Stanley Rabin
Stanley Rabin was born in 1938 in the Bronx, New York, to a family of immigrants. His father came to America at age nine and worked in the wholesale grocery business before owning a liquor store, and his mother later worked as a saleswoman at Lord and Taylor. He grew up in an ethnically divided neighborhood that was entirely Jewish, playing stickball and basketball in the streets and working as a teenager selling concessions at Yankee Stadium and the Polo Grounds. He attended the Bronx High School of Science, a competitive public school, commuting by subway, and later graduated from Columbia University as a metallurgical engineer.
After college, Rabin worked in the nuclear program at Oak Ridge, Tennessee, where he held a top security clearance, and served six months of active duty and six years in the reserves, doing basic training at Fort Knox and engineering training at Fort Leonard Wood. He then moved to GE in San Jose, California, where he earned an MBA at night from the University of Santa Clara. Through a friend he met Barbara Benjamin, who had grown up in Borger, Texas, and attended the University of Texas and the University of California, Berkeley. They married in February 1965 and had two children born in California.
In 1970 Rabin joined Commercial Metals Company in Dallas, drawn in part by Barbara's family ties in Texas. He spent more than 38 years with the company, serving as CEO for 28 years, and traveled extensively for business, including to Germany. He and Barbara became involved in the Dallas community early on. He served as president of Jewish Family Service, the Federation, and Temple Emanu-El, and on the boards of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (where he was treasurer), the American Jewish Committee, and Hebrew Union College. After retiring he devoted himself to nonprofit work, including United Way, the symphony, and chairing the Presbyterian Hospital board. Married 47 years with two children and five grandchildren, he counts marriage, children, and grandchildren among his happiest experiences.
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Stan we know you're heavily involved in the Jewish community tell me some of the things that you're involved with I've been present Jewish Family Service in the mid-80s I was Federation president in the mid-90s then I was temple emanuel president right after that a couple years after that but when I retired but there were went of the boards of three national jewish organizations the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee American Jewish Committee and a brew union college especially with the joint as it's called because I'm treasurer of that organization it's a global we do everything we do is outside the US but I also decided I
wanted to get more involved in the general community and I've done that so I've gotten very involved in about on and off with United Way with the symphony I've got on hospital board but now I'm chairing the presbyterian hospital board I was the chair of United Way Foundation i'm on a symphony board which one of these gives you a greatest pleasure clearly number one is the joint as we call it as what we do there its rescue relief renewal you know primarily probably ninety five percent of what we do is Jewish oriented but we also have some successful non-sectarian programs especially in disaster relief because
unfortunately we're very good at rescue and relief so it's a human service organization and it's like we're doing what no one else would do Holocaust survivors in Europe children and at-risk at-risk children right outside the US we also do a substantial amount in Israel it's very specific program so I would say it's it's my favorite 1938 the bronx new york right what do you remember when you're a little kid tell us about the bronx well what I remember most that's been so different the rest of my life was that the Bronx was divided very much ethnically racially and so my immediate air was all Jewish
a few blocks away was Irish Catholic and a few blocks away another direction was Italian Catholic but I didn't know process till I got to college so that that's what's different I feel and when I grew up in the braxin of course that change with the Puerto Rican immigration and other changes as as I was growing up you know but you told me a quick little cute story that your wife broken of town in Texas of 10 Jewish families and you lived in a building of 96 families all druid right right just a different time him now quite a sports town when you're a kid
in the 30s yes Yankees Giants Dodgers who's the team well I should have been a Yankee fan because that's I was closest to Yankee Stadium and i worked at Yankee Stadium when I was 14 15 16 selling concessions everything except bureau was too young but also worked at the Polo Grounds because the new year the now San Francisco Giants within the new york giants of course the Brooklyn know the Brooklyn was a different barroso actually saw only one game in my life at Ebbets Field but the number of times i was at Yankee Stadium and the Polo Grounds was the extraordinary was it worth the
Yankee fan right which was dumb because the Yankees always wanted you're a giant fan yeah you know you remember some of the players when you were taught yes Willie Mays mocos Bobby Thompson for the famous home run mighty Irvin yeah Hoyt Wilhelm he was a relief pitcher Amendment because we would quit in the seventh inning so I would see I would never see the start with starting pitchers then try to finishing a slow that knuckle day I saw that knuckleball yeah and the catch is good catch his knuckle that is funny where some of the Yankees back then you remember yeah Meg well Mickey Mantle
I guess Billy Martin was then whitey Ford yeah they had they had great teams and Dodgers remembering though Jackie Robinson Pee Wee Reese is Jackie Robinson accepted in New York as uh as I remember nothing different now the giant the Yankees were the last by the way of the New York teams to start integrating the Giants were pretty early right after the Dodgers right and I I just don't remember that I mean I know it was a huge issue a lot of places and it could have been happening I just didn't wouldn't pay any attention to it but because the Giants already had no willie
Mae started in 51 yeah yes I saw him in his first home game as a giant yeah what the winter parents did my father originally started in the wholesale grocery business it was a family business unfortunately that business failed because they didn't see the supermarkets coming so and then he he owned the liquor store and my mother was a mother and housewife but then later on she also had to go she went to work at Lord & Taylor's as a saleswoman and she was a good saleswoman I remember that now you know when you were born we're coming out of a depression in three years
later we were in a war did any of these events affect your immediate family no my parents were immigrants my father came when he was nine years old my mother too then well certainly the depression did you know but World War two my father didn't sir he was to presumably too old he was born in 1899 and I didn't have any uncles who were killed or anything like that so there wasn't it was not in the media then pay in terms of that no you did you know your grandparents at all no three of the forward deceased and the fourth died probably when I was
seven years old I and she was terrific but I hardly you know I was just starting to get to know her one once she passed the would you guys do for fun when you were little oh we were always in the streets I mean that was at and playing stickball you know we did all the things we would walk to school we would play basketball but you know I marvel how different my upbringing was compared with our children or grandchildren right nothing was organized no coaches and how we learn right to play baseball players going yeah it's beyond me know how we did I mean
I wonder you had been coached they would have really been thinkin aptly put the we just did things on on our own where's go to high school I was very I went to own the greatest high schools the Bronx High School of signs which was a public high school but you had to test to get in there and that was I was very fortunate to be able to go there and what was your high school life like what did you guys do well you know it's different I property was almost different a bronze on because i had a commute to high school so i would
generally take the subway to the high school because it was about probably a mile and a half for what and i would take so take the subway but then when school's over i would go home so you didn't have high school friends in the sense that people do in most other parts of the contrary even maybe within New York my friends was still with my neighborhood friends right oh you guys were scattered to the different yeah I mean I had a cousin who went there over who was very close with but but also he lived in a different part of the rise and do you
remember getting your first car yeah when I graduated college the the and where my parents did was made the down payment it was my graduation present which wasn't my mean the car was I think probably three thousand dollars and i paid it off because i had my first post college job where did you go to college at Columbia okay what was it like fabulous it was a great school and the best thing about was it was a national school so it just for me it was just a transforming transformative experience and while you're in college at Columbia are you thinking about what you want to
do what you want to be when you get out of school well I already decided and this is interesting because I'm not quite sure how it happened cuz nobody in my family I made the decision in high school that I wanted to be an engineer and it had to have been a chemistry somebody influenced me to make that decision like that it probably had to be a teacher and because nobody in my family I mean a lot of us will went to college it was amazing because we're children of immigrants but doctors lawyers but I'm so I was the only one and so I had
made that decision before so when I went to Columbia I was admitted actually they had a dual program bachelor of arts and engineering combined and so I you know that was pretty much worked out when they literally when i was a freshman i knew what i was going to do where did you meet your wife that was afterward in Caxon california so when I graduated college I went to work at Oak Ridge Tennessee in the nuclear program and that's a culture shock that was a culture shock and cos oakridge especially up wit was full of scientists and engineers okay there was in East Tennessee and
I mean you could have put me on Jupiter with this but again these are all great you know broadening experience right especially when you're young yeah that was at oakridge for 45 years except for the six months in the army tell me about your service in the armed while I was out bridge I didn't have to serve in the army because I had top security clearance and with what I was doing which I can't talk because talk about because it still not on what it's classified Declassified I would not have been drafted but but I wanted to get service and get it and also get
it get it behind me so I made the decision to go and what was then we did six months of active duty and and then six years in the reserve and so I did basic training at Fort Knox and Kentucky and then engineer I was in the engineering in Fort Leonard Wood but I wasn't doing it I was a plumber the soap and interestingly though that's that was the year 61 the berlin wall went up and lots of people who came from reserve units were being act the units were being activated people were suddenly you know and we're going to have a commitment of you
know one year two years of active duty because no one knew what what was going to happen as a result of that whether there would be you know a conflict leading to war just it was a very uncertain time people remember the Cuban Missile Crisis sister say most people don't don't remember the wall of what would it would an impact at the time mahan what did you feel in the wall came down I thought that was great I thought that was great and a mile upgrades was all classified work but I really already had decided I I enjoyed certain business aspects and and they had
poked me on some projects and then I went to work for GE in california in san jose california and so I went out there in June of 64 and they got me already into marketing and that was also nuclear-related the commercial there wasn't rough it for defense it was for for commercial and and that's where when I was at Oak Ridge my had a roommate who was my closest friend who was also a metallurgical engineer like me he was from Atlanta we would go to Atlanta all the time for social reasons could and I met a young woman there I never dated her about a
minute and she had moved to California so when I got out to California I called her said do you know anybody and she introduced me to barber Benjamin who became my wife other lady that you called what she expecting you to be calling her for a date yes but she says that she said where are you from I said Tennessee can't broke she said if I had said in New York she wouldn't go out with me that's half joking but yeah me so how long did you and your wife did not long because we were both young mid 20s by then which was in those
days over its matter in June or sick we got married in February of 65 in did she think that California was going to be your guys home yeah because she had look up but she happened with her was she went to the University of Texas which is a long way from Borger Texas where she grew up but she was there two years and decided you know this is great but there's got to be more than this even and she transferred to the University of California at Berkeley as a junior got on the train and went out there on her own oh good for pretty pretty
amazing and and then she stayed out there after her graduation okay so you guys get married in California and you're settled down you're making that home and then tell me what goes on ok are that two children were born during that area ok but I got an MBA at night at the university of santa clara while i was working for gee I couldn't go during day i right I went wet night and so you're working during the day you have two small children and you're going to school all night right that's a full day that was a full thing you know my love was metalled
so I really and and I and if I was either going to stay with GE the rest of my life literally or because I was doing fine there was no which interest it was an interesting change this isn't inside an important aside when I graduated from Columbia and 59 as a metallurgical engineer logically it should have got to work for steel company aluminum copper and brass sensitive in higher Jews and GE had that reputation but obviously by 64 they hired the N and no discrimination medals that had nothing to do with it that that change had occurred so quickly and but I wanted to do
something I heard about this company that was starting to grow and and it was in dallas in that headquartered in dallas so you're making a decision to leave California now to Dallas what was it that intrigued you about that Barbara had no even though she loved California her mother was still me a lot of father had died before we met even cited to know him but she had family in Fort Worth my mother she was still in board which is 375 miles away but in Texas and then the kids would be close to her and it got me a little bit closer to my parents
you know still far away but closer closer right so you came to Dallas and tell me about life and downs we got involved from from the beginning we did interests at me we didn't know even though she had gone to UT for a couple of years we did not know a lot of people when when we came here sir dyno nobody and what she knew some but but we got involved right away and including in the Jewish community well now especially since I retired I don't do non profit stuff and uh I decided when I retired almost five years ago from commercial metals that I
would not serve on any for-profit boards and including commercial mera I had you know it was time for me I'd been there are 38 and a half years it was time for me to cut the cord I'd been CEO for 28 of those years so I just you know I didn't want to hang around there I've been involved with nonprofits over the years and I decided I would do that full time and I had been you know during that period while i was working i had to focus on one organization at a time because it was very busy with business i was traveling a lot
you know i had spent a lot of time in germany on business but my views have changed when i started going there in business in the 70s with in west germany it would bother me to the degree i was dealing with people who I would wonder yeah where were you what were you doing but there comes a point where then these are the children or the grant you and you know I can't keep ya they they had nothing to do with it so so while I did always did business and and in west germany ironically was one of the best places to do business so
that when the wall came down and I really felt like I had been in these Germany which Molly gave me an anecdotal evidence that there was something that's really wrong with communism you know it's interesting how these things say when good and even at the time it would tell people I kind of sense their what you know and I didn't believe it all in that kind of system but just seen it whether it was going from East Berlin to West Berlin or other parts of East Germany or even more advanced countries and but still comments like Hungary Czechoslovakia you could just see there was a
huge difference and so I was I thought was a great thing that the wall would come down that they would reunify but the Germans themselves that you know this is going to be a long time till we really unifying does he ceremony was so far behind as you traveled the world how do you think people perceived the United States it varied from time but they never got away with insulting the United States where I just listened it didn't and then answer back that was one thing I wouldn't I would power especially in Europe I would say yeah look great World War one the Holocaust world
war two and you're telling us how to behave now let's go back to your industry a little bit how have you seen it change over the years there's been a lot of consolidation because what we did was the original business was scrapped and commercial metals still we had still were very involved in scrap when I retired but we got very big and steel manufacturing at five steel mills in the u.s. we had bought a steel mill in Poland we did a lot of steel fabrication we had a big trading business that was worldwide so they've been I'd say to bank they want globalized second was a lot of consolidation so small firms were becoming bigger and some of course we're gone so the traditional family-owned businesses were not gone but we're disappearing now that your parents live long enough to watch your success in business they did I'm not sure they understood it but right but they did they have to be very proud yeah those kind of need for you to see them being so proud of you
yeah it was very because I realized and I've spoken at there's a United Way and others who would such a focus on education how important education what and they understood even though they couldn't then as far as I know didn't even finish high school they understood special my mother the value of education and and so just like when it came time for high school you know my mother really pushes you need to go to Bronx Science and these are very important so you could think back all these little steps that were very helpful it's very very very helpful what's the happiest time in your life
there have been a lot of them from the other day we we got married to having kids and Chris having grandkids is easier that is really special yeah the only thing in life that's not exaggerated now where were your kids born they were born in California interestingly yeah both morning hill they grew up here because they were young so they clearly grew up here now in your lifetime you know there's been so much advancements in technology and your gals too yeah I'm talking about um was there some invention or something that you really went wow this is going to make a difference in the steel
industry we have much more in steel manufacturing than we had in scrap processing or or or fabrication although computer assisted design was a very big change especially for fabrication but in the steel manufacturing I would say was more more progressive I would say there were dramatic steps but they're important steps forward I mean nothing like the internet or anything that dramatic but just the way we did things kept and of course using a lot of technology there's somebody along the way that really influenced you in my Jewish life Jake Feldman who was the founder of the modern commercial metals and from the building next door
is his name so he was he was a tremendous very involved and in the Jewish world specially Israel yeah when did you first learn about him when I came with commercial medals so that was nineteen seventy februari 70 because first few years I didn't know him that well but as I you know as time went on I got to know him extremely well of course now in your lifetime you've lived through so many momentous occasions you know he lived through a couple of wars we had a president assassinated here in Dallas something good of course the first moon landing in 69 the tragedy of 911
is there something that really stood out in the National Front that really affected you in your life I don't know that there was a single incident I think it probably was was a combination of things but I just all along especially as I got to see the rest of the world so much on my business travel this came to admire so much what what what we had accomplished in this country and what an opportunity that I that I that I had been given I'm not sure it I'm really not sure it could have happened anywhere else this ability to upward mobility because you know even
even places we think of it will maybe Canada but Australia that people tend to go to school close to home you know stay it's it's it's this is just that historically it's been different au in vibrant been married 47 years right your two children five grandkids what advice does grandad have for the next generation so I've seen how different each each generation is stay focused that's what that's what they are they stay stay focused and do out whatever you decide to do and ours are pretty young you know the oldest is 13 the youngest is 7 so they're still pretty young what I just say
whatever you do try and do it well whatever that's going to be here what's then thanks for doing this sure