Ruth Silvergold Levy
Ruth Levy was born in South Dallas to Abraham and Bell Silvergold, both of whom came from Poland by way of Ellis Island. The family lived on Park Avenue, a block from the old Shearith Israel synagogue, in the house where Ruth was born. She was one of three sisters, along with Frances and Ethel, and they remained very close throughout their lives. When Ruth was four years old, her father died in an automobile accident at age 34, leaving her mother a widow at 26 with three young girls and no money. Her mother opened a dry goods store on Deep Ellum, backed by Ruth's grandfather Sam Rosenblum, who served as the tailor, and raised her daughters through hard work and determination.
The family later moved to 1804 South Boulevard so the girls could grow up among the Jewish community, and Ruth recalled a joyful teenage life full of friends and dates on the busy street. She attended Colonial Hill grammar school and Forest Avenue High School, where she was salutatorian and won a scholarship to Hockaday Junior College. There, seated next to Pat Levine (later Pat Goodman), she was fixed up on a blind date with Bernard Levy, a music lover studying at Texas A and M. They courted for a year, married when Ruth was 20, and soon welcomed their son Arnold. Ruth completed her two years of college and worked in her mother's store every Saturday.
Raised at Temple Emanu-El, where she was confirmed, taught Sunday School, and was married by Dr. Lefkowitz, Ruth joined Shearith Israel after marrying the devout and musically gifted Bernard. She became deeply involved in Jewish community life, serving as president of Mizrachi and holding every office including president of the Shearith Israel Sisterhood, and was also active in Hadassah. She raised her children in Dallas, made costumes for dance recitals, and never lived outside the city, though she often visited her daughter Hope in Houston. Reflecting on a long and happy life, Ruth credited her strong mother and grandmother as role models and expressed deep gratitude for her marriage and family, staying in daily touch with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
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every time I start I am interviewing today Ruth levy my name is Nancy Youngerman and the video photographer here is Ruth Andrus and it is May 27 and we are at the Jewish Community Center the year is 200 for 2014 high river thing I always start before the beginning which you would be where were your parents warned where they argue a dallas aight from word go yes and yes i'm a native down the side my mother was born in poland she came to dallas when she was 12 what was the date on that um I don't know the day actually she was 12 years old
and my father also came from Poland his name was Abraham silver gold her name was Bell silver gold and they settled in Dallas and we lived on Park Avenue by the show by the Old Earth Israel just a block away from the Osher of Israel i was born in that house and um I have two sisters Francis Coleman and Ethel sale my sisters and we're very close my mother was 20 years old when I was born and my father died when he was only 34 she was 26 so she had three little girls to raise all by herself and no money so she opened a
store on Deep Ellum and she raised three girls we all went to college had big weddings had plenty of food nice clothes and she worked very hard she died at 65 young heart attack but what kind of store a dry goods store mm-hmm what was the name of it Sam rosenblum my grandfather went in with her he had a little money and she didn't have any money there was no life insurance or mom and he was so young with an automobile accident I think a car crashed into him so anyway she went to mr. rich offski she told me two bars five hundred dollars to open the store and she didn't qualify she had no security or anything so he just took some money out of his pocket Ganga to Myra cesky I've heard lots of stories in one today he was vice president of the mercantile bank Martin rich house keys the father father and so both with her as she paid him back and she was good she was smart she went to the all the markets bought and sold and my grandfather was the taylor if they sold a suit or pants or something shortened him and things his name was
sam rosenblum max rosenblum my cousin has a grandson Sam Rosenblum and anyway so then we moved to south boulevard and so that her girls could meet all the Jewish kids was a duplex my grandmother bought well on one side and she the other side I think it was five thousand dollars each side that's what they sold it for it so the whole thing for five thousand dollars how did they take Dallas from Poland you know I don't know they came in through Ellis Island they were related to the weinsteins and Kessler was an wine Singh and Sam kiss her and my father was related to
them and he had a bakery with mr. and Langston's father called the Dallas bakery it was on harwood street and they were partners and they had a bakery that's how they made a living actually my father was delivering hollows and Jewish breads and rye bread and bagels to a bris a lip she by the bris in greenville texas when he had his automobile accident and my mother Ethel was three months old she was you know just sitting in the bedroom nursing the baby and she got that terrible call he was gone how old were you I was four and Frances was nine Francis is older than me and anyway that's the story of
we lived at 1804 South Boulevard which means you went to forest on which colonial Hill grammar school and I went too far seven in high school and I was smart I was class are during the salutatorian I want a scholarship there was one scholarship that Hockaday junior college gave to one of the Dallas high schools there was only maybe three woodrow north dallas and forest and went on to streetcars to go apply for that scholarship two years junior college and hockaday but i remember a little white lace hat white lace gloves my mother bought me so I could make a good impression and this hockaday
interviewed me and I want that scholarship it was those lace gloves yeah and it was good it was a very good experience for me and at hackaday pat good Pat Goodman now Bennett Goodman from goodman TV but her name was Pat Levine at that time sat next to me it's Spanish and she said would you like a blind date with Bernard leaving it's Bennett's through my boyfriend Bennett Goodman's roommate at am how old are you 19 okay and I said she said he's very nice Bernard lady I said okay I'll go on a blind date Saturday nights that we went Nimmi Goodman and Melvin Aaron
off and patent in it good when she was Pat Levine then me and Bernard we had a good time we went to the symphony because menard love the symphony and love music always loved music and he they could play this the first few notes and he knew if it was Beethoven or mark or you know whatever he was just I was very impressed he was so smart and so nice so we went together for a year and i got married in 20 and i had arnold at 20 10 didn't waste any time oh but you know we that was it i did finish my two
years of college and did your on did you work and your mother's you were too young oh I worked every Saturday yeah we all worked we worked every Saturday and sometimes after school and I she finally bought me a little car to go to hockaday because it was so hard to get up so early to take those two street cars it wasn't the new hockaday it was like on belmont street it was old hockaday and miss hockaday was very active at that time and anyway she bought me some kind of little second-hand car and so uh after school i would go to the store and
work and then I could drive them home my grandmother my grandfather and my mother and she wouldn't marry because remarried because she didn't want a stepfather in the house with her girls because she heard about abusing the girls and so that was it she wouldn't mary did you remarry after the grocery yep after we married she remarried that's fun and she was at a very nice man who lived in South Dallas Arthur rose and he was nice and he worked at the dr. pepper company and then he retired and they had about 15 or 20 years together and they both passed away early very early anyway she was wonderful wonderful look smart woman growing up was there any was there any Jewish exposure of a lot of Jewish exposure I know oh yeah well we had I had a wonderful even my sister episode we have wonderful childhood and teenage we had a I'd have a date morning noon and night because whoever walked by your house on South Boulevard said do you want to go swimming do you want to go get a bite do you want to go the movie feel you know so i can remember i didn't come home from one date by seven o'clock when Donald Goldman was supposed to pick me up for my evening date hmm so busy all my Francis and Ethel to we just sat on the steps and whoever walked by on sat Boulevard everybody was Jewish and yeah everybody was Jewish so we just got a lot a lot of dates we really did a lot of fun wonderful teen age from 14 on and we walked to the temple dr.
Lefkowitz actually married us I didn't go to sheriff Israel until I got married oh oh my god I taught sunday school at temple emanuel and i was confirmed at temple emanuel and dr. Lefkowitz would come outside the temple and walk me and Ethel and Francis across Harwood street so when we Rico we went to Sunday School example because it was convenient we didn't have a car and we could walk that one block and Bernard was very active and very religious so when I first went to shirt Israel of course I didn't like it because I was used to the argan which I love and I sang in the choir and I didn't understand it move it in those days sure if Israel had so much Hebrew it was all people so i just read it all the English but
we did joint earth is real right away as soon as you were married then I became active in the sisterhood I held every office including president and sister furniture of Israel he wanted me to some of it so since your Europol life was surrounded by the jewish population i don't have to ask if you met within the anti-semitism I never heard of anti-semitism even at hockaday I mean my best friend was Harriet Schaefer they owned a chaffer pen and pencil in New York and her father sent her to Dallas because she fell in love with the elevator boy and he didn't want that and she
was young and I think she I don't I'm sure she didn't marry him but after we graduated we still kept in touch it was ended up to be my very best friend and she came to my house to spend the night had it you know it was a terrible house living it was shotgun living room dining room kitchen two bedrooms and one bath she came spent the night blue came from a mansion in New York Long Island came to my house and she was my best friend I was walking on this unlocked ibly and then afterwards we kept in touch she did marry but I
don't think it was the elevator boy but that Iran in never read it did anti-semitism I was very active in Jewish things there was legit Ural tell you the hurt see Heikal Talmud Torah was around the corner man ginger used to walk there and when I walked was walking home from there maybe I was 14 and I heard about Hitler and and Jews and concentration camps and I got so scared that he was going to come to the United States and get us which was so good he has the possibility so you did grow up knowing a little bit yeah I read the newspaper all
the time I still do I read the newspaper furnish the first section 3rd at all the way through I like to read the newspaper in the morning I read it thoroughly yeah you haven't traded over at your computer yet my kids don't take yeah I don't use a computer I have the iphone only because i want to get pictures of my little great-grandbaby in houston but and I and all the kids promised daughter Kimberly has a new boyfriend she just said yesterday just sent me a picture of them and a wedding so you really keep connected I could connect it with all of them I
talked to almost all of them every day or every other day what has been your favorite organization to work with well I was president of Miss rocky because of selfie Goodman she started it a minis mother and Francis Goldman and I'm always been close to me she was my locker partner all through grammar school and high school yeah maybe now and she lives at the bonaventure awesome she probably has the previous department in the whole building his magnificent really is anyway I was president of Miss rocky and I was president assured Israel sisterhood I was acted a little active in Hadassah I wrote her like
did I had kids you know lots of car pools and dance recitals front of us really a big ballot Raven was lots and recitals and I'm a time used to make her costume so and so I made off her costumes well he learned that from I learned after my next door neighbor huh miss Holland she was a great seamstress and I went over there and had a little portable sewing machine and i would sell with her did you make your clothes I know but I made the kids I made Arnold some shirts I made them a Hanukkah dress with I remember the red velvet with
the big white organdy collar oh hanukkah clothes them but he then have you ever for a short time with outside of Dallas never lived outside of Dallas no but I do that when Bernard was able we went to Houston a lot hope went to rice she was sie Beta Kappa and the got her master's at rice and she met her husband there and so she was you know they're all a long time four years and then four years and then and she had the two children so we went to Houston a lot she has a boy and a girl her boy is a doctor and
her daughter's an attorney so when they were little we would go a lot we have two suitcases one for our clothes and one for toys we went a lot and also Southwest Airlines was twenty-nine dollars now it's two hundred dollars would it was just as expensive as it sterically ya know so we don't and also Bernard can't eat out too much so no salt we don't go to Houston as much problem but anyway what is your greatest memory or greatest adventure growing up to can you think back of what ahead to what your greatest memory is good adventures we wrote our bicycle to Fair Park
and rode all the rides and we walk to school and picked up everybody along the way that you take girls we walked down forest avenue an umbrella that was a treat and number I'll yeah if we had a number I'll it was amazing time everything was wonderful oh yeah it really was was his wonderful i worked at voc's dress shop one summer and i love that and i put a dress in layaway for fifteen dollars i put five dollars down took me three weeks to pay it out I just loved it I can see it right now because never had anything expensive as if has
outlet has Dallas changed positively for you between the old days where everyone knows each other Juba's enormous City how well you know you fit in now um even when we lived on Yemeni I don't know all my friends were Jewish and we went to shul every Friday night and I can remember fraud to play with my gloves i work a hat and gloves and i was young he was 29 years no I just and at the bonadventure there's a lot of couples Bobby and Louis Goldberg we go out with them and they're about in the same shape we are both use canes everybody's friendly very
friendly and like if you want to see somebody you can see them but if you don't you well you know some weeks we just don't really read it home every night I can bet chicken I can last night I made the most wonderful steaks they were great brahmam baked potato salad that's dinner so life really hasn't changed in 60 70 years we have more money now yeah I mean different that helps have both Bernard is saved and invested very wisely tax-free bonds what he believes in so really we can easily live on our dividends you know the same as his salary probably so who would
you say your role models are my mother was a brave woman to open a store and raise her girls and close the store if we were in a play she seemed to manage to attend everything that we did graduations and you know plays and all kinds of things she was a role model she wouldn't really was and my grandmother was very smart awesome she was boss my grandfather was quiet like Bernard whatever she said was good all right I drove her to purdue avenue right by the end word theater to buy she went she wanted to move out of South Dallas when we all were
getting ready to move out of South Dallas and she took that thirteen thousand dollars out of her bra i bought the house cash westford ooh my passion and my grandfather didn't know where he was going next I mean you know it didn't matter to him whatever she said was fun yeah she must had a big bra 13x she didn't I swear I drove her out there in my little second-hand car we barely made it but from kosher market was moving to lovers lane and everybody was moving out of South Dallas so am i saw was beyond high school oh yeah finished high school and i
finished tata bay and then and i had membered are now our first house was in south dallas not a house and duplex brent is missing and so we still we lived there till arnel is about two or three and then everybody was annarth because the synagogue moved sure Israel so when the synagogue moved and everybody admitted all the Jewish people moves and the blacks moved in that's it we sold our house to your new life sounds wonderful I've had a wonderful lata I really am grateful and blessed probably because I married such a nice man he's I've never heard him raise his voice everything is
fine you want to go to the show yeah we want a steak for dinner okay if you want this one you know I can't season I can't use salt but I buy all the herbs uh-huh you know I hope I that wonderful herb mix which is parsley and God is and that season everything with that real good and by him that imitation salt after it's cooked he uses a little bit of that that's not good for you either it's got a lot of potential minute on so anyway but and that's it I mean I used to when he was sick and lived on Yemeni I
drove him to the shop every day but then I finally got this lady and she's good very smart very good she comes in the morning and she makes our bed and she puts the dishes in the dishwasher and you know and she takes the papers just down the hall we never have to go outside at the bonaventure you just your papers and your trashcan you trashing this some in a utility room there i'm on your floor how long did you think there's like we've been there six years and we love it I mean what if you ask somebody new do you like the patty like
the bonaventure and they say what's not to like Jack exactly they bring your groceries up they bring your car around the front under a cover poor turkish air and and man standing there the ballet like openings with your door open when you come down you call for your car I'm coming down would you please bring my car out of the garage and just everything's done for you bring everything up your cleaning up everything well keep up the good life yeah I've been very blessed yeah really have been blessed and it's been a pleasure inhaling you just won I think it depends on who you marry
it depends on who you marry I think it depends on who you are hey Hayley yeah I keep telling my grandchildren it depends on who you married oh really does one grand daughters married to a Gentile guy but they're joining at the temple and he'll probably convert and she said because they don't have enough Jewish friends and she's really becoming very Jewish now and she never was she went to a college barred and I'm state- you are a noble and she's also got her she got her master's at Tufts in art museum administrator so she is an administrator of an art museum in the yard
Tracy father's daughter but she did marry a Gentile up there and but she she they still live there's an Albany New Year's anyway she said they're guarding the temple she called me to tell me but the one with the baby cost me almost every day about what you don't get is that but I love it but I got to every one of them every day to you uh-huh I talked to Staten yesterday and to Jessica yesterday and almost every day I've talked to two or three of them either they called me or I called them that's it I get along best with my girls are
most difficult Arnold's always been difficult and always been difficult though he has two girls center boy but he runs our business he's a great businessman so that's good that's one good fell if you only have to walk on eggs with one of my dear end of the game really do again this morning we had a little argue much because his daughter Jacqueline's not married she's 29