all Oral History
November 3, 2012

Sam Fagin

Sam Fagin was born in Oklahoma City in 1918, the youngest of five children, to parents who had come from Russia. His father owned a clothing store in downtown Oklahoma City, while his mother was a homemaker who raised the family and kept a strict kosher home. He had three brothers and one sister. He remembered little of his grandparents, recalling only his mother's mother, who lived in New York, spoke no English, and once visited when Sam was very young. In 1933, drawn by his mother's sister who owned the New York Bakery on Forest Avenue, the family moved to Dallas, where Sam began his first year of high school.

In Dallas, Sam settled into a predominantly Jewish South Dallas neighborhood centered on Forest Avenue, Park Row, and South Boulevard, and attended a high school that was nearly all Jewish. Unable to afford college, he set out job-hunting during the summer of 1936 and, after being turned away all over downtown, wandered into Neiman Marcus and was hired as a messenger boy for fifty dollars a month. Over the years he rose from messenger to cashier to stock boy, and eventually to selling women's shoes after Herbert Marcus Sr. personally insisted he stay when he considered leaving for a jewelry store. Through handwritten thank-you notes and attentive service, Sam built a devoted clientele that grew to fill three volumes of customer names.

Sam served two and a half years in the Air Force in the South Pacific after being drafted in 1942, having married his wife Freda in November 1941. Their only child, a son named Milton, was born in 1948. Raised Orthodox, Sam attended Hebrew school as a boy and had a small bar mitzvah after his father died a month before the ceremony; he later joined Temple Emanu-El, where his son was confirmed, and remained a member for more than fifty-five years. A Mason for over fifty years, he retired from Neiman Marcus after 54 years of service around 1991 and began volunteering weekly at the Scottish Rite Children's Hospital gift shop, a role he continued for two decades. Reflecting on his life, he took great pride in having built everything on his own.