you were a teenager versus the BYO and you were an advisor okay when I was a teenager I didn't want I mean bbyl back then I'm not sure it's in different it was very snobbish and I didn't feel comfortable and I was forced to join because that's what you did
and I hated it but being an advisor was a lot of fun and the kids were different the kids were wonderful uh that's about really the only difference it was just right a different situation and as an advisor you could help make it as inclusive as possible for all the kids even the ones who felt that they were forced to be there God I hope so but I wouldn't pick on that I had a great time I had a great time it was wonderful being with other advisors it was great seeing things from a different point of view yes you know my very best girlfriend
is Hope Levine and we were both started school at Franklin at the same time and we've been friends ever since any fun you got to give us a fun story of of the two of you hope got me kicked out of services at Emmanuel there you go because uh we were on Friday night services and Rabbi Klein was leading the service and um during the service hope sort of shot me the Thinker and Rabbi Klein caught us and that wasn't pleasant he wasn't really happy with us at that time yeah uh I'm amazed his car oh my mother sort of Crash grab I find his
brand new car that's funny yes she was not a great driver okay and um I don't know if I said that she worked at Golden Acres yep and um you didn't say where your dad worked my dad worked in um got Chicago for UK they got a divorce when I was in high school okay but my mother was always dragging my sister and my brother and I out to Golden Acres when they had Bingo night and things like that right and I remember one night I was um over there and somebody asked me to take them home in the wheelchair and I was down the
block before my mother caught up with me to tell me that they didn't live there they wanted to go back home in New York so that took some time and Marshall what is your maiden name hi h-u-t-t so your mother was probably your biggest role model it sounds like yeah she lived for a lot she did go through a lot my father was not very nice to her but she always worked and she's always wonderful she worked at The JCC for a long time and then she started working at Golden Acres and she worked there with uh Dr Herb Shore and um was terrific she
was a social worker there and uh she was the sweetest person she really was she always had nice things to say about people and what I love the most is that she grew up in Forest Avenue over on PV Road [Music] and it was great to when we came back to Dallas in 60 um it was great that people knew who she was and thought highly of her and uh that was wonderful I worked at the Holocaust Museum starting at out at The JCC and was with them when they first moved downtown before they built that big beautiful one now amazing so I saw a
lot of changes in I mean I guess it was the 70s or maybe the 80s when everybody started moving down here from Ohio and other places yeah and really brought a change about in the Jewish area because there were a lot of Jews all the stuff moving down here didn't realize that there were Jews in Salina or Jews in Frisco and stuff never thought they'd be more than three synagogues in this town I mean when we were growing up it was Emmanuel Sheriff Israel and Chef Eric right and now there's all these other ones um the town has changed a lot when I first started
work it was at Northpark Center when it was first opened and then I worked at Sterlings on because I came back and I worked Kaiser permanent intake for a long time that's about all now we're just waiting to die no thank you with what's going on in the world I don't think I'd mind it so much I know it's terrible it's very frightening yeah it really is frightening yeah this I know the biggest thing that's changed mm-hmm oh I had such a good thing too those is no longer there old retailer no Phil's the restaurant yeah never had it oh look it's now where Cindy
says oh sure no Cindy's very well yeah and it was spills and it was a great place so we're gonna back up just a little bit and then you'll re rethink of your thought did you go to UT as well back in there now I went to North Texas okay so you're always kind of in the north Texas area oh definitely definitely we um it was really a nice life it really has been in Dallas and seeing all the things that have changed that's about all I have to say and and the kiddos tell us a little bit more I guess Stan said a little
bit but what are some of your greatest memories from raising the twin boys and of course Jeff I found that with the three kids the three boys it was very difficult to watch them play sports because they usually weren't on the same genes and so you know who you were going to cheer for and um the boys were great it was very interesting Joel and Mark didn't have that great uh time with the Jewish area but Jeff loved it Aza for Jeff was wonderful he was a bow and um he enjoyed all that activity and he's still very very good friends so the people he
knew in ACA which I thought was really good right which is really nice that's really all there was to it it was a nice family we had some good times um it was hard to race sometimes but that's what it is besides the growth in the Dallas Fort Worth area what other changes have you lived through and experienced or or anticipate coming even I remember when Stan and I first got married Valley View was just being built and the only thing there was Sears and now when we go by Valley View it's all torn down and it's going to go up as a whole community
I I can't believe the amount of growth that this town has had I mean it's amazing to me where are you from I'm from here born and raised in Dallas and went through brenfield Park Hill Pierce all in RISD yeah did you know Shannon Friedman you know I wanted to ask you about the Friedman last name I do not know Shannon I know many Friedman's um I'm assuming Stan might know a little bit more about the the origins or some of the earlier Freedmen's but it seems like one of the most popular Jewish names what is what what's the story or the history if possible
behind the Friedman last name don't know but basically I'm five ten and a half Stan and his brothers were all well up with six feet so the tall Freedmen's oh absolutely yeah you got to be tall to have her name I freaking yeah um and the double e versus the IE no it's the IE okay because that's the real Friedman name but um you went to where what school Pierce for high school near Berkner yeah that's what yeah JJ Pierce and I yeah graduated Shannon and Carrie Freeman I graduated I'm 37 so I don't know well okay Shannon's in her 50s yeah who are the
boys that were at um from there gold Eric gold yeah I think so yeah adviser was popular when I was 16. it I don't think we were forced by our parents to I think we kind of wanted to try it but you know I was into the sports and I just I never really dug deep into the Jewish portion and the and the you know the tradition in the area yeah yeah and then I was fortunate I think I was in the last ITT Israel teens who are uh trip which would have been two thousand wow and then they they stopped it for Safety and Security reasons for 20 years do you still keep up with your friends from it absolutely my best friends who I had
lunch with today went to Solomon Schechter Academy with me when I was two and three years old oh my God so does it seem to be that long ago yeah and I was at Levine Academy this morning for my own tour my own four-year-olds Shabbat service oh how neat so um commitment to the community you know enjoying it grow it's it's been a pleasure but um to you know see the commitment from people like you and Stan is is why the community has grown in my opinion it's just a a lot of good people coming together and adding their contributions along the way and they're
hey I'm glad you're putting up with the history that's really nice yeah it's wonderful but um that's about all I have to say Okay and let you know that I've enjoyed this