Rose Cohen
Rose Cohen was born Rose Wolfe in Springs, South Africa, and grew up in Bulawayo. Her parents were both immigrants who had fled Europe. Her mother came from a small town near Vilna in Lithuania, and her father was born in Austria near Auschwitz. As a young man, sensing danger ahead, her father left with his family, moving through Germany and Trieste, Italy, to South America and then South Africa, before settling in Rhodesia because of quotas on Jewish immigration. Her mother made a similar journey by ship to Cape Town and then to Salisbury, where she met and married Rose's father. He died in 1960 and, at his request, was reburied in Jerusalem.
Rose grew up in a vibrant Jewish community in Bulawayo that numbered in the thousands at its peak. As a child she attended Heder and a regular school, took part in a Zionist youth movement, and enjoyed a rich communal social life. She trained at a teachers training college in Cape Town, where her husband attended medical school. Their eldest son, Joel, was born in Bulawayo, and their other children, Ari and Tanya, were born in Cape Town. In 1977, largely for political reasons and professional opportunity, the family emigrated to the United States when her husband was recruited to a university position.
The Cohens first lived in Memphis, then moved through Ann Arbor, Michigan, and Cleveland before her husband joined a medical practice in Dallas and later opened his own office specializing in reproductive endocrinology. In Dallas, Rose taught, including work with the Solomon chapter, and the family joined synagogues and became active in Jewish life. Shabbat remained central to their household, and Israel is deeply important to the family, with many relatives living there. Rose treasures the extraordinary closeness of the Bulawayo Jewish community and has stayed in touch with lifelong friends around the world, while remaining grateful and proud to have made a life in the United States.
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okay good morning good morning my name is Raziel Cohen and I'm called Rose Cohen and I my maiden name was rose Wolfe and I'm from Bulawayo Zimbabwe born in Springs South Africa now I want to tell you a little bit of a hit the history of my parents and where they came from my mother was older Fira and she was born in a next little town near Vilna my father was born in Austria which is the town next to near Ashe wits and about ten years old the family decided to leave because they thought that there was something going to brewing so they left to
go to I think it was West Berlin lived there for a few years and still my father was still uncomfortable so he made a journey to Trieste Italy which was which was open to immigrants at the time he stayed there I think for about a year and went to South America where he father is one of his brothers was living decided he didn't like South America so made his way then to South Africa but South Africa had a quota of Jews that were caught so they had to make their way now to Zimbabwe Rhodesia at the time what year was that about [Music] I'm not
sure he was born in 1909 so 1930 35 somewhere around there my mother left you know they they left Lithuania and found a ship yeah that took her to Cape Town South Africa again the quota was fooled so she made her way to her re so Salisbury at the time and she stayed with her family in Salisbury and that's where she met my my father he was living in put away which is a the town in Zimbabwe Rhodesia at the time and she met him and they got married is nineteen what do you want I believe and settled in but a well because it was
a very warm loving open community that welcomed all these Jews that had come from Lithuania all over the world to make their way to to Zimbabwe and they've formed an unbelievable community there they had a little shoe which started I'm not sure my husband will tell you when when it started because his grandfather was part of it they go back further than we do in Rhodesia laugh in well aware what for us was unbelievable as a Jewish community everybody got involved you know the immigrant community was very supportive of each other and this is one of the pictures I've got of all of us young
children probably for Purim or you can see us all at a Purim body without parents how large was the Jewish community there it was I think about 8,000 at the time Harare Salisbury and Bella where and a few little towns around there so I'm not sure what the sum total was but I think in bulla where and one time maybe about 7,000 somewhere around there and today there may be about 40 or 50 souls there that's it you know in the 1950s and 60s everybody who was there stayed there they didn't want to leave the kids were staying and then the political situation changed and
and the children started leaving slowly and you had a family there right yes tell me about your children and their their upbringing well no my I was my mother and father and my brother and myself my brother now lives in Atlanta Georgia with his family but we grew up in blue went to school I went to fader we had a Heder there and we didn't have a Jewish day school while we were growing up afterwards they had a Jewish day school which a lot of the Jewish kids went to and I think it's still functioning today with a note you know they're no Jewish kids
lifting beware it's still functioning today and a lot of the black kids I'm going to this Jewish day school so anyway we had as a child growing up in Bulawayo we had Heder as a Jewish child we had Heder we had the Jewish youth movement which was hop on him I think this is well aware I don't think so have born him and this was our social life and very Zionists very very Zionists and as far as as far as so so this was our social life born in Heder and we went to a regular school in beware and I'm just trying to you know
we compiled about 10 20 years ago I think it is 1994 it's now 2015 some of our friends compound this book put it together about our history centennial celebrations on the back is a picture of the Buddha we're sure the synagogue which we used to go to every Friday night every Saturday morning and at the time that we were growing up initially there was only one Jewish sure but then afterwards they introduced to inform this was a lack and conservatives you know so this is where we went a couple of years ago when I was back in Bulawayo because I used to go my mom
was in an old aged home which was a Jewish old aged hermit was court Savioli Lodge it's still there and all the Jewish people went to this old age home when they couldn't take care of themselves and I used to go back until about eight years ago every year to visit her in the old age home sometimes twice here and there in the end and this Semyon Lodge was provided initially with kosher food I think that's still true to this day even though they're very few Jewish residents left there they still get now they are sent kosher food from South Africa but but then there
must have been about 40 or 50 residents at a time besides the rest of the community living in Savion Lodge and this was a godsend to us because you know because we thought that they would taken care of so you know it was unbelievable how they were taken care of was your dad stole I know my dad died my dad died in 1960 and he requested this was another thing the Zionistic influence even though he had come from Auschwitz and lift ash words to go but then they made this whole journey he requested and his body being transferred to Israel so a year after he
died my mom took his body to Israel and he's now buried in Jerusalem but but when he lived his family some of them did go to South America some of them did go to Israel and so I think he felt that he wanted to be with the remaining brothers as far as my kids they were the one was born in Bulawayo that at the margin the martyred a hospital and then after we left bulla where my husband and I went to Cape Town South Africa and this is where he went to medical school and this was before my kids were born he went to medical
school I went to Teachers Training College in South Africa in Cape Town and we lived there for many years before we maybe transept to America they were recruiting at the time that we left I'll talk about my children my children were born in South Africa just besides Joel who was born in Bonn where the other two were born in Cape Town and they were at school in Cape Town and then we decided for mainly for political reasons we decided that we were going to leave South Africa not I wanted to go because of political reasons but it was going they they were trying to recruit
a professor to the University of Tennessee they were looking they were looking for somebody with their faculty and has been applied and he made two trips he's to come an interview recruited him so when my daughter Tanya was 2 years old we all got onto the Europe plane and we had her second birthday on that plane everybody shared this this wonderful experience with us on the airplane and so I've got three kids I've got Joe who's living in Dallas now he's married to Sonya who's an Iranian and they've got twin daughters and she's actually my husband's nurse she's unbelievable and then hurry is married to
Felicia cancer the cancer family from and they live in Atlanta but they live in Tucson sorry and they've got three kids and Tanya my daughter is married to Corey holes and they've got three kids and they live in Atlanta so but they all as far as Yiddish kite is concerned there I think they all felt initially they were all Jewish state schools and then they filtered into the regular schools but I think they've always felt they you dish kites I hope that I want to take you back for just a minute and think about what it was like describe a little bit what it was
like that decision to move not only to the US but to Tennessee and what did your family feel that was left behind they were still in Africa how did they feel about the whole thing I don't think it was a difficult decision at the time because we lived from South Africa and the political situation was a little difficult and also a lot of the medical people in South Africa felt that they had to if they were going to move that was the timing in 1977 that they had to move so they all started applying for positions in the States did you consider anywhere else this
was I think that Memphis at the time was the best situation for a husband so we went to Memphis there were other there were other odd words but that at the time was the best offer after Memphis we went to we moved around a little bit before we got to Dallas we were in Ann Arbor Michigan he was recruited to go there and unfortunately by the time he got there there were financial problems at the University of Michigan so we left and then we were in Cleveland he was at Mount Sinai for three years and emphasis on Cleveland and then he came to join dr.
kay and Weinstein here in Dallas and you know because he was doing something different he was doing Reproductive Endocrinology and other things he decided to open his own office here so the decision wasn't difficult for us to make we were only leaving we actually lived we said goodbye to his mother who was still alive his father had died my father was dead and so we had the two mothers and I think that both of them were ok without did they have any feeling about maybe they'll move here or any of your friends moving here the same time around at the same time you were no
Mayan mother was you know she had gone through such a journey in herself that she was okay to be where she was she was very well taken care of the black stuff that we had when we were growing up were just so kind and so you know we we love them we were we were brought up with surrogates and black nannies and these these people who took care of the old age home people were incredible so there wasn't a problem with that and also I went back very often to see her my husband's mother died a year after we left and at the time he
couldn't even go back from the funeral because we just lived South Africa so but you know she had family still in South Africa and they were all nothing very happy for us crediting what kind of adjustments can you remember that you had first in Memphis and then I'm going to jump to Dallas we lift Cape Town the Sun was shining it was I think January summertime flowers beautiful beautiful scenery I don't know if you've ever been to Cape Town but it's much not yet you've got a got I intend to and we left Cape John and we arrived in Memphis and it was it was
December January favourites re February and we were excited you know this was a new life that we were starting but but it was down and our situation in this he was there for three years it was it was good and we made wonderful lifelong friends who is still in contact with but you know an adjustment takes at least two years as an immigrant it was good but they were were things that were not that good but but we adjusted and we were young enough to cope with anything that we needed to cope with and then then we moved on from there at the end of
assistant was very very short because they didn't come through with what they offered and then Cleveland number three years wonderful Jewish community they call it yes that we got involved with and then Dallas Dennis hasn't been a problem you know because we've been involved with a lot of we've got a lot of we didn't know many many South Africans when we arrived at all but we've made friends across the board and you know does serve so that was the situation and has been the situation your husband had work everywhere did you find work as well when you got well I taught in Memphis I taught
for a little while in Memphis and Cleveland when the kids were you know I didn't teach for that long but then when we came to Dallas I was at the Solomon chapter for a few years and then I was with Lois Davidson and I haven't talked for a long time but was that your base was that your introduction to the Jewish community here or did you have other things that you got involved in as well well we joined always shoes and schools Jewish shorts and schools that was our priority so what did you join many first moved here with God we we are now members
of her bad and sheriff and you know sheriff mainly now because our kids aren't sharing so we Joe Lynch Anya and the twins are in sheriff's so we go to sheriff and yeah initially when we arrived at sureit there had groups that we all got into social group and that dissipated that it's no longer I don't think they have them anymore I don't know but have you found that you are able to continue some of your traditions that you had back home here absolutely culturally Jewish otherwise yes absolutely the the traditions that we have like are you talking about your backs yeah anything like that
Shabbat is important to us every Friday night when to give the Reza family and then you know even with Joel he would my kids were later at Green Hill all three kids Joel Ari and Tonya they were green but Friday night Joel was in the marching band and he was in the soccer thing but if there's if there was anything on a Friday nights pertaining to that he we would have some by 2:30 we'll get together and then he could go and do what he had to do you're in the right place for you know football tradition said aramis so you know so that that's
it and I'm hoping and praying that my my kids will keep on the same traditions that we gave them with their own families and how important is Israel to you today you mentioned it several times living up in a very important we were very scientistic when my son ari turned you know had his Bar Mitzvah we were moving I think it was from Cleveland to Dallas so we had his Bar Mitzvah in Israel first wall at the wall and secondly we've got maybe at this time we've got about a hundred and fifty two hundred primitives in Israel because you know math has and her father
was born in Israel and I've quite a lot of family in Israel so very important Israel is very very important to us you've told us how your family has grown how did your children the two of them that do not live here how did they make their decision to move outside of Texas I really I think I responded a job to Arizona in Tucson and Felicia his wife had been at the University of Arizona she had been to Tucson before so they made their lives there and unfortunately for us I wish they were here but you know they not tell ya lift Tony was at
youtube' Texas and then went over to I think she had some friends in Atlanta and she met her husband Cory in medicine no way that she could so we never know listen it's not too far because I see them and you said you've returned to South Africa crap you had returned to quite a few times have you been back since your mom died um not to put away not to Zimbabwe we've still got very very good friends who took such wonderful care of my mother when we were in there I was at college with this one friend and there's they store the very few people
left and pull away as I save about 30 or 40 souls but let me tell you something about but aware even though there were very few people left until a couple of years ago they were having to - services everyday morning service afternoon service a couple of years ago when I was there unfortunately they sure weren't done they don't know what happened or why it happened but the Jewish community picked themselves up and reestablished another another place now unfortunately they have all their services I think and Savion Lodge which is the old-age home because there are so few people left it's a shame that I
think it is what if anything do you specifically miss about your life in Zimbabwe and or South Africa what do I miss about my life is involved we we had a close-knit Jewish community second to none you cannot find that anywhere we still in contact with everybody that most people that we grew up with found we found somebody on skype the other day who lives in Australia on Facebook who lives in Australia we haven't seen him for 60 years and we Skyped him and it was like you know so so the but closeness of that community is you cannot find that anywhere else it's hard
to simple yes-no your camera to duplicators what does it mean to have citizenship in this country or do you have oh yes it means everything you know we we are very thrilled to heaven and very important to us you've told us some fabulous stories I just want to ask you one final thing it may sound trite but are you glad that you came here and can you tell us why if so that you're glad you came talking about Devas never to conduct well even just the states and indoors and out yes we'll be very pleased that we came to the States because you know life
has you have to move on in that and the situation although our friends that are living in Cape Town even though their kids their children are all over the world our friends who we grew up with who are living in Cape Town are living a Wonderful Life a very Jewish Jewish she committed life and yes we you know we throw that we did come to the States anything else you would like to add or share this this book is a wonderful book that our friends put it together and I'm sure you'll hear a lot from my husband thank you thank you made it easy you